Guys, how does it feel when your girl tells you not to cum yet?

When you tell your girl you feel like cumming while she's giving you a blowjob.. she stops blowing you, comes up... kisses you & says to you softly "don't cum yet..." while massaging your balls and perineum gently (not touching your penis) & keeps rubbing you there while kissing you... How does it make you feel? Does it slow u down from wanting to cum? What should she do to keep you from cumming?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • My first girlfriend used to do that to me. After she orgasmed, she brought me to the edge of orgasm, and when told her I'm about to cum, she stopped, and just kissed me and told me to hold it back for her. But she would just totally stop and then send me back home, telling me not to finish it myself. Of cause I was still super horny, I just felt like I'm still having sex, I could still smell her on my face and fingers. I fell asleep with a hardon, dreamt of her, and woke up with a hardon. And I couldnt wait to see her again :)
    But I hated it when she did that, I just wanted to cum so badly. Some years after we broke, I totally loved it haha

    • Oh.. that's abit mean.. I wouldn't send him home without cumming.. And I think its great that you were able to not touch urself even though u were so horny.. most guys would probably jack it off it they were sent home.

  • That's just her having fun with his frustration. His reaction depends on the nature of the relationship. I tend to be very dominant sexually and my ladies love it so it one of them did that, I'd probably grab her, "force" her to her knees, and unleash a huge load in her mouth and make he swallow it, every drop.

    • Would u ever consider to be abit submissive & let her control u?

    • That's not who I am. A lot of couples switch but we're not among them.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Oh my no, I'd never try to stop or delay him from cumming. I do just the opposite. I encourage him to cum. I'm not pushy and I don't pressure him. I try to be as positive, encouraging, eager, excited and extremely enthusiastic as I can be. I let him know I love cum and that I love swallowing his cum.

    • I understand what you're saying... I don't do it all the time. I just feel that sometimes the love making can last longer :)

  • I saw your comment, you think oral is love making? I think that's really cool.

    • Well he's making love to my mouth.. no?

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  • I'm interested to see opinions on this

    • Yes me too!

    • Me too!

  • 1st... She knows not to touch my balls;-P

    I think it is fun to tease/be teased... can make it more intense. Plus she knows that it will only be "Worse";-P for her when it's my turn;-*

    • Ahhh... that's the plus side of teasing.. getting it back :)

    • Yeah... I Love it when She BEGS;-P

  • I wouldn't be a fan of that

  • Feels amazing, means she wants it to last and is having fun which in return makes me happy and I'll try to stay away from cumming for a while.

  • I feel like this is something I would do Lol I'm curious to see what the guys say 😏😊

    • It all starts to throb, when you ask him not to cum and tease at the same time to most guys it would have a boosting effect and push towards an orgasm, but since there's no touching it can't happen and the guy would be only begging for it. So hot! :)

    • @Summer_Bunny and that's an answer from a guy :) lol

  • thats not ever gonna happen.

  • Too sexy

  • Holding back is hard to do, but in my case the longer i hold back on it the better the build up is. I shot out a bigger load with a lot of force that can shot across the room.

    • Oh wow! So it would mean if u came into her, it would feel a lot better than the other times?

    • If she would like that more than yeah she would love it. And the clean up is a team effort.

  • if its on the edge its not possible to back, if it before a while it would slower down the pace but she should have to leave the dick for a while.

  • We'd be in for a big explosion later.

  • Never stop when giving BJ.. ruins it.

    • So ur the type to want a bj all the way without sex?

    • No. Have full BJ, then after I reload, have sex.

  • That sounds fun and hot!