My Girlfriend Doesn't Moan During Oral Sex. Is That Bad?

[Anonymous]

I want more of a female or females perspective on this. I am pretty experienced in the sexuality area,but my girlfriend isn't.I am her first,and I am the first guy to give her oral sex.The first time I gave her oral sex,she did have an orgasm and she even got all teary eyed.But she didn't moan.And I've done it to her quite a few times. She breaths hard,she pushes my head into her "ahem" and she twitches I guess you could call it and she tells me she's had an orgasm. I do trust her and love her.I'm not comparing her at all because I would never do that,but every other girl I've been with was vocal. Are some girls not vocal?Is it a bad thing?

[Anonymous]

yeah some girs don't make noises. It doesn't always mean its not good to her, and the fact that she has showed you other ways that she was enjoying it by pushin your head in, that should tell you right there that you are doin just fine. She just doesn't moan as a way to express her pleasure like most girls who are most of the time faking it. She's more in the moment, quiet, concentrating on the pleasure than trying to make noises to excite you. I know you want to hear her moan but its just not what she does.

[blahblah00]

If she is breathing hard, pushing your head down and shaking a bit then she is definitely loving it. I would just say that she may not be moaning because it may be hurting a little.. especially if she is unexperienced. If you tease her a little bit that will help her be more vocal too. Try doing it really slowly and that should help a lot.

[shay135]

its normal for girls not to make noise even if they have a great orgasm don't worry about it. I'm that way too.

[lelebear]

Well some girls are vocal and some are not it doesn't mean you are not pleasing her. She may also get more vocal the more comfortable she is with you. Or she may just be quiet during oral that is how I am I don't really moan when getting oral but am really loud during regular sex.