What is the difference between a girl orgasming and cumming?

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I have seen pussy muscles contract when are orgasmed. I have had one girl ooze a white substance out of her vagina with basically no stimulation (just a finger in) and she didn't orgasm in the sense that her pussy muscles contracted. In fact, in the over 1000 times we had sex, she never orgasmed in that her pussy muscles contracted. Do most girls have a clear substance instead of a white one? What is this substance called?

I know the "squirting," is something different. I know where it comes from, but I'm not sure how it relates to orgasm.

Also, aren't there different types of female orgasms? Vaginal, clitoral, g-spot, and someone told me anal once? Which type feels the best? Can all girls achieve all four? Are anal orgasms a real thing?

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I just remembered my answer. The purpose of the female orgasm (muscle contractions) is to bring the sperm closer to the egg.

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Anonymous

It's a bit damp down there all the time. White discharge is normal during some times of the month. It's not cum the way semen is. We create lubricant or "get wet" when we're aroused to prepare for penetration. If it's the time of the month her normal fluids are whiteish, it can obviously mix when she's aroused.

Orgasm is the rhythmic contractions that you notice.

There's mixed theories of there are different kinds of orgasms. Now, it seems that the clit may be much larger than originally thought, but some of it is internal.

As far as I understand, anal orgasms aren't a thing. Any orgasm there is the result of indirect stimulation or, more commonly, reacharound rubbing of her clit.

Men have orgasms from anal penetration because it presses their prostrate, but this doesn't exist in women.

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WillowTree | 1.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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Girls secret moisture down there when we're aroused. Vagina's are naturally wet anyway because they clean themselves out on a regular basis with discharge. It can be white or clear or brown even. While aroused it's just meant for lubrication because our body is anticipating that a dick is coming soon.

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cpzpbx3 | 793 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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The white or clear stuff is like precum. It just lubricates everything in preparation for sex.
An orgasm is actually reaching climax, though sometimes women become more soaked when they reach this point as well.

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So the orgasm is the contraction of the muscles, right? Does any fluid get released that is analogous to a man's ejaculation?
cpzpbx3

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Not necessarily. Like I said, there is usually some kind of fluid, but nothing to compare to male ejaculate.
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Yes, but the fluid could have been there before the orgasm.

I just remembered the answer. The purpose of the female orgasm is to bring sperm closer to the egg.

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Asker

So the orgasm is the contraction of the muscles, right? Does any fluid get released that is analogous to a man's ejaculation?

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cpzpbx3

Not necessarily. Like I said, there is usually some kind of fluid, but nothing to compare to male ejaculate.

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Asker

Yes, but the fluid could have been there before the orgasm.

I just remembered the answer. The purpose of the female orgasm is to bring sperm closer to the egg.

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somebodysaycheese

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the clear stuff is a natural lubricant. the white stuff is cum.

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In a girl, "cum" is lubricant, right? What is the "cum" released in response to?

I've heard that some girls don't produce white "cum," and only do the clear stuff.
somebodysaycheese

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If a girl cums ahe producs the white stuff
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But she can produce that before or without an orgasm. I've seen it. That's just lubrication.
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somebodysaycheese

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yes, its from her cervix .

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Asker

In a girl, "cum" is lubricant, right? What is the "cum" released in response to?

I've heard that some girls don't produce white "cum," and only do the clear stuff.

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somebodysaycheese

If a girl cums ahe producs the white stuff

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Asker

But she can produce that before or without an orgasm. I've seen it. That's just lubrication.

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somebodysaycheese

yes, its from her cervix .

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jacquesvol | 17K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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The same thing, described by two different persons.

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Not the same at all. And you're 70?

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Not the same at all. And you're 70?

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Anonymous

Orgasm is the sensation you get after being penetrated but some women don't necessarily release cum after sex.

Oragsm = heightened feeling or climax
Cumming = white substance sometimes, not all, released after the orgasm

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But the white substance isn't "released"...

It just comes from the inside of the vagina, even before an orgasm is achieved

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Asker

But the white substance isn't "released"...

It just comes from the inside of the vagina, even before an orgasm is achieved

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fauchelevent | 10.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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As far as I'm aware, orgasming and cumming is the same thing, no?

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Not according to others. How can women know so little about their bodies?
fauchelevent

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Meh, I have always understood orgasming and cumming to be the same thing in men's bodies too. Same way fucking and shagging are the same thing.
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Okay but the difference is that "cum" in a girl is lubricant. The orgasm is the contraction of muscles. The purpose of the female orgasm is to contract the muscles so that the sperm goes deeper inside the vagina and meets the egg.

In males, orgasm and cum (ejaculation) are not the same thing. They happen within possibly milliseconds of each other in males, but they are not one and the same. A male can orgasm even before reaching the age of puberty, before their body is capable of producing semen. The purpose of the male ejaculation fluid is to carry and nourish sperm into the female, which hopefully is helped on it's path by the contraction of the woman's vagina due to orgasm.

The female "cum" has nothing to do with carrying reproductive cells. As we all know, the female reproductive cell is the egg that looks all bloody when it's unfertilized.
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WillowTree

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They are the same thing.
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@WillowTree they are not the same thing. The orgasm is the contraction of the muscles designed to deliver the sperm to the egg.

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Asker

Not according to others. How can women know so little about their bodies?

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fauchelevent

Meh, I have always understood orgasming and cumming to be the same thing in men's bodies too. Same way fucking and shagging are the same thing.

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Asker

Okay but the difference is that "cum" in a girl is lubricant. The orgasm is the contraction of muscles. The purpose of the female orgasm is to contract the muscles so that the sperm goes deeper inside the vagina and meets the egg.

In males, orgasm and cum (ejaculation) are not the same thing. They happen within possibly milliseconds of each other in males, but they are not one and the same. A male can orgasm even before reaching the age of puberty, before their body is capable of producing semen. The purpose of the male ejaculation fluid is to carry and nourish sperm into the female, which hopefully is helped on it's path by the contraction of the woman's vagina due to orgasm.

The female "cum" has nothing to do with carrying reproductive cells. As we all know, the female reproductive cell is the egg that looks all bloody when it's unfertilized.

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WillowTree

They are the same thing.

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Asker

@WillowTree they are not the same thing. The orgasm is the contraction of the muscles designed to deliver the sperm to the egg.

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Anonymous

well i just know that vaginal discharge is white but when getting wet it's usually transparent i also had to laugh at ''pussy muscles''

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Vaginal discharge? Is that something that a doctor should look at or something sexual?
Opinion Owner

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no it's actually just a white fluid that comes out once in a while, (everyday in my case) can happen anytime it carries away bacteria and other stuff, it basically keeps the vagina clean
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Does every girl have this? This is different from the lubricating fluid that results from a woman's arousal, right?
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Opinion Owner

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yes the majority, that's actually the stuff that smells so bad, yes it does have nothing to do with arousal but you might have just forced it out someway because you had sex, nothing abnormal

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Vaginal discharge? Is that something that a doctor should look at or something sexual?

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Opinion Owner

no it's actually just a white fluid that comes out once in a while, (everyday in my case) can happen anytime it carries away bacteria and other stuff, it basically keeps the vagina clean

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Asker

Does every girl have this? This is different from the lubricating fluid that results from a woman's arousal, right?

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Opinion Owner

yes the majority, that's actually the stuff that smells so bad, yes it does have nothing to do with arousal but you might have just forced it out someway because you had sex, nothing abnormal

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anonman32

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orgasming is where you cum.

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SoAddicted

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It's the same thing dude

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Really? So what fluid is released when the muscles contract? An orgasm is just the muscle contraction.

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Really? So what fluid is released when the muscles contract? An orgasm is just the muscle contraction.

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frecklejuice

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It's the same thing.

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No it's not. It's not the same in guys, either.

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Asker

No it's not. It's not the same in guys, either.

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sicosico | 2.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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Same to me

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No way Jose. I know the difference.
sicosico

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Tell me then
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Cum is lubrication.

Orgasm is the contraction of muscles.

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Asker

No way Jose. I know the difference.

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sicosico

Tell me then

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Asker

Cum is lubrication.

Orgasm is the contraction of muscles.

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Table20

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nothing bro

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