What is the difference between a girl orgasming and cumming?

I have seen pussy muscles contract when are orgasmed. I have had one girl ooze a white substance out of her vagina with basically no stimulation (just a finger in) and she didn't orgasm in the sense that her pussy muscles contracted. In fact, in the over 1000 times we had sex, she never orgasmed in that her pussy muscles contracted. Do most girls have a clear substance instead of a white one? What is this substance called? I know the "squirting," is something different. I know where it comes from, but I'm not sure how it relates to orgasm. Also, aren't there different types of female orgasms? Vaginal, clitoral, g-spot, and someone told me anal once? Which type feels the best? Can all girls achieve all four? Are anal orgasms a real thing?
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I just remembered my answer. The purpose of the female orgasm (muscle contractions) is to bring the sperm closer to the egg.
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  • It's a bit damp down there all the time. White discharge is normal during some times of the month. It's not cum the way semen is. We create lubricant or "get wet" when we're aroused to prepare for penetration. If it's the time of the month her normal fluids are whiteish, it can obviously mix when she's aroused.

    Orgasm is the rhythmic contractions that you notice.

    There's mixed theories of there are different kinds of orgasms. Now, it seems that the clit may be much larger than originally thought, but some of it is internal.

    As far as I understand, anal orgasms aren't a thing. Any orgasm there is the result of indirect stimulation or, more commonly, reacharound rubbing of her clit.

    Men have orgasms from anal penetration because it presses their prostrate, but this doesn't exist in women.

  • Girls secret moisture down there when we're aroused. Vagina's are naturally wet anyway because they clean themselves out on a regular basis with discharge. It can be white or clear or brown even. While aroused it's just meant for lubrication because our body is anticipating that a dick is coming soon.

  • The white or clear stuff is like precum. It just lubricates everything in preparation for sex.
    An orgasm is actually reaching climax, though sometimes women become more soaked when they reach this point as well.

    • So the orgasm is the contraction of the muscles, right? Does any fluid get released that is analogous to a man's ejaculation?

    • Not necessarily. Like I said, there is usually some kind of fluid, but nothing to compare to male ejaculate.

    • Yes, but the fluid could have been there before the orgasm. I just remembered the answer. The purpose of the female orgasm is to bring sperm closer to the egg.

  • the clear stuff is a natural lubricant. the white stuff is cum.

    • In a girl, "cum" is lubricant, right? What is the "cum" released in response to? I've heard that some girls don't produce white "cum," and only do the clear stuff.

    • If a girl cums ahe producs the white stuff

    • But she can produce that before or without an orgasm. I've seen it. That's just lubrication.

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  • The same thing, described by two different persons.

    • Not the same at all. And you're 70?

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  • As far as I'm aware, orgasming and cumming is the same thing, no?

    • Not according to others. How can women know so little about their bodies?

    • Meh, I have always understood orgasming and cumming to be the same thing in men's bodies too. Same way fucking and shagging are the same thing.

    • Okay but the difference is that "cum" in a girl is lubricant. The orgasm is the contraction of muscles. The purpose of the female orgasm is to contract the muscles so that the sperm goes deeper inside the vagina and meets the egg. In males, orgasm and cum (ejaculation) are not the same thing. They happen within possibly milliseconds of each other in males, but they are not one and the same. A male can orgasm even before reaching the age of puberty, before their body is capable of producing semen. The purpose of the male ejaculation fluid is to carry and nourish sperm into the female, which hopefully is helped on it's path by the contraction of the woman's vagina due to orgasm. The female "cum" has nothing to do with carrying reproductive cells. As we all know, the female reproductive cell is the egg that looks all bloody when it's unfertilized.

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  • It's the same thing.

    • No it's not. It's not the same in guys, either.

  • Same to me

    • No way Jose. I know the difference.

    • Tell me then

    • Cum is lubrication. Orgasm is the contraction of muscles.

  • It's the same thing dude

    • Really? So what fluid is released when the muscles contract? An orgasm is just the muscle contraction.

  • orgasming is where you cum.

  • nothing bro

  • well i just know that vaginal discharge is white but when getting wet it's usually transparent i also had to laugh at ''pussy muscles''

    • Vaginal discharge? Is that something that a doctor should look at or something sexual?

    • no it's actually just a white fluid that comes out once in a while, (everyday in my case) can happen anytime it carries away bacteria and other stuff, it basically keeps the vagina clean

    • Does every girl have this? This is different from the lubricating fluid that results from a woman's arousal, right?

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  • Orgasm is the sensation you get after being penetrated but some women don't necessarily release cum after sex.

    Oragsm = heightened feeling or climax
    Cumming = white substance sometimes, not all, released after the orgasm

    • But the white substance isn't "released"... It just comes from the inside of the vagina, even before an orgasm is achieved