Why are guys praised for FFM threesomes and women bashed on MMF threesomes?

[Anonymous]

I've very recently become interested in having a mmf threesome. I've had multiple ffm threesomes and really enjoyed them (I'm bisexual). Thinking about it, though, I would never have one. Not because I'm not okay with MY sexuality - because I am - but because I feel like any guys that I did it with would make jokes about me for doing it and make me feel like it was something to be ashamed of. I get that this is the way it is for a lot of things in society, especially when it comes to sex. Men are praised, women are disgraced. Thoughts?

[Anonymous]

I believe any human being, no matter what gender, involved in any sexual act outside the sanctity of marriage deserves to be rebuked, and needs to turn away from such activity before it's too late.

Too many people like that are unaware of the serious implications such behavior has on their own wellbeing, and the entire future of society. It confuses relationships, causes unnecessary heartbreak, destroys families, turns their children's lives upside down, opens the door to STDs, and much, much more.

Men should NEVER be praised for defiling women, and themselves by having sex without marriage. It goes against the very reason we were created for in the first place. We were created in the image of God to reflect God's majestic glory across the entire universe. Yet, the enemy in his wickedness is always trying to pervert the image of God through sexual immorality, and people who condone such behavior are just as wicked.

So I urge you, don't be enslaved by the desires of your flesh; that's only going to trap you in a hopeless world of pointlessness. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, so you will be able to discern God's will, what is good and acceptable and perfect! (Romans 12:2)

God bless you, and be safe!

[SoWhAt249]

It's always been like that... If a man sleeps with more women (not necessarily at the exact time) he's considered "cool"...
If a woman does it she considered a slut with no self-respect and other stuff...
And I think this is because a girl looks so overpowered during intercourse with multiple men...
Have you seen a MMF porn? The girls always look like they'd rather die than continue getting rammed from two sides, while during a FFM, the man is praised to dominate or be dominated by multiple girls...

[CheerGirl38139]

It's no different than the general double standard of sex partners for males vs females.

Everyone here knows it, and guys will troll about it and say fucktarded shit like "sloots gon sloot"... while most of em think it's cool for guys to bang a thousand girls. Girls are "sluts" if they have more than 1 or 2 or 3 prior sex partners.

Because most female slut shamers and the vast majority of guys just simply can't handle that women can be sexually confident just like a male.

Their fragile little egos are constantly worried about how many dicks have been in your mouth, but they expect for a girl to be ok with how many coochies have been touched by their lips or their little wee-wee.

Down vote helmet on. 💪🙋

For those that don't know. My number is zero. Like it's anyone's phucking business. ✌

[Fearless_banana]

Sloots gon sloot. Hey I only save that on occasions when they are actually sloots bruv.

[CheerGirl38139]

@Fearless_banana at least you realize that you're a sloot yourself bro. 😉

[Stardust143]

So much win in this post. +10

[CheerGirl38139]

@Stardust143 lol thanks 👊

[Asker]

Ahaha omg! Yasss!!

[Fearless_banana]

I'm saving myself cheergirl. Still a virgin.

[CheerGirl38139]

@Fearless_banana hahaha... I wouldn't touch your dick with YOUR hand. I might watch you grudge bang one of those slut shaming prima donna resting bitch faces tho. Lol.

[Fearless_banana]

Lmfao. Ay man. Only 18 STIs. Don't judge

[Red_Arrow]

Cheergirl, I find myself loving you on some of your opinions! You are fantastic!

[CheerGirl38139]

@Red_Arrow I luv you too sometimes. Then sometimes you're like annoying uncle. 😂😂

[Red_Arrow]

Yeah, I knew you felt the annoyance. But at least you can rely on me to be honest.

[CheerGirl38139]

@Red_Arrow same with me. I have about a 20% asshole rating... but I never mislead people with bullshit that I think they wanna hear. If you don't wanna know... don't ask. 🙋

[Stardust143]

Threesome's aren't my thing, but my thoughts for you - find guys who don't have such a narrow-minded attitude. You're all involved in this, so there's no excuse for treating one member (you) as if you in particular have something to be ashamed of. There are men out there who respect and encourage female sexuality, and won't put you down or think less of you for enjoying what they too enjoy. I hope you find them.

[Stardust143]

Just to add to what I wrote above, the more open-minded men are also the ones more worth giving your time and sexual attention to, because they actually value you as a human being with her own desires. Not those other guys, who I wouldn't give the time of day.

[AriadneSky]

bc gus are homophobic. bc they dont want to be 'like' women which is how they see homosexuality.

[JuicyBrain]

Unfortunately, I fear you are not so far from the truth...

[sa230e]

I've got nothing against women having an MMF threesome.

Sex is fun, it's supposed to be enjoyed. I'm not going to fault anyone for doing it. If it's as much fan as an FFM is for a guy, how could I blame them? As long as every one is of age and it's all consensual, I have no problem with it.

[hnrya20]

They are bashed on both sides. When I talk about mine with men, they think it's awesome. When I tell women, I'm a man whore and they think it's gross. It's vice versa for women. Some women will tell you it's cool, while a guy will call you a slut. I think it's all about insecurities and jealousy.

[Justme12]

I don't bash them. I like to see a woman get off with 2 guys in her.

[Sabbath1]

Right... it's fucking hot

[kittykatbrat]

You can live your life how YOU WANT
OR
You can pander to social norms and small minded blinkered people who don't matter.

Pick one.

[Bandit74]

I don't really see how men are "praised". Maybe somewhat by other men but I have NEVER heard about a girl praising a guy for sleeping around.

One guy might congratulate another guy for being able to get a threesome because it's not something that m's easy for guys to do. Many guys struggle to get one girl to fuck him in a relationship so a guy who can get two girls to fuck him at the same time without commiting to either of them is pretty impressive.

Most guys don't bash women who have had threesome but they may not want to commit to them. Guys just don't like the image of two guys tag teaming their girlfriend or thinking about how these other guys got to have you in a way he never will. That they got to see this really kinky/slutty version if you and that they didn't have to commit to you. Thinking about all that decreases his emotional attraction towards her and makes him less likely to want to commit.

[ThisDudeHere]

This^^

[Sabbath1]

Threesomes are hot and my girl likes them

[VirginiaBeachBum]

Where do you see this bashing from? I enjoy and encourage all manner of threesomes, as long as the people involved have communicated their desires, limitations, expectations, etc. before everything goes down. My wife and I had many FFM threesomes (she was bi, too) and several MFM ones with a guy we knew. They were absolutely great fun. So don't fear what others will say. Just do what makes you feel right.

[Sabbath1]

I'm jealous

[Fearless_banana]

It's the same reason why women who slept around are mocked more than men.

[fuqthegovt]

It's just another form of slut-shaming. Guys get hook up with many partners in a short amount of time and they are popular ladies' men or studs. Girls do it and they are sluts and whores. Just a double standard started centuries ago by some morality police and old habits die hard.

[FakeName123]

Sexual economics. Women control the supply, men the demand. Men have to achieve, women just need to receive. Thus a man who gets two girls to sleep with him achieved more than a girl who sleeps with two guys.

[Dawnofanewhorizon]

Women are only "disgraced" because they allow themselves to be. Do whatever you want providing you aren't harming anyone and just shut up moaning.

[TheButterfly]

Because it makes it seem like you "tamed" the other sex or that you're super irresitable to the other sex

[slimstiffy]

lol.. u have any idea how ard it might be for an average guy to achieve a ffm? a female could randomly approach two friends and get one (mmf). there lies your answer.
but tbh , while i think its hot in porn,
i dont really like either irl.
but if you want it , you COULD maybe get it discreetly. longa as they and you arr clean..
well, yeah your still smart for thinking it over. if discovered , thats enough to get a sloot rep

[John_Doesnt]

Double standard, too bad. Just enjoy the double standards you receive as a woman.

[Regulatus]

Because a guy in a FMF is quite the dude. A girl in a MFM is just a tramp.

[Asker]

You're just rephrasing the facts. I'm asking for an intelligent answer as to why it is that way? Not just because that the way it is. A real answer.

[Regulatus]

Look at it this way: A key that can open 100 locks is a pretty awesome key. A lock that can be opened by 100 keys is a shitty lock.

[Stardust143]

Right, because human beings are so similar to inanimate objects lol.

[Asker]

So then.. if girls.. as the keys in the analogy that you just gave me, can sleep with multiple guys, they're awesome. And guys that sleep around are shitty. I get what you're trying to say but im showing you that I can easily be flipped. Sex is fun for everyone, guys get to go out and enjoy it; while girls have to pretend that's it's only fun with someone special? Why do girls have to be the shitty lock? Not to be self righteous or anything but I don't let every "key" "unlock" me, but if I want someone to, they do.

[Regulatus]

@Stardust143 -- It's called an analogy.

[Stardust143]

A shitty analogy.

[Regulatus]

The "flip" doesn't really work. As you said, I'm just rephrasing the facts. Facts are facts, whether we like them or not. Women are impressed by a man with multiple "conquests." It increases his sexual market value in their eyes. A man is repulsed by a woman with a high cock count. Always been that way and likely always will. Exceptions only prove the rule.

[Regulatus]

@Stardust143 --Actually, a damn good one. Cuts right to the point. Sorry if reality offends you, sugar-tits.

[Stardust143]

It's not offensive, it's just wrong. An unfortunate mentality.

[Maxemeister]

Nobody praises threesomes lmao

[anonman32]

bullshit, why would anyone joke about your sexual activities? thats just petty of them. dont mind them OP they are below you.

[JennieF]

You might enjoy it.

[LOGESH94]

Most Guys like it having with same time..

[Scared_Banana]

If a girl has a MMF threesome then she's a sloot in my book.

[Asker]

Explain why

[Scared_Banana]

sloots gonna sloot

[Red_Arrow]

Asker, this is a perfect example of what you were saying.

[Sabbath1]

Not true

[ice_vampire]

I dont shame women for that.