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Girls, Do you ever feel really powerless during sex?

I have always had a very dominant kind of personality and I've only ever slept with shy guys up until now. I just don't like the whole alpha male thing for some reason. I have been seeing a guy who is potential long term material and outside of the bedroom he is the typical shy guy that I prefer to date. However, once we get down to it in the bedroom he completely changes. He becomes very dominant and very very skilled with sex. Last week was our first time and I spent the whole time pinned down on my back and I've never been fucked so hard in my life. He also ate me out and fingered me. I had 3 orgasms in one night. After a while I just couldn't do anything anymore. My muscles felt like jelly and I felt almost like I was high. All I could do was lie there and take it. Its the first time I have ever been "dominated" by a man and it kind of felt awesome and scary at the same time. Normally I am a control freak but he managed to take that off me and Im not used to being so powerless so I was a little scared as well. Im not saying it was bad or that he did anything wrong. He was great. Im just having trouble processing how I felt. Has anyone else ever just been totally dominated like that? How do you deal with being so powerless in such a intense moment?
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  • No, I want to have all the power and he should feel powerless. That's why I'm sexually dominant.

  • If its only during sex than its ok for the man to be the dominant one. I think its sexy.

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  • Nope, never, I'm always dominant and on top all the time, all of my boyfriends were powerless and pinned while I was riding them, and they all liked it a lot.

  • Definitely. I want to be dominated and left completely powerless under his control.

    • did you ever get scared or worried though. Im so used to being in charge that I don't know how to just let him have me

    • Yes, and that's what makes things really intense. The sense of uncertainty and helplessness makes me more excited. I just want to show that I'm complete his, and no one else's.

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