My boyfriend only loves women with big boobs?

[Anonymous]

he loves women with huge boobs, he only reads porn magazines (probably porn videos as well) with women who have big boobs he doesn't like small chested women at all? I have big boobs, i'm an E-cup and i'm kinda worried that he's only dating me because of my chest? I mean what would have been if my chest was small? he always tells me how ''lucky'' he is to have a girl with big boobs and i think this big boobs fetish is a bit too much for me, i saw a stunning lady at the mall yesterday and i told him to look at her and he said ''totally un-feminine, she is way too petite, she has like no chest at all'' and well she was skinny but it looked great tbh she had a beautiful face! he even has a preference and told me big boobs, small waist, wide hips combo would be heaven and this all kinda refers to my body type and i once asked him if he was dating me because of that and he said ''well i don't think I'd have asked you out otherwise because you are just my type and who would go after someone who's not their type'' i guess he's right in some kind of way, you can't change a persons view on something but i was kinda sad, he also said that he has grown to love me and wouldn't care anymore.. i am kinda weirded out here though, he is also quite popular and handsome, i know many girls who'd be lucky to have him and this worries me as well, he's picky but there are many girls who are much more beautiful than me at school, we've been together for always 5 months now and he makes me happy but he is just too focused on boobs that i even get insecure and compare myself to other big chested girls Also i have never met a boy who's first impression wasn't ''nice tits'', i could tell just by their behaviour and stares and it's always been like that not looking for sympathy or anything but just saying that so that it won't make him look like ''the worst boyfriend ever''

[Lovelinefan]

You have certain physical characteristics that he's attracted to, maybe that's what caught his attention in the first place. But if he likes you for who you are and the relationship is good, is that a bad thing?

Maybe he wouldn't date you if you had small boobs... but then again maybe you wouldn't date him if he were out of shape and dressed like a slob.

Physical attraction is an important part of a relationship, but it's not the whole thing. Otherwise I'm sure he'd be dating one of his "Busty" porno mags instead.

by the way, who reads porno magazines anymore? It's 2016 for God sake! Do this guy a favor and tell him that Pornhub exists!

[Asker]

he does do both, he reads these magazines at school when bored don't ask me why and thanks your opinion made me happy!

[JuicyBrain]

So you are looking for ways to be depressed, insecure and fuck it all up if I understand you well? You should obviously make a big problem out of it and eventually piss him off enough that it will simpler for him to dump you and find another chested girl who will probably also be looking for ways to be miserable just like you. For god's sake ladies, can't you just stop and smell the flowers? Why do you willingly complicate things and create situations with the only purpose of feeling miserable?
The guy likes you! Don't give him reasons to change that!
Also, stop making other people responsible for insecurities that you created in your own minds.

[outmyroom]

You have an E-cup you lucky girl. And I must say the boobs are a plus but I think he is dating you because he likes you.

[Shelbyshelbs]

We all are attracted to certain attributes of our SO. It's all good😀

[GoldenHearts]

Hey man, I mean all relationships have looks involved. Look at the big picture! Does he ever tell you have nice and kind you are? Talk about your smile or personality?

[PurpleTeardrops2]

He's a typical young teenage BOY. He has a lot of growing up to do, so don't worry about him too much.

[guylow]

Spoken like a true flat chested little GIRL.

[PurpleTeardrops2]

@guylow pimple dick bye. I'm far from flat cheated

[Intraluminal]

He likes what he likes, just as most women like what they like. Why are you judging him for this, when you would not think twice if a girl said she liked tall guys or muscular guys or lanky guys or whatever?

The important thing is that, AFTER the initial attraction, we come to care about the person, and it seems like he cares about you. I think you're both lucky that you fit each other's preferences so well. Enjoy it. Don't over think it.

[Letmetellyouaboutit]

I have always loved small perky boobs better than massive tits, so I don't understand men like your boyfriend. An A or B cup on a fit woman is perfect for me

[QuestionMan]

Every guy looking for a girlfriend first thinks "Is this girl attractive?" and then thinks "Is she compatible to me?". If you weren't attractive he wouldn't have approached you and I'm sure if you didn't find him attractive you wouldn't be dating him either.
A person's appearance is what gets the first 20 seconds of attention, the personality is what keeps the person committed in a relationship.

[COCOCHANEL]

how can you not
be happy about this?

[blondfrog]

Don't worry boobs are like drugs for men they are natures heroin ;P we can't control our penises

[anonman32]

if a girl prefers tall guys over short ones, does that mean she only dates him for his hight? no not at all. it is just a preference.

[Cowboy6666]

He is currently with u. What else you want..

[hotstuffSRD]

Tell him that you don't like your big boobs and you're going to have a surgery soon to reduce it's size
Then see what's his reaction is :P
Also ask if he'll leave you after it 😶?

[Kelly6]

Mostly every guy loves big boobs

[Sojex]

As long as he treats you right and doesn't objectify you what does it matter?

[guylow]

You have a normal boyfriend. You need to change! You need to accept and LOVE your big boobs. If you really start getting in to your tits in a big way he'll love it and you'll take your relationship to the next level. If he thinks he's lucky now, watch his reaction if you change.

[Bluegold007]

Well... He's with you right?

[sdfsdfsdfsd]

Learn to love your body & appreciate your genetics. You becoming insecure & self-conscious over your breasts will only harm the relationship.

If he makes an effort to show that he does love you as a person, than I see no harm in him loving you for your physical side.

Sexual attraction is important to a healthy relationship. Be proud that you can offer what turns your man on. I know couples where the woman would even breastfeed her partner & it serves as both a emotional & sexual event that the 2 can share.

[licksometonight]

Well I know that I would rather suck on milk than a empty pacifier

[boalaa2003]

E cup is a wonderful size more to play with.

[Smokeyb]

What if you had breast cancer GOD FORBID! but you had to get them removed? Or you wanted to reduce there size down to a full c? Would he break up with you? I love a boob size from a full C to a big boobs like yours! Not trying to be disrespectful. There is SO MUCH more to a woman than her boobs!! Inside and out!

[ChezzD]

I wouldn't overcomplicate it, you're his type.

[Anonymous]

It's pretty normal, he picked you because your his type and you must have a good personality because no guy will stay with a bitch so just be happy that he likes all parts of you