Girl would let me finger her and touch her all over but no sex... very confusing, first time that has ever happened to me. Any clues?
So after our date (the day after we met at a party and made out) walking around in the city, holding hands, we went back to my place and were having fun talking with the occasional pause for making out. Needless to say, things started to escalate and fast forward a couple of minutes, I had her almost completely naked on my bed.
She refused to completely take out her pants, so she had them on her ankles. No biggie, I thought. After making out and fingering her for a couple of minutes, she said to me between her moans: "Touch whatever you want but we are not having sex". I didn't even pay attention to this because the moaning was very distracting and turning me on. After she came, I was so turned on I wanted to fuck her, but she said: "I told you it's not gonna happen". I tried regardless but she got serious, so of course I stopped. I layed down beside her on the bed completely confused and to be honest, a little frustrated. She sat beside me touching my abs underneath my shirt while I was laying there with my eyes closed. After a couple of minutes she layed her head on my chest without saying a word and closed her eyes.
This is a first for me and I find this behaviour very confusing, the boundaries don't make sense to me. I don't need you to tell me what to do to have sex with her, that's not the point. I just wanna understand what was going on in her mind. Perhaps some of you girls can enlighten me or some guy out there already figured this one out. Thanks for taking the time to educate me ;).
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