Guys, why doesn't he like my dirty talk?

[Catycatt]

I love to please my boyfriend. We have a lot of sex and he was my first so he kind of brought me out of my shell. He was the first guy I got on top of and he gets head whenever he wants it (2-5 times a day usually). He likes me to call him Daddy or Daddy Long so I started talking dirty to him during sex and foreplay. When I asked him if he liked the dirty talk he said he was into it, but last time we fucked he was going from behind and I was about to cum and screamed, "oh my god, fuck that little pussy daddy" and then he laughed (I felt like it was at me, don't mean to be oversensitive) and said "don't talk any more. No more words. Just moans." I don't know if that's meant to be hot or what... honestly it just made me embarrassed and afterwards I thought about it and ended up feeling like my performance as a sexual partner is inadequate. He's been with 14 other girls so I feel like I have a lot to live up to. After this I became too self-conscious to even get wet for him; combined with my prior lack of confidence I just don't feel attractive enough to even have sex lately. How do I get around this? What does he want? This dude still needs to get laid, I just want sex to be enjoyable for both of us. I hate acting.

[MrMysteryMan]

I don't think it's YOU per say that he was laughing at. Perhaps he felt you were laying it on too think, like trying to much to impress him or say shit that he feels was really only for his benefit. Sometimes we can tell when talk is sort of embellished, well some of us. From his experiences, perhaps he feels you are a bit over the top compared to others he's been with. So you shouldn't try to perform, just be your natural self when enjoying what's going on. Yes dirty talk is GREAT and sexy and it can be so good. But I suppose it's best when the dirty talk is believable, in that, it should fit with the person who's doing it and sound genuine. Maybe it's how you said it? Or that you don't usually say things like that when you are about to cum or cumming, then it seems like you're trying to say shit or something. It's way more sensual, if you ask me, hard, gutteral moans. I FUCKING love those. Those ones that sound like she's on the threshold of pain and pleasure, with that sensual, delicious growly groaning, then following with a "deeper" or "god yes like that" or even being really raunchily descriptive like, "I love how you make my filthy hole cream.", sort of deal. Or, perhaps he like Daddy when it's not sexual? But I'd talk to him about it. I think he still finds you very sexually attractive and loves to sex you whenever possible because you sound more than delicious to me and totally satisfying. Just don't overdo it is all. Stay honest to yourself and then that will show more sensuality and be more sexy than anything you can say.

[NJ_Casanova]

It was probably distracting to him. You need to talk to him and let him know about your concerns/feelings. He should reassure you about how much he loves you/sexy he finds you/how well you satisfy him.

[Try6Curious9]

I would have definitely enjoyed hearing that. Not sure what's wrong with him.

[giovannimontolivo]

That was supposed to be hot. He was pretty much trying to say that your moans are hot.