Guys (and girls), what are your thoughts on pegging?

[_littlekitten13]

For those who don't know what it means, pegging is a guy being fucked up the arse by a girl wearing a strap on. For the past year I've been more and more aroused at the thought of demasculating my partner and fucking him senseless. Being in control and making him wail like a little bitch as I fuck his tight little hole and he is bound up. Not only the thought of being a fem dom/dominatrix turn me on (a lot) but even just non bondage/hardcore sex with a man. I'm bisexual, and me and my partner have only just begun to dive into this ever growing fantasy of mine. He is a bit apprehensive when it comes to me doing him, but he's let me put a finger or two and a small vibrator up there, and lick it and he seemed to enjoy it a lot. We was talking about it today and he was wondering how other guys feel about this and what they think, as before I mentioned my fantasies to him he'd never really thought about or considered this kind of stuff. And I know a lot of guys wouldn't freely admit liking the idea of girls playing with or fucking their assholes, which in a way I understand but find it stupid. It's not needed, everyone should be allowed to be their own person and not get hated for it. So - what are your thoughts guys? Would you consider it? Do you secretly like the idea but haven't told anyone? Have you done it before? Did you like it? Would you do it again? Etc etc, I'd like to hear your stories. Also girls! Ladies, what do you think about this? 🙂 Thanks! ☺️

[Punzie_]

I have never tried it. I would definitely love to. It's on my list to do one day lol.

I have talked to many guys, ranging from 16-40, and I've noticed the younger someone is, generally they are more apprehensive to the idea of being pegged or even rimmed. Just because they are scared that will affect their masculinity or they will be gay. But there are a few guys I've met that were younger and they were not worried about that at all and seemed even more eager then I would be.

I am interested also in trying it in public, but not actual sex in public because that would turn me off. Just a vibrating butt plug or something or the kind to keep him on edge.

I'm not the type to always be dominant, but I'm more of a gentle dominant person than always firm and dominant. I can flip if need be or if I just want to do things for fun. I would let him do anal to me as well since it'd only be proper and a new experience. I knew a guy once who was like that, but rarely submissive as he only did it for change in pace and he would be pegged by his girl while still being dominant. Not something that you hear of often.

[Mydnite]

I LOVE IT. it is a big part of my heterosexual sex life. Many guys are opposed to this, but once they experience it, they will be begging for more. Seen it way too often, their pride gets in the way initially, but once they realize how hot and great it feels they will realize what they've been missing.

And I love wearing a strapon and doing the fucking, its an incredible high and gets me so hot and aroused, i can orgasm from it.

[Shawn58]

Whoa what there are actually guys who agree to do this. Jeez I don't see the appeal to be honest.

[_littlekitten13]

Thank you for your opinion, I have never done it to a guy but I have fucked a girl with a strap on and had the same feeling you described when you have with a man. I can imagine it being more pleasing to do to a male though, but hopefully soon I will find out. :p I agree. Men are too wrapped up in pride and ego to let a woman 'degrade' him as such; but I have heard a lot of stories where men have frowned upon it up until experiencing it themselves and loving it by the end of it.

[_littlekitten13]

@Shawn58 yes, a lot of men all ages, shapes and sizes enjoy pegging.

[Shawn58]

I mean by a women tho, I mean what's the appeal lol, I mean I never really understood the whole dominance thing. I've seen like thumbnails of this on porn sites but honestly it's kinda unbelievable that guys who wouldn't normally do it would just suddenly agree.

[Mydnite]

@Shawn58 of course. don't be so closed minded.

[Mydnite]

oh yeah me too, I always do it with women, it is a bit different with guys, you get more of a sense of power which feels great.

[Mydnite]

@Shawn58 don't knock it til you try it. you will be hooked, you're just afraid to be, thats all. It's like a drug.

[Shawn58]

I'm just a little weirded out about how much you enjoy this.

[_littlekitten13]

@Shawn58 each to their own is what I say. There's probably things you really enjoy that others would be 'weirded out' by..

[Mydnite]

@Shawn58 LOL, sorry to tell you, i really don't care

[Mydnite]

yeah like showing your dick to random girls, right?

[Shawn58]

I never said you did, chill out.

[Shawn58]

Look i didn't show my dick to you chill never said I was against it. Just chill lol it's all good

[Vadapo]

Very interesting reading! I have never been pegged with a strap on by a woman. A woman used a dildo on me a few times. I think it's hugely exciting and hot. I get very intense orgasms of it! I also believe that many men are too proud to try and feel it is unmanly to be penetrated.

[OnlyMeee]

I have been on the receiving end of it with my wife, and I have to admit the orgasm it ended with was out of this world, my knees were shaking, and it made me cum so hard, it felt amazing. Sadly my wife doesn't like it, so we no longer do this. Booooo

[Chaparrita]

I peg my husband whenever he lets me lol he had never done it before but now he loves it specially when i lick, eat his tight hole its an awesome experience and no reason to hide it and for the haters out there they dont know what there missing.

[_littlekitten13]

Awesome, hopefully I'll be able to ease my man into it like you have. ;) haha. Exactly! To be honest, I don't exactly know what I'm missing yet but I've dabbled in it and have fantasied about it for a long while now. :P

[fauchelevent]

I'd quite like to try it and have discussed it with my partner but it's not something that he's interested in so meh.

[_littlekitten13]

That sucks. >_< maybe one day, eh? :p

[mwin2030]

Yes I would consider it with the right girl. My thoughts is I'll try something at least once just for the experience of it. Will admit the idea is appealing, simply again because I'll try most anything once, even if it hurts. And yes, I have already done it before, because again, try anything. Yes, I'd do it again, but again, it would have to be with the right female. There is nothing wrong with your thoughts and desires. They are pretty typical in my experience. You shouldn't feel any shame or guilt because of what you want and desire. Your happiness is within your own hands to assure. That's the bottom line. If this is what turns you on and makes you happen, then so be it. End of story.

[_littlekitten13]

Likewise. :) cool, did you enjoy it? Thank you, it took me a while to be open with my thoughts about it as I know it's frowned upon but I prefer to be honest with my partner.

[mwin2030]

:) Yes. I did enjoy it. For various reasons. I admire your faith in yourself to open up and be honest with your thoughts now. I get the impression this wasn't always the case in your past. It is delightful that you've matured to the point where you feel you can open up about such a subject, despite it being frowned upon by others. There are things I personally enjoy that are frowned on by others as well, but that doesn't keep me from enjoying them. You have to live your life by your own hand. Don't let others pressure you into doing something differently, especially if it is not harming anyone.

[_littlekitten13]

Awesome! Thank you, yeah you're right. To be honest, no matter what you do there's always going to be someone who hates you for it. You'll end up miserable if you live your life trying to please everyone so you may as well live your life by being yourself and being happy because you're doing what you enjoy/what makes you happy. :)

[mwin2030]

Exactly correct. You can't please everyone all the time and you're only going to be able to please some of the people some of the time and not most of the time and that's even on your lucky days. You have the best philosophy. Enjoy your life. Don't let others take such happiness away from you and if you find something which makes you happy, then hold on to it with both hands and hold on tight. There's always going to be someone who is not going to be happy with what you do; who's going to hate you for who you are or what you're doing. Ignore them. Just be yourself.

[iCroissant]

Want a poll? Personally I'd totally do it. I'd ask my girl to do it for me. Men have a sort of gspot themselves in theregards that can cause them to cum. Even if it sounds a little gay, honestly, if it were a girl I'd be too turned on to care.

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2083184-girls-would-you-ever-ever-be-interested-in-pegging-guys-would-you

[_littlekitten13]

See that's what I mean, guys get slated for enjoying it as it apparently makes you gay. I think that's stupid, you're not gay if you like it as its a girl doing it. If it were a guy, it would make you gay. But even then, I hate that people get shamed for being a certain sexuality. It's stupid and childish and in my opinion disgusting and uncalled for. But I'm pleasantly surprised at the amount of guys that have openly admitting to liking it or wanting to try it who haven't posted as anonymous. :)

[MadeInAmerica]

No I never considered it and as I think about it now I don't ever want to try it. I'm not huge in anal play period be it my ass or anal with the wife. I'm also more of the dominate one in the bedroom so going to that far of extreme in being that submissive isn't a turn on for me either.

[EmpatheticLady]

@JSmuve loves it.

[JSmuve]

You weren't supposed to tell them! Now all of gag knows about how I let you peg me after I tore that ass open and dropped a load in your colon. I mean, woooooops.

[EmpatheticLady]

@JSmuve Jeez, just let 'em know everything why don't you.

[JSmuve]

Its tempting. Should I tell them how you got on all fours and let me ride you around the room like my own personal horse. I called you waddles, the gimpy horse because you were walking funny. Don't know why, though. Oh wait, ya I do.

[_littlekitten13]

Hahaha, awesome. :p

[EmpatheticLady]

@JSmuve 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I'm done.

[misskaraa99]

I can see how others would enjoy doing this, but personally I wouldn't be into it. I don't really like butt stuff in general, I don't like to recieve anal, and I don't want to give it.

[SarahsSummer]

Not my thing and I know it's not my guys thing. He won't even let me get a finger near there. Lol.

[TheOneAndOnlyBart]

No thanks, nothing's going up there.

[teawrecks]

I'm 1000000% turned off from the idea.

[ParamountArmada]

i do anal play on myself a lot but not as much as i used to, and yeah, i would consider it with a girl who wanted to.

[_littlekitten13]

Do you think you'd prefer it from a girl or from yourself?

[ParamountArmada]

most definitely from a girl, but i know my own technique so id have to be cautious with her doing it, i can get over crazy, and scream, and it could be too much too powerful, especially when i anal orgasm. because it can keep going. and i can't have it for too long.

[_littlekitten13]

Maybe show her how you like it and she can learn from you and watch until you cum, then she could try it out on you or you do it to her so she knows from that way also? :p I'd find that pretty hot.

[ParamountArmada]

true, but, she was never interested in doing that.

[_littlekitten13]

That's a shame. :/

[AviatorTom]

I've thought about pegging and would like to try it, but my SO isn't interested, so we enjoy each other in the usual ways.

[aftermath]

I would think its weird but if I'm in love then i would try it once

[Alexious]

I'm open to shit, so sure.. I'd probably like it 😂
I like girls with a dominant side tbh

[Fearless_banana]

Yeah dude no girl is sticking anything up my ass.

[Shawn58]

I don't just seems kinda crazy, I'm not judging

[feminismisnarcissism]

I'm HUGE into femdom but not so much pegging. I see it's typical... but so is cuckholding, also not my thing. I like the worship stuff-feet, pussy, ass, whatever... being bossed around and forced to please, perhaps some humiliation... but can't say I've ever even watched a pegging video.

But if it really turned the girl on, I'd be willing to try it for her sake lol, but I rarely say "no".

[_littlekitten13]

I would never dabble in cuckholding as I'm far too jealous, I doubt my partner would be up for it either but I do enjoy everything else you have listed. I'm usually 100% a submissive little brat, always getting punished for not behaving and being made to please, but I love it. :p I enjoy humiliation play a lot. Thank you for your opinion. :)

[HeresJames1]

I've never done it, but I'm open to trying it. There are only 2 women I'd let peg me, my girlfriend and my fav porn actress Isis Love.

[akadatank44]

Nope not into butt shit at all. Nothing is going up my ass and my dick is not going in hers. God gave us the wonderful pussy. I'll use that instead 😉

[badboy666]

Aside from the femdom mental aspects of being pegged like this, is there any physical pleasure for the guy?

Pegging videos I've seen all look like the guy is hurting, not experiencing any pleasure.

[_littlekitten13]

Read the comments, or ask them yourselves. I'm pretty sure there wouldn't be all these men doing it if it was really that awful...

[badboy666]

I love the femdom aspect of the concept. My gal has tried her finger, didn't do much for me. But I'd love to try it.

I've sent her a couple of funny videos

www.youtube.com/watch

[_littlekitten13]

I might send that to my partner... Although that may also put him off it. 😣😂

[dogman7q]

Well just my view it's different for everyone. For example my first was 6 inches and was boring only pain I had was start because she didn't put enough lub. Now second was thin 8inch one felt good but wasn't all that. Now skipping to end last time was 10 inches and vary thick. First starting is slightly painful don't matter how much lube. I gasped and tensed up but after a couple strokes it's mixed some pain and struggle and the rest and amazing release of relief that makes it worth it also can stimulate you to have pre cum like. And Cummings during it does feel really good if fucked during release or just having it in I would recommend testing soft and hard ones and up size so on. Am currently looking for someone who can handle being mean and strong willed to ram it in even if my body trying to run. It's actually feels good even though it doesn't look it. Just be safe know you're limits

[beernbacon69]

As a guy I've had a couple of girlfriends that I have enjoyed doing it with and would do it again for sure. The prostate is very sensitive and I've had some of the most intense orgasms while getting pegged, or with her massaging my prostate with a finger or her tongue. It does take some trust though, as a guy I would have to know the girl and be comfortable with her since she is in total control. I remember the first girlfriend that did this with me and the first time she tried anything anal on me. She started out with rimming and that felt great, then a finger and that also felt great... she then asked if she could try something else on me and got a dildo out and used that on me while giving me a blowjob. That led to the conversation about pegging and how she really wanted to try it and I agreed and we went to the local sex shop the same day, came home and she pegged me in a few positions that night. It was very enjoyable for her and for me and was a regular part of sex for us. We ended up dating for about a year. It's kind of funny though the very next girl I dated I remember asking if I could have anal sex with her, and she said only if I reciprocated... which obviously wasn't a problem. She was a little more domineering... but that was enjoyable for me as well.

[Prettyapathetic]

No...

[Djaaaaaay]

That's the best it gets !!! Loven it always

[gobsmacked3]

yes please!

[Hercules073]

Yeah, nothing is going inside my corn hole.

[_littlekitten13]

Corn hole 😂 Haha