Are virgin girls ever sexually excited having sex for the first time?

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They say that when guys are virgins and having it for the first time that they're already extremely aroused before it starts, but then I've also heard about virgin guys who were so nervous about it that they couldn't really get an erection. I've never had sex with a virgin female before, so I wanna know, are virgin girls ever the same way? Does the reality of the moment they're about to partake in make them feel super excited and aroused?

 
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mwin2030 · Accepted Answer

Of course. I mean I can't say for every situation or for every girl, but I've been with virgins who were deeply excited about the prospect of having sex for the first time, even when they know it is going to be uncomfortable or down right painful their first time. I was with a girl once, a virgin, she was very excited to have sex. She was wet and aroused and then when we started having sex it hurt so much for her even with all the foreplay we did that she started crying. She still didn't want me to stop; that's how excited she was to experience sex fully for the first time. Not to mention she trusted me and knew I'd stop if she really hit a point where she couldn't continue. Again, every girl is going to be different, and I've experienced both sides of the spectrum; some girls just not excited at all and weren't looking forward to doing it and those who just wanted to get it done and over with. Just depends of the female.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I would think so. I think a virgin guy would be fine and keen to impress.

But would a woman be up for losing her virginity to a virgin guy? And would a female friend be up for hooking up with a virgin friend?

I wrote a take which you might be able to opine on. Do you think women hold themselves back for guys who treat them special? www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a30526-why-are-women-only-sexual-with-guys-who-aren-t-long-term-material

Mayamoon02 · Accepted Answer

Well, this might sound disgusting but I personally prepared myself by using a washed cucumber before I ever had sex.
I was nervous even by myself so my pussy was really tense. Eventually I learnt that I would only be loose enough to fit a cucumber if I watched porn or read something sexy. Then it would fit really well with no pain!

I'm too curious to put myself in the hands of someone else.
When it came to actually having sex for the first time.. I had my own lube, condoms and was really ready lol

I enjoyed it because my boyfriend really turned me on. He didn't even know I was a virgin!
Wanted him to act natural and a little forceful as I knew that was my turn on from porn.
If he was gentle - I just wouldn't have been turned on :( so it would have hurt more!

One thing I miss from those days is how much foreplay we used to have as young adults! Hot make out sessions!

RJGraveyTrain · Accepted Answer

I had a good experience but I was scared prior. Men need to understand that first time sex is often painful, if not then uncomfortable. We often don't understand how to even achieve orgasm, we feel bad if we don't, we feel we don't know how to please a guy, etc. That's where the fear comes from.

I was lucky to lose my virginity as an adult, and we fooled around prior to having sex so we had more of an idea of how to make it more enjoyable. I would say it was a positive experience but I didn't start getting really into it until after the first few times.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Nervous, but excited. My boyfriend fore played (not fingerîng ) with me for like 30 mins and he still couldn't slide in. The next time he tried he got his tip in there, but my body instantly pushed him out. It ached/stinged a little just with a bit of it. I don't know it was really weird he just couldn't fit or it was like to tight or something. He hasn't popped my hymen so I think technically that still makes me virgin. Maybe I just wasn't wet enough or he couldn't apply enough force to push himself through.

bombamboum · Answer

I can't tell for every women but I know I was really aroused during foreplay, very excited but when penetration began, the sensation was so foreign and so knew that it killed it. It was just uncomfortable and I wasn't wet anymore. It wasn't really pleasant. Luckily, it changed when my second time happened.

musicbrain5 · Answer

I was excited but also nervous, and a bit scared. Every woman is different though so I can't speak for all of them.

Guys seem to have different hesitations as well, aside from whether or not he can get it up.

Mustachekitteh · Answer

I would think most are just nervous and scared out of their minds during their first time. Which those 2 feelings end up killing it.

maysousa · Answer

My first time was shit, but mostly because of the guy. I begged him to wear a condom and he just wouldn't and I kept pushing him. He was much older and I feel somewhat abused to this day. I think the whole condom story really turned me off, cause at first I was very aroused.

Mollyxxx · Answer

For me, I was really really scared, I didn't want to embarrass myself and I wanted to make everything perfect for both of us. I kept thinking and thinking about it until I had a breakdown and just cried seconds before we were going to do it. 😓 He was confused, and he thought I was crying because I was scared it will hurt - and I was too shy to communicate, so they're was a bit of mis-communication there... Anyways! The second it went in my body felt kick-started like an engine and all my fear went away and all I wanted was the d*. 😂

Linda2233 · Answer

I'm not at all, even don't want to.

crimsonqueen · Answer

It was exciting. And a bit odd cuz nobody had seen me naked since I was a kid lol. I was pretty modest back then so it was all kinda weird for me.

melme16 · Answer

I'll just have to wait and see

amandaaxo · Answer

i mean yeah just because she's s virgin doesn't mean she doesn't get turned on But im sure that in the moment beiing nervous could lessen her excitement a little

reixun · Answer

I bet I'll be super excited.

Tarnygosh · Answer

Depends on the woman. Most are anxious, some are like me and horny as hell

Hollywood-Glam · Answer

Yes definitely!!

pips11 · Answer

I was excited then it changed

Puppylove94 · Answer

Am I excited to have sex for the first time? Hell yes Doesn't mean I plan on lowering my standards to find the person I want to lose it to tho

COCOCHANEL · Answer

i was excited until the pain killed me

datgirl · Answer

I can't wait to have to sex for the first time tbh. I kinda just wish my soul mate would appear already so we could get married and do that fun stuff :p but I'm not gonna lie, I'm super scared of it hurting.