How to sexually satisfy an older man?

Im a 33 year old woman. There's this man who's 55 years old (I though he was 45, based on his looks, physique and mannerisms). We both really like each other, been flirting with one another for the past couple of years, and we have a strong attraction for one another. For the past few months, we've finally been getting to know one another on a much deeper level. We expressed an intense desire to have sex with one another. But I've never had sex with a man his age. The last thing I would want, is sex to be awkward between us, because of the age difference, which I heard can sometimes affect sexual compatibility, performance and abilities on the man's part. And sometimes, I like rough hair pulling sex! Any suggestions on how to sexually satisfy a man his age?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Hey, 55 is still young. :) Talk to him about it in an open honest frank non-threatening way. Find out what he needs. It's possible he may not be as bodily flexible (tell me about it!), may have some trouble getting and keeping erections, may take longer to cum and may no longer cum large loads, but other than that he's probably just as into everything as you are.

  • The same as any other man, playful. only be confident with your abilities. You just need to be able to read what he's into. I think older guys want that to help them to still feel young and desired.

  • He's probably due for a prostate exam. Put on a nurse outfit on and introduce him to your finger

    • LMAO!!!

    • ;) .

  • Don't freak out of it takes him time and physical stimulation to get hard.

Most Helpful Guys

  • There's a higher chance at his age that he may need more physical stimulation to get going. Just don't be thrown if that's the case.

    Also remember that erection and arousal are not the same. He could be very mentally into it, and still take a little longer getting rock hard. They're different things.

    • Never thiugh about that... Thanks!

  • Tell him what you want and then get a grip!! His age has nothing to do with it if he's healthy. Maybe he should spank your naughty bare bottom for doubting him?

    • Lmao!

    • Think you can do that? Put on your trashy little nothing and tell him to spank you and fuck you?

    • I think he would love that. Thanks!

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  • *gets out a pen and paper*

    • Lmao

    • For real they do, do it differently. I don't think I've been with one that old before. I'd be worried about breaking him. The oldest guy I've been with slapped my ass in the most awkward manner. Like he didn't know what he was supposed to be doing. Different times, different times.

    • Oh wow!

  • Keep it relaxed at all times. I recommend cuddling naked if he fails to rise to the occasion.

    • Hmmm... Im going to try that. Thanks!

    • Sometimes actually just sleep together. There was this one girl I was with for a while and we met up real late and after hours of making out we decided to take it to the bedroom, we both had gotten tired after working all week I couldn't quite maintain an erection and she was too tight and dry but we kept it relaxed and chilled out. Many chicks would have just assumed we had no chemistry and gone home and ended it but she stayed the night and we just slept. The next morning after ten hours sleep we were both raring to go.

  • The same as you would a man your own age.

  • Ask him what he's into sexually. Communication is key.

  • just ask him what his sexual fantasies are or what are his fetishes?

    • I will definitley ask him. Thanks!

    • No prob!

  • a prostate massage :D

    • Hmmm...🤔

  • Hey 33 YOW , Personally speaking I think us older guys have sex and are sexually satisfied the same as any other man is! Sounds like you're going about it the right way taking your time to get to know one another and the feelings you have for each other. If the chemistry is there, everything should be fine. As far as the rough hair pulling sex, just tell him ! Tell him what turns you on and ask him what you can do that gets him excited! We're just older, we're not aliens!!! :-)

    • Thanks! 😂

    • Go for it girl !!! Life is too short !!! :-)

  • Just be on top. Any guy likes that position.

  • Buy him a coffin

  • Just the same

  • You are single right? Lol just go with the flow I guess...

  • The same way you would satisfy someone your own age?
    Just tell him what you want, he'll be up for it. Sorry, on board. Oh God, I'll stop now.

  • You'll probably have to spend about as much time on foreplay with him as men have to with women.

  • Just expect him to take more time for it.

  • It's the same still, I'm 50 and I still do it the same as my 20s , I've had sex with younger than you already and she thought the same until I wore her out

    • Thanks!!! Lmao!!!

    • No problem LOL I don't think we start losing some of our drive until our 70s