My boyfriends thinks I'm too cute to have sex with, what should I do?

What should I do? My boyfriend thinks I'm too cute to have sex with :/ At first he didn't mind that the sex wasn't great but now it bugs him a little. He doesn't dislike the fact that I'm cute, he is very much attracted to it. He always says that he wants to care for me and protect me. He says that he loves me a lot and that he doesn't want to lose me, but he does want to have good sex at least ones in his life. But I can't seem to give him that :/ I did try a lot of things but nothing seems to get him excited. Forplay doesn't work for him, he says he doesn't feel anything :/ he doesn't dislike it again he just can't get excited by it. Massaging him helps to get a little intimated but when we start the sex part he doesn't seem to be capable to get an erection. I don't know what to do :( can somebody help me?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • It sounds like he's either not a sexual person or he's not sexually attracted to you. Or he has sex issues. Either way, it's a healthy part of a relationship and if you two are struggling it indicates a lack of sexual chemistry. I would't stay in such a relationship.

  • Leave him and find someone else. That's what dating is all about. You try it many different people and stick with those who give you what you need/want

Most Helpful Guys

  • Find his fantasy out. Tread carefully you may find it disgusts you but I bet if you do it he will cum (over and over and over lol)

    • I try pretty hard to find his fantasies out, but he looks sometimes ashamed by them :/ do you have any advice how I should find out?

    • His computer internet history

  • he is not attracted to you.. without sex your just friends.. so move on and stay friends with him and find someone else

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  • Leave him. He's a poof!

  • he is an idiot

  • Never heard that one before.

  • You're too cute? What is it about you that makes you too cute to have sex with, I wonder?

    • I really don't know :/ I do have some features, like being short and having pretty big eyes. His says that I'm nice all the time so maybe that has something to do with it? I really don't know :( I do know that a lot of people call me cute, but it hard to explain because I don't think that way of myself :(

    • Well, just going with short and big eyes... yeah, that sounds cute...

  • Hmm sounds like he has a testosterone problem.

  • Yep, he's an idiot.

  • let's see a pic

  • Usually problems in the bed, are correlated with problems outside of bed. meaning, there's something he's most likely not telling you, in terms of your relationship. what that is, i dk. im just saying usually problems with the bedroom are not sex related. they're relationship related

  • This has nothing to do with you being 'cute'. This is all about him.

    How much porn does he use?

    • I really have no idea :/

  • He isn't an idiot, your just not sexually compatible which means it would be best for the both of you to leave each other, you'll both do better sexually without each other.

  • Unfortunately he's not physically attracted to you!

    • Thanks for the upvote 😆

  • Tell him okay

    • ? I don't really understand?