I'm one of those guys that focuses on her pleasure intensely because I've found that if she gets what she needs (5-10 screaming orgasms) and some of what she wants, she'll do just about ANYTHING I want in return. It's just in our best interest.
Have you tried this to cum from penetration?
Cowgirl tips
Here’s the way I have found, with the help of a very cooperative girlfriend, that a woman can ride her man all the way up the mountain to multiple, increasing powerful orgasms and ultimately, squirting.
• He needs to understand that he can help with this position by grabbing her hips and helping her move. At first, leave to her own devices but as she gets more and more aroused, he should become stronger and more and more forceful in moving her back and forth.
• Put him on his back and mount up with you on your knees.
• Slide him in and settle in so you’re comfortable.
• Rock like you’re riding a horse, slowly at first and faster as you get more aroused.
• When you’re ready for him to help, reach down and put his hands on your hips. For effect, you can beg him in your sexy slut voice to help you.
• When you start to get close to cumming, move like you’re trying your best to break that thing off. Of course, you won’t but the point is to not hold back. Just go crazy.
• When you’re right on the edge, tell him to do you. He thrusts up as powerfully as he can and holds it with you impaled as deeply on his cock as possible, perched on his erection. He also forcefully tilts his hips and slams his shaft into your G-spot.
• As you cum, don’t even slow down. Keep going and you will cum over and over, each time increasingly intense.
• If you have The Big One, as I call it, you may very likely squirt so if there’s a gush, it’s not urine. It’s female ejaculate. Keep going until you’re completely done.
Here are a few ancillary suggestions:
• Pee first so that if you should squirt, you can be confident it’s not pee.
• If you’re into S&M, have him forcefully pinch your nipples as you’re starting to cum.
• He can slap your tits around if you’re into that. One girlfriend of mine liked to be slapped while she was up there with me telling her what a trashy slut she was for being up there in the first place.
• Some ladies like their men to reach around and smack their ass while they ride.
I don't insist... but I make sure she does multiple times before I do.
Usually the first time I am with a girl, I make her cum before I even get to her genitals. Then I make her cum via oral (clitoral orgasm)... or through pressure techniques.
Then if she is willing, I like to give her a vaginal and g-spot orgasm with my fingers before I even start "sex".
If she isn't into the vaginal play, I will reluctantly go to sex after the first two orgasms and will make sure she cums vaginally at least once before I bother cumming.
I have heard (and been with) girls that say they have had mediocre sex and had to finish themselves after sex and from what I can gather it is a common thing. Generally I excuse this as their poor choices in partners. But it is kind of pathetic that there are so many males who generally can't get women off.
I have been with 13 women, many of which had been with guys before me, but they always lose their mind when we are finished because they didn't think the orgasms they had were even possible.
One girl I was with had 30 partners before me and she had never had a vaginal orgasm or squirted. She heard of them and thought it was "just some girls" and I told her it was a scapegoat and that ALL girls could have both. When I showed her without effort she actually started crying. To this day she tells me that she hasn't had sex as amazing as that. (And she is married now. haha)
I've heard that it's quite common that once guys cum, all sexual desire goes for a while. They often go tired and sleepy as well
That's true. Indeed. 👌
@Cowboy6666 Yay!! :D
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!it depends on the guy.. obviously he's selfish and only cares about getting his. talk to him about it say that he doesn't satisfy you or make you cum and you find it quite unfair
He might just not feel comfortable with his "manual skills".
I used to want to make them cum, but now I don't care as long as I get mine.
Doesn't sound great
What isn't normal is not letting him if you haven't showered. We're the ones that would think it disgusting or not and if he doesn't have a problem with it then neither should you
Insist? No. Strongly prefer and enjoy - yes.
I think it is a bit selfish - For me sex isn't over till we are both satisfied
Absolutely. I love her to climax I love it when her whole body convulses and and cums. I will work her clit till she can't take it any more. Then penetrate. Or penetrate again.
this is normal, most men are selfish (and lousy) lovers. I had a girlfriend that used to call me to run over and eat her pussy before work, she liked to use the vibrator on her clit as I tongue fucked her or used fingers while darting my tongue in around the vibrator...
Secondly, I make my girlfriend cum at least 3x before I cum... I don't cum til she's worn out basically.
TMI …
@StolenUsername you'll be fine.
I think sex should be a equal between both partners. Maybe you two need to discuss some things and communicate better when it comes to sex.
I'm single right now, but if i did i would it satifying to know i made her orgasm and once she's came i can too. 😆
i think the sex does not stop until both of you are fully satisfied.
I will try my best always
have you told him
I try my hardest to
He might prefer you in the un-showered state.
I don't cum until the girl does, once at the very least.
Personally i LOVE to make a girl cum, i like the face a girl makes during an orgasm and i also love to hear her moan :)
You mean he isn't bothered about you not letting him go down on you if you haven't showered?
That is totally normal.
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