ALPHA FUX/BETA BUX: If you give a woman too much boyfriend vibe she will make you wait?

[Anonymous]

"I'm married, in a LTR, and don't spin plates unless they are pay to play, don't need the drama. I do however enjoy playing around on Tinder when I'm traveling. I get mixed results. Sometimes I put my HB8-9 SO with me in the photos, sometimes shirtless, sometimes conservative. Usually with a simple clever one liner. I took a different strategy yesterday that got me the MOST matches I've EVER seen. Here was the text: I thought women would see it as satire. Guess they are so hot on beta bux that it doesn't matter they will deceive themselves. "I'm tired of girls only on here looking for a quick hookup. I'm here to meet someone special. If you are just looking for some hookup, please swipe left.. I'm a strong, independent, gentleman who has self respect and am looking to meet someone special." Semi-Retired / Financially independent Part time yoga instructor Loves kids and pets Must like to travel extensively. I've never seen my phone blow up so insanely. I was in a meeting and had to switch to airplane mode. When I got back to my room, it was like moths to a flame to get these girls to want to go out for drinks. Its a wolf in sheep's clothing strategy, but seems to work well for intros. I didn't actually hook up with any of these girls but figured I would share the strategy. Profile was definitely the beta bux seeking, approaching the wall, kid in tow, female. That being said, would this be a valid strategy for a simple tag and bag? Have you guys experienced anything like this?" Was reading interesting thing over reddit and some of guys were saying that if you give off too much of boyfriend vibe to girl they'll make you wait. Whereas if you don't but give them tingles they'll fuck you very soon. For example: Act like a gentleman and/or have a nice place and she'll make you wait. Act like the lover (bit of asshole/confident) and she'll fuck you. How true is this in your opinion?

[Anonymous]

This is why I'm very, VERY selective with who I date. I refuse to settle down with a woman who has ever had casual sex, even just once.

I don't do casual myself, so if I find out that you previously slept with a guy on the first date and now you're telling me you want to take it slow, then you'll be out on the curb faster than you can blink.

[Opinion Owner]

Born-again Christians are the worst offenders. You made your choices, and you don't get to wipe the slate clean.

[cpzpbx3]

So, you're married AND in a LTR? Like, with two different people? And you say you don't like 'spinning plates' but you're in two serious relationships while sleeping around on Tinder? Confused, that seems a bit contradictory...