I am totally fucked?

My boyfriend and I have never had sex, but we have done everything else pretty much.. oral, fingering, etc. Anyways, we had a pregnancy scare a month ago :/ Luckily I was fine. Don't ask what happened with that but you can get pregnant without having sex!! Anyways, after that we tried to be extra careful, I went to his house once and he fingered me but his fingers were totally dry and clean (made sure of this bc this is what caused our scare last time) so yeah. A week later I went over again and he fingered me and again we made sure his fingers were clean but he got a little carried away he took his shorts off and we were dry humping pretty much we both had our underwear ugh this is where it gets bad, he took his penis out and started rubbing it on my underwear, now listen, i am VERY aware of precum. He said he didn't have any, he says he was so dry that it was even painful and I saw and he was dry but im worried because my period was due on the 13-14th this month and I still haven't gotten it. What we did was a week prior to the 13th. I got my period on July 13th then Last month on the 14th so I was expecting it around the same time this month but no.. I have been feeling cramps all week but no sign of my period anywhere. I'm really stressing out. If I don't get it by Wednesday, a week later, then I'm taking a pregnancy test. I'm just super worried like you would think I would have learned from last time.
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I still haven't gotten my period. I feel like I have gained weight.. my stomachs been hurting all day as if my period is coming but still nothing :/ My stomach also hurts if I try to suck it in and ugh im just worried I feel like I have been eating more and im just :/
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It would be extremely unlikely. But get a pregnancy test and be sure. They aren't that expensive. And then… consider the possibility of birth control. Condoms? The pill? Stop being so daring because you obviously can't control yourselves (it's so much fun, isn't it?) and you're going to end up being parents and, when you're not ready, that's NOT fun.

  • I don't think you need tobe scared, you'll get it cramping is part of your period. However there are many factors that can affect your period one of the factors is stress, birth control, physical activity. Have him use a condom.

    • Yeah I told him to use one just in case, even if we weren't going to have sex but :/

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  • Based on what you described. He didn't even penetrate you. There's probably a 1/500 chance that you're pregnant. I don't think you need to be stressing out so much about this. Lack of a period and cramps doesn't automatically mean that you're pregnant. There are many other factors at play here

    • I know, but considering what happened, it just stresses me out. I get bad anxiety and I start over thinking everything :/

  • No your not. For a start the chances with precum are extremely small eveb though he had none. Secondly you had underwear on.
    so you won't be pregnant. Your probably making it late by stressing

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  • Girl. You're not pregnant. I promise. Calm down.

  • The sperm don't survive in the air
    They die. So no way in hell you get pregnant without coming inside you

    Now about the Precum I don't know if it can get the girl pregnant I don't know what it contains so...

  • Smh you're a mess

    • THAAAAANKS

  • Go to the doctor's. Why aren't you on the pill or have condoms? If he's wearing one you wouldn't have to worry (as much).

  • Jesus you are paranoid. No you are not Mary.
    Just get on birth control and have sex already.

  • Oh wow you're paranoid.

    Go on the freaking pill

    It's not that far fetched of an idea that you're just having an irregular period and rubbing his knob on your underwear it's slim to no chance of getting you pregnant

    • "Get on the freaking pill" LIKE ITS THAT EASY LOL. Where would I even go? There is literally no clinics near where I live except maybe like 20 minutes away. I don't drive, my boyfriend doesn't drive, legally at least, neither of us have a car, the bus isn't an option because it doesn't go that away and i'm not about to ask my parents to just take me to get birth control!! Some of you are so quick to judge and throw shit out there when you don't understand certain situations. Do you think I don't know birth control would be a good idea?

    • XML didn't tell anyone that situation so how is anyone supposed to understand it? Also if you're older than 18 your parents would probably be relieved if you asked them to take you If you're not adult enough to bra another adult a simple question then you shouldn't be concerned with sex. Especially if you think it's that easy to get pregnant I can tell you right now that it isn't. So many people try to have kids and they just can't get pregnant. And stressing is actually a big cause of it. So you're actually not likely to get pregnant because you're hormones won't let you while you're stressing the Fuck out

  • I don't think your pregnant silly

    • U had underwear on so u fine and if you 2 are so worried use birth control pill or plan B pill or a condom

    • Your period is late because you are stressed or your like me mine was on the 10 th but I didn't have mine last month

    • I hope thats the case