Girls, what are the biggest mistakes guys make performing oral sex?

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In the interest of making it better for everyone, please share your experiences. Also, if you've had female partners go down on you, how do women compare?

YummyLady · Accepted Answer

This is a great question!

1) IT DOESN'T LAST LONG ENOUGH
Guys think it's ok to just lick it 2-3 times and then do smth else. This doesn't only apply to the pussy-eating, but to foreplay in general. GIRLS need a lot of making out, kissing/licking of the body and PUSSY.
IT SHOULD LAST UNTIL THE GIRL CUMS. 75% of girls can't cum threw intercourse, so this is the only way for them to cum.

2) DO IT BEFORE SHE GIVES YOU HEAD OR BEFORE THE INTERCOURSE HAPPENS
That way she will see that her needs are important to you and that you are not using her only to get what you want. A satisfied girl in bed is a fire. Itruely satisfied.

3) BLACKMAILING
Telling her that she will get it only if she gives you first, or that she must return the favor.

4) DON'T GO STRAIGHT FOR THE CLIT
It can even cause pain. The clit is sooo sensitive. Try kissing, touching and licking the tummy under the belly-button up and down, inner thighs, the crotch, the labia majora... Then at first use fingers gently, preferably over the hood and then directly and then tongue.

5) DON'T USE ONLY ONE MOTION. DON'T BE BORING.
Use flat tongue, pointy tongue... The tip of it, the loose part, the under-part of the tongue. Imagine that your tongue is a paint-brush and you gotta cover every single part of her pussy with the color. Don't leave any spot un-touched.
With a flat, loose tongue, lick all over her vulva, clit and lips. Do that for like 10 seconds. Slide the tip of your pointy tongue between her inner and outer lips. Use fingers to spread them. "Tickle" the clit with your fingers over the labia while you tongue-fuck her. Finger her G-spot while you suck on her clit. Suck on her lips going from the top of the lips (near the clit) to the bottom of the lips (near the vagina) without stopping the suction. Try to "write the alphabet" with your tongue. You can even "write" "MINE" with your tongue and tell her that. Some girls will be flattered by that.
Switch it up, however: if you see that she id reacting to smth particularly good, do it.

7) DON'T USE TEETH

8) DON'T TOUCH HER BUTTHOLE, UNLESS SHE GIVES YOU THE PERMITION

9) COMUNICATE
Usually I am always blaming guys for girl's inability to achieve orgasm via oral sex. But girls are responsible for this one. There is no universal formula on how do girls achieve orgasm. Each if them are diferent. So if your girl isn't brave enough to say it herself, ask her, encourage her to talk about it.

BusyBeth · Accepted Answer

I think the best way to answer this question is to explain what's best/what I like versus what I don't like. 1. Make the effort to show that you're at least enjoying it and not treating cunnilingus as a chore. Moan and groan to indicate how much you enjoy pleasuring me and tell me how sweet I am. 2. Use your mouth and not just the tongue exclusively. If you want to use your teeth while you're down there, nibble gently on the lips - do not use your teeth on my clitoris. It is too sensitive and that will most like cause pain/discomfort rather than pleasure. 3. Following on from point 2, tease my entire erogenous zone with your mouth; which includes my inner thighs. 4. Don't be afraid to use a finger or two inside my vagina to intensify the climax. Word to the wise, ask a woman if she's comfortable with anal play before sticking a finger or anything else up there.

These are not in any particular order. However, you have to remember to listen to her moans. Don't go back and forth too much. In my case, if you're doing too much teasing, I'll most likely move your head back to my clitoris lol. A quickie might not entail all of the above, but the clitoris is definitely your target.

If ever you feel like you're not doing it well, tell her to tell you what she likes.

I hope this helps. Oh, and I'm straight by the way. I've given advice to guys before who always assume that I'm bi-curious lol.

ravidricha96 · Answer

I've only had my one friend give me oral, an he's honestly really good because he was practicing on my feet well before. Lol.

Copenhagenangel · Answer

The thing I dislike the most is when a guy has razor stubble and grinds his face in. Ouch!

Anonymous · Answer

Well, I really wouldn't know, because I'm only 15 (even though that means nothing in today's world), but I'd say that some guys kinda.. thrust with their tongue, if that makes any sense? I don't know. xD

Anonymous · Answer

I think overusing the tongue, some guys can get a little sloppy, haha. And a little bit of sucking is always great.

Anonymous · Answer

When he switches up his rhythm or method too often. Especially if I'm close to cumming

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