Two questions actually.. if a guy says you give the best blowjobs is he telling the truth? Also why would a one night stand tell you he likes you?

So I've never had a one night stand before. This guy messaged me online. He was visiting from a foreign country only for a few days, and would be heading back the day after we slept together. I'm fine with having just sex and I always assumed one night stands were just that. Not necessarily jerk guys, but guys that were only interested in getting their orgasm. Well I hang out with this guy, and we go back to his place. We're having fun. He even told me a few times that I should visit his country and visit him, etc. Right before we start making out, he tells me that I'm beautiful. I say thanks and that he's cute. Right before the main even-when we undress- he again says "Oh my god, you're beautiful" I just grabbed him and kissed him. So we get to the main event, and unfortunately it was my time of the month so I saidthat I could only give him a blowjob. (not a disappointment for me. I love giving them!) His response was that we'd have to find something for me. I gave him a blowjob, and afterwards he said that "it was such an experience." I said "It was just a blow job." He told me that I say "just" but he has never gotten anything like that and it was amazing. So moving on, he gets me off. We attempt to go to bed, then start making out again. During this make out session he says a quick tidbit about something (which I can't remember), then says that he really likes me. So I have two questions. The first one is about blowjobs. This isn't the first guy to tell me that I'm the best blowjob they've ever gotten, but do guys tell the truth about these things? If a guy says that does he mean it or does he just want to encourage you to do it again? The next is actually about the one night stand. Why was he complimenting me? Why would he say he really liked me if he knew it was ending the next day? I understand a one night stand is all about sex, you don't need to compliment me to get me to have sex with you, and he told me he really likes me after he orgasmed... what gives?
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and on a one night stand, why would he be concerned that I got off too? I thought these things were all about the guy
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  • 1: Once i heard that there's no blow-jobs that are bad and i prove it to be true, the fact that your sucking a man's dick you can only get better each time you do it.
    2: His compliments are up to debate.
    3: You gave him something that he will always remember, being his first blow-job was given by you he probably wanted to give you something just as memorable like an orgasm to show how much you value the time with you.

  • Generally the best BJ is the last one you had... unless you're getting one right now.

    And contrary to what some women on here think, most guys want the girl to enjoy it too.

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  • in my opinion... if you were giving him oral... he is in the heat of the moment... guys will say anything ( I am just being honest). Maybe he wants you more for than a one night stand

  • 1) yes might be true
    2) no idea xD

  • He might be.

  • I pretty much fell in love with a one night stand once. Cute girl. Amazing chemistry. Really interesting person. And yeah, great blowjobs. Sadly, she freaked out afterwards (she'd never done a one night stand before and felt guilty about it) and blocked me about 5 days later. Pity, because I would have cared for that woman so much.

    If you do like the guy, it may be worth giving it a shot.

  • He's going to sweet talk you, pump and dump you. You're an easy woman and he knows it, so all he has to do is tell you what you want to hear and he's in.

    • came in to say this. amazing how naive/slow some people are