Girls, when grinding on a guy, can you tell if he has a boner? Guys, how often do you get them?

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I'm asking because alright, I've grinded a total of twice. I'm not that good yet, I know. Still the first one was with a guy that liked me, and I liked him. I was drunk, so I don't totally remember, but I don't think he got a boner. I could feel where his ya know was located, but I don't think it was hard? Can you tell? He's 24, so if you learn to control it, he could've.

Then the second time was with someone less experienced than me. Both wasted, so I said fvck it and rubbed down there. Nuttin. At least I don't think so.

Answerdude · Accepted Answer

I was making out for like fifteen or twenty minutes with my first girlfriend and I had a boner that was just driving me nuts. I wanted desperately to let her know, somehow, how I felt. So I started grinding on, or at least, pushing my crotch into hers, or her lower belly, and tensing and relaxing my boner. She felt my boner pulsing against her. My dick is big enough, I think, so that a girl doesn't have to guess if I have a boner or not.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Only get them if the chick has made perfectly clear she wants the D, in which case i would have them to give her a preview of what to expect later that night.

Else, nah. I'm not getting a boner for a tease.

Websitech9000 · Accepted Answer

I think any girl can tell if a guy has a boner, especially if they're grinding down on it, and if they don't then he may just have a hard time getting it up, but if it's constantly continuous in a guy, I'd say go to the doctor and get it checked out. Not you, the guys.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

yea I can tell bc I feel the hardness through his pants, when I spot it I rub harder between my ass cheeks put one had on his hip the other on his neck and twist my head back for a kiss 😘

sbnalenon · Accepted Answer

Yes, sometimes you feel the hardness and want to rub yourself more and sometimes you can feel the erect top and rub your clit on them. Well also depends on how fuys conteol themselves.

WillowTree · Accepted Answer

Yes, it's easy to tell. Sometimes you can see it pointing at you through their pants. Try to involve less alcohol or someone with more experience for different results.

SvetlanaSavachenko · Answer

Of course I always know if he's got a hard on when I'm grinding on it.

KeiranByrne · Answer

Alcohol is a buzz kill. Grinding works for me, when I'm sober.

Rainb0w90 · Answer

Lol the first time I felt a guys hard on I wasn't sure what it was. Find someone you feel comfortable with and start exploring. And sometimes it's even ok to ask him...

KaelRhain · Answer

I have been able to control it in that situation. A boner can be involuntary too and sometimes just happens.

CHARismatic110 · Answer

I can always tell

manoobilli · Answer

I can tell by just looking at that. Grinding is far away thing

anonman32 · Answer

yes they can tell it obviously, it feels hard and there's a bulge. how often do i get them, if i am fully awake it just needs some touching and it will respond accordingly, not much to do about it im afraid.