What age is the "point of no return" for virginity?

So I'm a 23 year old virgin, and at a certain point, it's understandable to think, 'Okay, there's probably something wrong with this guy.' I was wondering: what is the maximum age before a man's virginity becomes a deal-breaker?
If you want to give me the idyllic answer of, "Keep trying! Be patient! Eventually, someone will think you're swell!" then you're a good person and I appreciate you, but that's not how the world works. So please, just try to abstain from those beautifully futile and well-intentioned, but ultimately empty thoughts, because they bum me out. I try to live with as few illusions as possible, and false hope is the one thing that cuts deeper than our mundane reality.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I promise u I'm not BSing you but I just feel like there shouldn't even be an age limit. If a guy has a lot of great qualities about him Im not gonna say "well all his great qualities are irrelevant because he's a virgin so that's a deal breaker" I guess everyone has their right to say that it's a deal breaker but to me it's not an automatic deal breaker. This is coming from someone who lost their virginity years ago. what I do advice u to do is try to lose it because ur obviously not ok with being a virgin. Go out more and meet people. You are old enough to get into a bar/club. If that's not ur scene, there's tons of other places to meet women. Build up ur confidence. With every attempt that may not go as plan, just learn from your mistake and try to improve.

  • If you didn't lose it in high school then you probably weren't very popular. But, if you didn't lose by college, age 18-22 then you probably never will. At that point, either there's something wrong with you physically or mentally.

    • I'm going to become a wizard in eight years!

  • 25. Like past that, it gets progressively weirder. Like, WTF is going on in their life, ya know?

Most Helpful Guys

  • 29 and i don't care, i always wanted to save for marriage and i will keep thinking that even if i not get to marry, now i'm not in good health, maybe i will not live the normal length of life either so i stooped looking for a partner too.
    But that, is just my case.

  • What the f does that even mean? Point of no return from what?

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  • There is no point of the return. You lose it when you lose it.

  • I'd say 30 or older

    • That seems pretty high haha.

    • You've got 7 years to go then

  • Death.

    23-years-old and a virgin actually isn't that rare.

  • I'd say past 25, your odds of never losing your virginity exceeds your odds of actually losing it.

  • go fuck a hooker and get it over with.

  • … About 25 years old.