Its probably because you are afraid that it hurts. I suggest that you dont try to force yourself and just put fingering on hold until you feel comfortable with the idea.
Basically as long as you dont feel like it, nothing he does is likely to make you feel good. If you really want to get over this then taking your time and just getting comfortable with him touching you and perhaps inserting a finger (without fingering you actively) until you feel alright with it.
Afterwards remember that you need to be horny for it to feel the best. The better you feel the more pleasure you will receive.
Probably because your expecting the pain now so every time he tries and do it you tense up. Just need to relax.
If it hurts, it could be because you were scared and tightened up - this is invasive, but can you masturbate without pain? It could just be nerves or it could be a condition called vaginismus (an involuntary psychological reaction that clenches the vaginal muscles and attempts to stop any penetration) or something like an inflexible hymen.
He is doing it wrong if it hurts. I have had boyfriends who make fingering feel incredible and also boyfriends who are WAY too rough and my vagina will literally be sore for a day after they try fingering me. Try to talk to him about it and figure out a way it will feel good.
Could it be that you're not relaxed enough? Or that he's being too rough? Maybe try asking him to slow down and be more gentle with you, and use plenty of lube.
He probably is unhygienic af and his nails are long and his technique must suck
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!try using some type of lubrication, or feeling yourself first to get good and wet... have you had sex before? If not your hymen is probably needing broken
If you're tensing up, that will make the pain worse. And are you wet enough? Maybe you need lube.
Either you aren't wet enough down there or he needs to cut his nails or both. He could be cutting the indie of your vagina if he has long nails. You guys should also try using lube 😊
It sounds like you just need to relax a little to me, and maybe he should be a little more gentle. If you tense up its gunna hurt everytime.
He isn't doing it right. Some guys think they should really curl their fingers in there like they are saying come here but i think it is more just in and out and maybe up and down like tapping...
Relax, use lube, tell him to cut his nails, and for him to get you really turned on before he does.
He is definitely doing it wrong
Try to relax and be as comfortable as possible
I don't believe that's normal so I suggest you go talk to someone professional.
Not wet enough, needs to trim nails, relax, and maybe have him do oral before.
Yes if he doesn't know what he is doing in your pussy
Start with one finger
Make sure you're wet
Don't tense up
And make sure his stupid nails are short so he doesn't cut you cause that hurts.
you're too tense and you're probably not very wet when his fingers are in.
Are you a virgin? Is your hymen still there?
He's not doing it right or maybe you're not wet enough. U have to be aroused and wet enough.
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