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Is my boyfriend too "ASSERTIVE" sexually? He is always all over me?

My boyfriend, basically can't keep his hands to himself. Here are some weird things that he does:

-one time we were in a train and there was no one near us, I was wearing a skirt and a G-string. He slipped his hand behind and started fingering my anus. It was super arousing: I was wet, but it was weird
-the same day we went home he just grabbed me, bent me over the sofa, poured a lot of lube and entered me anally balls deep. It was awesome, I came.
-whenever we make-out he likes to pin me against a wall and grab my tits. He immediately slides his cold hands underneath my bra and plays with my nipples. He likes to squeeze them a little. It feels so good.
-when we're just chilling, he would just spoon me and start playing with my clit and pussy for no reason
-his favorite position is when I lay down on my stomach, flat, with my legs and arms spreaded like a star-fish. He likes to lay on top of me, pin my arms and hands down, bite my neck as he fucks me. He switches it up by sitting on me and pinning holding my arms back as if I was arrested
-his second favorite is doggy style. He likes to slap my ass and grab my tits as he does that
-he is motorboating my tits 24/7 and he sucks them more often than a baby sucks its momma's boobs
-he likes it when I squirt or pee out of excietement when he eats me out and he likes to drink that.
-he is obssesed with anal. One time we were just watching TV and I commented how I am on my period, he said: "Great, so that means I'll shove it in your ass, then".

All these things turn me on, but why is he so sexually obssesed all the time? Is it my mistake? Is it that he knows I like it secretely, so he is just showing off? Is he a sex addict?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Is my boyfriend too "ASSERTIVE" sexually?
    If you're turned on, willing, consenting, and enjoying yourself I don't see how this can be too assertive sexually for you. To me any of those actions would be dumping material with a beatdown for some so I guess too assertive varies on what your preferences are. Going by your account it's not too assertive for you.

    He is always all over me?
    Unless he's over you when you aren't consenting I don't see an issue.

    but why is he so sexually obssesed all the time?
    I find it a bit off that you seemingly consider enjoying sex to be sexually obsessed.

    Is it my mistake?
    This is more off to me as if you consider it a 'bad' thing to be sexually desirable to your boyfriend as if you're responsible for his sexual actions. Nah it's not your 'mistake' as you're not accountable for his actions.

    Is it that he knows I like it secretely, so he is just showing off?
    I don't see how this is showing off. I imagine he knows you like this so he continues to do it.

  • well sometimes i am tired and don't shower, so i know that it gets a bit stinky in my cooch, so i push my man's head down and get him to eat me out (I dont shave it so he always complains)
    he always tells me that he doesn't like the taste and that there is dried cum in there if i dont shower... but i wish that he would just eat it without complaining. I work out at the gym a lot and i dont have time to shave and shower all the time.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Whoa!! Let's take a step back. You love, I mean LOVE everything he does to you. There's nothing negative in your entire account. So what's your complaint? You're a good girl and good girls don't have handsy boyfriends who can't keep their hands off them. I'm very much like your boyfriend. My ladies turn me on no end and I too am an inveterate sodomite.

    I'd be doing all that and more and I'd be breathing in your ear and telling you what a naughty little wench you are and how I'm gonna throw you into doggy and spank your wicked bottom whilst I'm reaming it ruthlessly and without mercy.

    Am I missing something? If not, shut up and count your blessings. How many women are on GAG complaining that their men don't touch them anymore? Tons!!

    As the song says: don't worry, be happy!!

    • Who are you calling a wench, you moron? I would dump his ass forever if he calls me a wench.

    • It was a term used in fondness. Sorry you took it came out wrong.

  • I would say there's 2 big reason he's so aggressive. 1 he's is so naturally even a little and as you have been intimate his pride and confidance has sky rocketed thus urging him to keep going. 2 with his personality and pride skyrocketing and you both into it so much the only thing to stop or slow it is him or you. he is not gonna stop and if you get off every time mostly why ask him yo right? but with no resistance on either end its just kind of a run away train. not that it's bad but if you want this to change or try something new you need to tell him that or both of you just keep enjoying things as they are.

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  • don't think he's necessarily assertive he's just very very very sexual.

    if you enjoy things then it's fine. if you have a problem with things you need to let him know

  • If you didn't like what he is doing to you and was not his girlfriend, then it might count as rape, so there is good reason to believe that you like the things that he is doing to you.

    • I mean "there is good reason to believe that he know that you like the things that he is doing to you"

  • lol this made me wet

    • Haha. Well, what do you think? Is he normal or a sex addict?

    • I guess his testosterone levels are huge. This is a good, normal thing tho. Want to share? lol

    • You seem to like everything he does. What do you think -- have two sex addicts found each other? Just relax and lean into it.

  • What are you bitching about lol. Most women love this.

  • A man stays horny and your good looking or he wouldn’t be so turned on

  • He loves hour body all over I would just enjoy the attention your getting.

  • He's taking advantage of what you have to offer... you're loving it, so is he... sounds like a match made in heaven, yeah?

  • I think he just has a high sex drive. I am sure a lot of couples are pretty sexually active all the time, in varying degrees.

  • Damn, my dick is hard reading this!!!
    It's all good, no weirdness!!!

  • Seems like you both enjoy it.
    There is nothing weird about it.
    Have fun!!!

  • What's the damn problem? Just enjoy it

    • Right. After the examples she says... * It was super arousing: I was wet. * It was awesome, I came. * It feels so good. * All these things turn me on. I think the problem is -- she does not want to admit she is the sex addict! LOL! Not uncommon. I have had girls say "I hate anal" in public -- then go ass to mouth with real gusto. So words and actions really don't match up always.

  • you are both young
    and he really likes you
    trust me when you get older its gonna lessen down a bit

  • Now you're just braggin :-P

    • Maybe...

  • -"It was super arousing"
    -"It was awesome"
    -"It feels so good."
    -"All these things turn me on"
    Nuff said
    We'll complain you, poor girl.

  • I was reading it and it didn't sound like he was doing anything that weird or that others guys wouldn't try at least want to try until I read this one

    he likes it when I squirt or pee out of excietement when he eats me out and he likes to drink that.

    ok that last one is super weird , your saying he likes to drink your pee? I can barely stomach that one

    • Yes, he does. He likes it when his face is covered with my liquids, too.

    • ok than maybe I agree he has some issues or something if he's into that sort of thing

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