Why do virgin hunters always have to be so old, unfit and ugly?

I'm talking about both male and female 'virgin hunters', by the way. I've seen this first hand- been on a few hookup websites for a few years now. I'm a virgin in my late twenties, who's still single and still a virgin on account of studying at uni instead of partying and playing the scene, and having worked alone from a home office since graduating. My libido's off the charts, and I want to get out there, want to lose my virginity and have sex with someone.
Now, I'm an attractive, handsome, fit and athletic guy. And yeah, I'd ideally like to lose my virginity with a fellow virgin, so I suppose I could be considered a 'virgin hunter' as well; but I know the chances of that are slim to non-existent in this day and age, unless I looked for a 'barely legal' girl in her late teens to do it with, and if my first sex partner's had sex with a few other men before me- well, I won't be thrilled, but I wouldn't be upset either.
But literally the only people who are contacting me and asking me to come and hook up with them, asking to have my first time, are all old, fat, haggard ladies in their forties, fifties and even their sixties. And I'm pretty sure that it's exactly the same, or quite possibly worse, for any woman who sets up a profile on a casual hookup website and states that she's a virgin looking for someone to share her first sexual experience with.
Mind you, I've tried contacting a few of these ladies myself, and they always rejected me insultingly, because they wanted to be deflowered by a 'real man', one who'd had as many sexual partners as possible. So it seems like virgin girls prefer far older, less fit, uglier men who've been around the block- virgin girls revile virgin guys. But I couldn't do it with a far older, less fit, uglier woman who's been around the block- just the sight of their 'sexy' pictures is enough to instantly kill my boner. Why aren't there any younger, fitter and more attractive virgin hunters out there (except me)?
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  • If you are truly virgin yourself, then it's hard to call you an 'virgin hunter', it's more about being with someone as good as yourself in your case, usually when people talk about 'virgin hunters', they mean the womanizer type male who want to get an high quality girl AKA virgin girl, fuck and dump her, and then brag about how he get to do it to an virgin girl. Yes the chances of getting an virgin are slim, but the rarity of virgins only make them worth more, their is very little achievement in getting an non-virgin. If fallow virgins rejected you, then they are foolish, they are very likely to get fuck and dump by womanizer, and then become used good, with very little value, if after that they would come to you, you can tell them that it's too late now.

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    • I'd say that 'virgin hunter' can also be applied to the man-hunting cougar type of women, who take just as much or even more pride in the number of guys they've slept with, and who prefer to fuck around with younger 'virgin' guys because it makes them feel like they're younger, desirable and valuable again (when in reality, they're such used good that they're the ones who have to pay guys to fuck them). It's not just men who do the hunting- women are far more calculating and deliberate sexual predators than us men are.

  • Because they tend to have major issues with self esteem. The attraction to a virgin is not so much the "deflowering" process, but not being compared to others sexually. They feel inferior and fear the experience will be compared to previous lovers and they will not measure up favorably. Which leads to doubts if their lover will stick around.

    • Eh, not really. I get good marks on sexuality from just about all of my prior partners. But being the one who is chosen to "deflower" a virgin is definitely a privilege.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I'm not a "virgin hunter" but it would be nice to be with one for a change 😋 bad thing we're not from the same country lol

    • Aww, thanks :) You sure we're not? What country are you from?

    • pretty sure because you speak English while I'm here to practice it haha I'm from argentina by the way

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