My boyfriend always pokes his dick against my ass and it really pisses me off?

I say "don't do that", but the next time he does it he seems to forget I don't like it too much, he just acts like a horny baboon.
we could be spooning and then his hand will brush over my tit and then he'll get a boner. Then he'll start prodding his dick between my butt crack. The fuck.
Why does he do it 😑 I find it embarsing when he keeps doing this.
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  • girl I'm in the same boat as you. It's gotten way too fucking annoying. Far past the point of my still finding it even mildly amusing, though even months later, my boyfriend continues to try to play it off as 'just a joke'.

    If he at times does it multiple times on a night when I happen to be in a really pissy mood, be it because I'm tired from work/studying or stressed from something else, I've found that the only way to actually get through to him (though only temporarily thus far) is to legit push him away. Push him away on the bed or I just get up and move.
    There's nothing cool about jokingly pushing clearly set boundary lines, y'know?
    😑

  • I dont see anything bad in this, he loves you and he gets turned on by you, i would rather be preoccupied if he would not get a boner by touching you ecc, so why not enjoy it, i mean it's not like he is sticking it inside LOL...
    Just chill :) and be happy that he is turned on by you

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  • Yeah, I do that too, but my SO is more understanding and helps, me along with a bit of grinding. Not as hot as a titty fuck but still better than a kick in the nuts.
    If she was as repressed as you seem to be, I'd respect it but would likely end up dumping her.

    • I'm not repressed though that's what you people seem to not understand -_- I very much enjoy having sex with him frequently, but he seems to grind his dick against me all the time. I mean, he wouldn't like it if I did it to him constantly, he's the most moodiest person ever when he's sleepy and he will not have sex with me when he's like that. But he expects me to have sex with HIM when I'M sleepy. Umm it doesn't work one way I'm afraid.

    • Mileage varies as a huge part of the human mosaic. On those rare occasions when she's less in the mood than I am, she rolls over for spooning and a nice little butt crack frottage. She's usually asleep before it's over. It takes 2 to tango, but this costs her nothing and I am so grateful! As for not liking turned tables? I seriously do! I don't actually remember falling asleep with a nipple brween my lips and my forearm between her thighs, but it might have happened. Once, a few years ago. . . We. Not me. Whatever it takes. J

  • I suppose you don't realize that pressing your ass against a man's dick causes it to get horny? If you want it to stop happening, stop laying down with him with your ass on his dick.

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  • If you can't satisfy your boyfriend then be prepared to be either cheated on or he will lose interest in you. It's not that he want you for your body it's point he kept him self from have sex 100 of girls but only stuck with you. But you are dismissing that. Well good luck. You have all rights to be annoyed but if I was him I will not find it remotely possible to stick with a girl who's like that.

    • So I have to fuck him whenever he wants to even when I'm tired or not in the mood? No. Boys obviously need to learn that their girlfriends aren't just going to screw them whenever they want to, and if you can't accept that you're obviously not ready for a relationship where both of the people in that relationship get a say when it comes to sexual activity, not just one.

    • Your wrong. If your sex drive is on the rise your partner suppose to be able to satisfy them. If your tired or not in the mood. THATS 1000000% okay. It's fine no big deal but if your not in the mood or tired more than often. Then hell what a guy supposed to do? We can control our stuff But if you put off more often then not then it's best if he find a partner who is in the mood.

    • I'm not attacking you or trying say awe he should get sex. Shit your tired your not in mood. That's completely understandable. If I'm not in mood " girl quit playn." tell her no. But if she/he is not satisfied then he/should find someone who is. It's petty to break a relationship cause of that but I feel before any one get into a relationship they should have known how horny there friend ( the guy who later became a boyfriend)

  • You're annoyed your boyfriend finds you attractive? Bizarre.

    • That's like saying to someone who was raped "why are you complaining, they just found you attractive?" Obviously my problem isn't as awful as that though. But it annoys me when I'm not in the mood to fool around, I just want to spoon, but he tries it on anyway.

    • Seems like your sex drives are incompatible, pretty simple explanation to your question. What to do about it? I'm not sure, but you either need to sit down and talk to him seriously about it, or you need to call time on the relationship so you can find a less horny guy and he can find a woman who is up for it more.

  • Yeah whatever go lick a pussy...

  • He wants anal

  • Be glad he is doing it and still finds you sexually arousing. He could easily be over you and doing it to other girls.. take it as a compliment.

    My opinion.

  • Hahahaha. He's just a horndog that's all lol

  • He's operating under the delusion that you are attracted to him and enjoy his sexual attention, or you wouldn't have wanted to be his girlfriend.

    • In all seriousness, spooning is a horrible 'i'm not in the mood to fool around' position for any guy who is an ass guy, unless he's cum in the last 45 minutes.