Why is it impossible for sex to be connected to love, at least according to women on here?

[Anonymous]

When I love a woman, I want to fuck her. I want to be the one she chose, the ONLY one she chose to be all of the things I'm about to say. The ONLY one who can cum inside her and make a baby if we so choose to do that. I want to be close to her, our bodies pressed together, to feel her, connect to her, be so ONE with her, that I am literally INSIDE her. I want her to surrender to me, to be my sexy little play thing. Not because I need my penis to rub the inside of her vagina sending waves of pleasure through my body until I cum inside. No, the most amazing thing about it all.. is that she chose me to be the one to share this experience. She loves me, and I love her. And I do this thing that nobody else can do with her! Nobody else can do with me.

I want her to trust me because she loves me, and she knows I love her with such confidence that she would let me press down upon her throat with all of my strength at my disposal knowing full well it's 100% within my power to suffocate her to death. But she knows I would never do that. She lets me manhandle her, slap her ass, fuck her any way I want. She will do everything in her power to pleasure me and anything that I ask her to do she will do it, and the same goes in reverse. I'll do anything she wants to make her cum. We both revel in our human nature, our desire to make love.

We kiss, nobody else can kiss her, she's mine and I love her. We hold hands, we cuddle, we fuck, we watch a movie we fuck 10 times in a day! We wake up with morning breath and kiss eachother and it doesn't gross us out. All things nobody else can have.

But all I see on this site is "why does my boyfriend want sex? omg all he wants is sex? Do men even feel love? Omg men don't feel love, if he loves me why does he want so much sex?"

If sex means nothing to you, let him fuck other women. There's no such thing as cheating if there is no love in sex.

[Anonymous]

It's so so refreshing to read this on here, an actual mature response to counter all of the other (immature but trying to pretend to be cool) blues saying it's all only ever about sex.
I must admit, I have also vented on here and said things that I'd never actually mean out of sheer frustration, especially in response to those blues as after reading so many of them it sort of becomes an expected cynicism unfortunately.

[Megabeauty]

I believe in the love factor too. however I've been played & I kno that a lot (not all) men are just looking for sex. for those reasons I do still have needs, so when I want my needs fulfilled and don't have a relationship I try not to get too emotionally invested in someone until I see where things are going. it's all about having your guard up until you find that one who also wants love & not just sex

[El_Muffidore]

Dudes you should write some fantasy sex stories for women

[Asker]

Lol, I dunno about that. Maybe if some agree with you ^_^