If you were just to BIG for a girl would you stop having sex with her?

[Anonymous]

Let say you are having sex with her and she is saying "Oh fuck it's so big" as you enter her, her eyes are closing up in pain, and as you begin to thrust she is moving her body away from you. She tries to smile and be a good show but you can see the pain in her eyes, sometimes tears as you thrust your cock in and out of her pussy.

Eventually she says "I can't do this. I can't do this it's too fucking big" and tries to move away. Would you continue fucking her and try to convince her playfully to keep taking your dick until you cum or would you stop having sex with her and end it?

[AustinMan]

I didn't vote. I'd stop but I'd be trying to find a way to get her both relaxed and dilated with your fingers well before you enter. It'll take a lot of patience on your part and you may have to finish with your other girl friend, your dominant hand sometimes at first.

Also cowgirl gives her control of the penetration and it's huge fun to see her eyes and play with her tits.

Cowgirl tips
Here’s the way I have found, with the help of a very cooperative girlfriend, that a woman can ride her man all the way up the mountain to multiple, increasing powerful orgasms and ultimately, squirting.
• He needs to understand that he can help with this position by grabbing her hips and helping her move. At first, leave to her own devices but as she gets more and more aroused, he should become stronger and more and more forceful in moving her back and forth.
• Put him on his back and mount up with you on your knees.
• Slide him in and settle in so you’re comfortable.
• Rock like you’re riding a horse, slowly at first and faster as you get more aroused.
• When you’re ready for him to help, reach down and put his hands on your hips. For effect, you can beg him in your sexy slut voice to help you.
• When you start to get close to cumming, move like you’re trying your best to break that thing off. Of course, you won’t but the point is to not hold back. Just go crazy.
• When you’re right on the edge, tell him to do you. He thrusts up as powerfully as he can and holds it with you impaled as deeply on his cock as possible, perched on his erection. He also forcefully tilts his hips and slams his shaft into your G-spot.
• As you cum, don’t even slow down. Keep going and you will cum over and over, each time increasingly intense.
• If you have The Big One, as I call it, you may very likely squirt so if there’s a gush, it’s not urine. It’s female ejaculate. Keep going until you’re completely done.
Here are a few ancillary suggestions:
• Pee first so that if you should squirt, you can be confident it’s not pee.
• If you’re into S&M, have him forcefully pinch your nipples as you’re starting to cum.
• He can slap your tits around if you’re into that. One girlfriend of mine liked to be slapped while she was up there with me telling her what a trashy slut she was for being up there in the first place.
• Some ladies like their men to reach around and smack their ass while they ride.

[SovereignessofVamps]

Or she could just leave.

[Anonymous]

"Keep convincing her to take the dick until you cum" = / = Rape

Forcing it into her when she clearly says she doesn't want it = Rape.

God, some of you are fucking stupid. Trying to persuade a woman, easing her to be more comfortable into trying again does not equal rape.

[TMWLOP]

Thank you at least someone read the dang question

[Touchmehxx]

She doesn't want it, even if they are slightly u comfy with it and say stop you STOP

[TMWLOP]

@Touchmehxx yes we get what stop means everyone does! But to say that its rape because we want to keep going an try to convince them, Not force them, is incredibly stupid, fore play, lub, slowing down, asking them if this is better, sex is an intimate talk betten two lovers, it shouldn't end in 5 seconds because guys dick is to big for a girls pussy, and he's barely moved yet.

[Touchmehxx]

@TMWLOP girl: no stop it's too big Guy: carries on =rape

[TMWLOP]

@Touchmehxx um just so you know, no where in A doesn it say "guy keeps going" it says " convince her" and just so you know convince means to presuade someone, jez at least read the whole question

[Touchmehxx]

@TMWLOP It's manipulation

[Opinion Owner]

@Touchmehxx Manipulation? Seriously? Christ. If that's how you feel you shouldn't have sex. Ever.

[Touchmehxx]

I've already had sex lmao

[TMWLOP]

@Touchmehxx listen no, strangly enough, means no, but if your saying that guys can't even talk to their partner during sex so that they can BOTH keep having good sex is manipulation then you need to honestly look up what that word means

[Touchmehxx]

@TMWLOP she said stop

[TMWLOP]

@Touchmehxx no actually she said take it out, no where in the whole thing did she say no, you can't make consentual sex sound like rape, and when you out it out of context like that you confuse people even more

[missten]

@TMWLOP Honestly stop telling people to "read the whole question" because if YOU read the question you would see that the way the asker phrased is is ".. continue fucking her and try to convince her.." . Continue = don't stop. Not stopping =rape. And if you do stop and try to convince her other ways, fine. But even if you've only been in her for 5 seconds, and she decides she doesn't want it anymore. That alone is a good enough reason to stop. Sex can end in 5 seconds and someone shouldn't have to give you a reason you find sufficient enough. ffs

[TMWLOP]

@missten but were in bed already with her, we have consent, she says to you, "take it out, its too big, its too big", then i vote a, cause id try to convince the girl im having sex with that ill make her feel good, it it means i have to stop and slow down and kiss her and ask her step by step if each slow thrust is better id do it! id try to CONVINCE HER thats its ok and that she can do it an that itll feel good! do you think a guy actually wants to hear that shit? NO! he's wants the girl to feel amazing, but you ignorant people won't even give men that kinda thought, freaking man hating sicko's

[Stallion76]

Actually, you can't be Too Big For a girl. Lots of guys wish that they could be too big for a girl, but the fact is, it's impossible. Think about it, IF a woman is able to pass a Small human, then she definitely can handle whatever you may have. Granted that women's bodies fo through changes when they are pregnant, the male penis is really no match for a vagina in that aspect. There you have it guys don't worry, you're not too big. Oh, one more thing, its natural for a virgin to say such a thing, or have that thought, she's a virgin, she's never had sex before.

[SovereignessofVamps]

Uh... all she has to do is say no and shove him off. If he still wouldn't stop, then that's a completely different subject. I think guys who voted A. just have fantasies, and would nvr be...'brave'... enough, to no listen to her no IRL.

[kellyg83]

so the majority would keep going huh? just be prepared to have your junk cut off after. cause it's comin' b*tches.

[TMWLOP]

No you didn't read the question, its says convince her, that means asking and trying to accomidate, not take off like a race horse, read the questio before you comment

[kellyg83]

@TMWLOP i read the whole f*cking thing, and you make it sound like rape. just sayin.

[TMWLOP]

Where in the question does she even say stop? Voting a ( if you read he WHOLE thing) means that you would try to CONVINCE her to keep going, doesn't mean ram it in, it can mean a number of things, to slowing down to make it more itimate, maybe trying more foreplay to get her more excited, or even grabbing more lub, an she's already naked in the bed i dont think she would be mad at me for trying to fix the problem from us making love, and the fact that you ASSUME that these men are rapists because they would rather talk to thier romantic partner is actually crazy in my mind.

[kellyg83]

@TMWLOP where, at any point, does it mention talking to her you pathetic jack@ss? are you trying to convince me, or yourself?

[TMWLOP]

It literally says convince her, its LITERALLY SAYS keep CONVINCING HER

[kellyg83]

@TMWLOP no it says "CONTINUE F*CKING HER IN ORDER TO CONVINCE HER. and just so you know, it's not just about the guy getting off. and if she's not getting any pleasure, then you might want to learn how to use your hand."

[TMWLOP]

Um you just literally failed a quoting, you suck, its actually says "keep convincing her to take your dick till you cum", so at least try to make a "good" argument

[kellyg83]

@TMWLOP yeah, and you just pretty much admitted what a piece of sh*t you really are. so it doesn't matter about the quoting. you're still scum.

[TMWLOP]

Ok looks like im back at square one, milo i pray to you in my time of need, please make this rude, man hating, overly senstive bigget, come to light with the truth of this oh so important gag question, amen

[kellyg83]

@TMWLOP please help this entitled moron to not grow up to be the self-centered, selfish brat that he already is. amen.

[TMWLOP]

Praise be milo, amen, everybody amen, please lady in the back, LINDA PAY ATTENTION! amen

[ihateheroicleishin]

@TMWLOP https://sapac.umich.edu/article/205 please read this.

[TMWLOP]

@ihateheroicleishin ok i get it, but this doesn't mean that our guy didn't get consent, you dont have to keep asking for consent, you can't strong arm me with that info, thought very good material i will add ( at least you put in effort 😚) but i will say this, if i can say anything, its that this question was too poorly worded for all the non thinking people here, plan and simple

[ihateheroicleishin]

@TMWLOP No you don't get it. This is the law. Even if she had sex he can be charged with rape. It doesn't matter how anyone feels this is ILLEGAL. It's a FELONY. If the law stated that everyone must wear yellow on Tuesday and you failed to do it you would be arrested and charged. Opinions don't matter. The law is reason free of passion. Everyone in my family is a lawyer (Save myself ) and I know full well what I am talking about.

[TMWLOP]

@ihateheroicleishin please read this https://www.dictionary.com/browse/consent
This doesn't get to change just because, consent is consent, no take backs unless your actually raped

[ihateheroicleishin]

@TMWLOP I have been educated in the law though it's not my major I am thoroughly aware of my rights. If a man did this to me I have the right to defend myself if I choose, or to simply have him arrested. You're a 19 year old kid with no context of the law actually getting angry at those who would correct you. Quit talking. You have nothing intelligent to say.

[TMWLOP]

@ihateheroicleishin you need to read, READ PEOPLE. PLEASE, read your own article please, it literally says that both parties KNOW that NEITHER WANTS SEX NORMALLY! fuck and i thought you actually made a good. point jez what a let down miss i live with laywers

[TMWLOP]

@ihateheroicleishin oh cause im young it equals you dont known shit, nice argument, next time you wanna shut someone down actually bring some knowlegde to the debate. but answer me this, what would you say if this was a guy?

[TMWLOP]

@ihateheroicleishin lady hurry up im starting to lose interest in you 😔

[ihateheroicleishin]

@TMWLOP Consent knows no gender. Please go play with your tinker toys.

[TMWLOP]

@ihateheroicleishin didn't really answer my question but sure, ill take my won and go for a nice, consented wank with my right hand, thanks for the try though, maybe your siblings should teach you how to conduct an argument better 😥

[SoFeckinAddicted]

So basically would you be a decent person and stop or would you be a sick cunt and rape her?

[Wonderer89]

"I can't do this it's too fucking big" and tries to move away. Would you continue fucking her and try to convince her playfully to keep taking your dick until you cum

She has said she can't do it and TRIES to move away. It's rape.

[RetroDreamerXD]

Thanks for asking this question. Lmfaooooooolololololol these comments are fucking funny as hell.

[LaurenGrace]

Stop means stop

[NexAngelus]

the poll is ACTUALLY convince her, that is not rape. u might not like the wording or the situation but that is the poll. u feminists are normal are just on attack dog mode. why do u even care? do u put urselves in this situation alot? tease people so much that they won't stop if u asked them too? i see the kind of guys u keep company with and HOW U BEHAVE around them. its very telling. it takes two to tango, and u girls are seeming to forget that in an age taht is suppose to be about equality. u forget that at any moment that is convient for u.

[ihateheroicleishin]

What is wrong with you? Are you so daft and unaware of the law?

[NexAngelus]

@ihateheroicleishin nope im fully aware of the law, and the fact that recently feminists change the law of rape. i was helping educate some snowflakes on the law when we noticed it was wrong... then we saw it was just changed. updated by our outstanding government who couldnt help but fuck up anything they touch. im well alware of all the bull shit sexual blah laws that feminists hide behind and use to falsely accuse people each year of. WELL AWARE of. and there are too dam many of them for a "equal" sex. but then again we all really know the actual answer to that.

[ihateheroicleishin]

I dislike feminism as much as you, however the law is the law.

[TheLuckyPizzaDog]

LOLLLLLLLLL

[madhatters4]

i'd stop. anyone who is going to cause pain to someone for their own self satisfaction is kind of disgusting

what's with the picture of mya?

[missten]

Yeah so thats definitely rape...

[Brian-Brain]

You have to be a serious asshole to even ask this question. And only a guy that truly can't get any would answer A.
A truly pathetic question!!

[itsallover]

Look at how many rapists there are in that poll. Incredible.

[TMWLOP]

Why are they rapists? there's a question of if you could convince her, its not asking "or fuck her feelings and keep going", did you even read the question?

[itsallover]

@TMWLOP Yes I read the question. Coercing someone into continuing sexual activities after they've said no is rape. End of story.

[TMWLOP]

No its not actually, consent is consent, you can't just be like "ops no way", but getting back on to topic, like I've said to multiple people here, Voting A, doesn't mean rape becuase the question doesn't say "greenlight" it says convunce her which means to presuade someone, which means she was asked how he can help here, please stop trying to make something as serious as rape sound so small

[itsallover]

@TMWLOP "Voting A, doesn't mean rape becuase the question doesn't say "greenlight" it says convunce her which means to presuade someone" Dude, that's rape. She hasn't consented off of her own accord. She's consenting because he's telling her too. I'm not arguing with you anymore.

[TMWLOP]

Then how the fuck are we already in her if she didn't give consent? can you just think normally please? I know you can if you just read it properally

[itsallover]

@TMWLOP You can withdraw consent in the middle of sex, in case you didn't know. It might help you out in the future.

[itsallover]

@TMWLOP I suggest you watch this video
https://youtu.be/oQbei5JGiT8

[TMWLOP]

Um, no thats not how consent works. You can't just sleep with someone then half way throught yet stop your hurting me and then get them arrested for rape... Oh wait thats what some woman actually do how could i forget that

[itsallover]

@TMWLOP Unfortunately, that is how consent works. You clearly didn't watch the video, therefore you don't want to learn. I'm not wasting any more of my time with you.

[ihateheroicleishin]

@TMWLOP Yes you can. That is rape, by law.

[NJ_Casanova]

I didn't vote as the options were too limited...

option C- stop and finish with oral and try again at a later time.

Happens all the time, when first hooking up with a girl.. You have to stop;-(

You just need to give her more foreplay/oral and make sure she's fully aroused and relaxed. You got it in.. so it's not too big. I've been with a girl that we never got that far. She just physically couldn't stretch enough.

That is why I prefer her on top for the first time... so she can control the pace/depth/angles. It'll take so times together but her body will adjust and the pain with go away and only be pleasurable to her.

[AleDeEurope]

I'll stop. It's obviously a bummer, and it leaves you wanting more, but I'm not an asshole to make her suffer so I can cum.

[TMWLOP]

Wait a second, are people seriously offended by this? I think everyone that voted yes KNOWS what no means, i dont understand why we can't simply have a discussion over this like grown ups, whats wrong with asking her if its ok if he moves slower? or maybe trys forplay? Why does it go straight to rape? Its so stupid when you dont even try to kind about it

[That1tallguy]

We'll the thing is you'll have the worse case of blue balls so I would try to convince her to finish me of orally it's a win win

[TadCurious]

Unless the girl has some abnormality with her vagina, the fact that she's in that much pain is almost certainly psychological. The pain is real, but it's caused by her not being mentally/physically ready for sex. She's anxious and/or ambivalent about having sex and so the muscles at the entrance to her vagina tense up. That makes insertion painful. I don't think it has much of anything to do with the size of the guy's dick.

[Asker]

That might not be the case if the girl is petite 5'2" girl and you have a monster cock.

[TadCurious]

Petite girls who are 5'2" can deliver babies through their vagina that are bigger than a "monster" cock.

[Asker]

You are Implying that delivering babies is not painful.

[TadCurious]

Not at all. Everyone knows childbirth is painful. I just used that as an example as how the vagina (absent some abnormal condition) is able to accommodate something much larger than a supposedly "monster" cock. Sex (penis-in-vagina) isn't supposed to be painful. There is no anatomical reason (absent an abnormality) that a petite girl's vagina can't comfortably accept a penis that's farther to the right on the Bell curve when it comes to size. Unless she has a mental block or vaginismus.

[goldfinch23]

I've had the same problem with my girlfriend. You know what? She gets used to it. And now she's able to take someone bigger than I am.

[Elkindtg]

What the fuck is wrong with these guys? If she said stop you stop, you don't push it further. If it's hurting her to the point of her wanting you to stop why the fuck would you want to go further?

[meatballs21]

If it's been a while for her, she will be tighter than usual and will loosen in time. Until then, you will have to take it easy.

If you are just so huge that she can't be fucked by you then that is a deal breaker.

[capturemyheartnow]

Stop having sex with her right there. But I will try to find a solution to this problem. Because a women's vaginal opening does expand when she is sufficiently excited. I will wait till that time and see if penetration is possible when she is sufficiently excited.

[JustinTheGreat]

49% of the guys in this poll are rapists

[genericname85]

You realize that something as big as both your hands are supposed to fit through... No such thing as too big. Only too long.

[NJ_Casanova]

That doesn't mean its pleasurable. a lot of girls tear.. when giving birth... so in reality it didn't fit.

[genericname85]

@NJ_Casanova no honestly. any size dick a man can have is just a matter of getting used to it. length has a physical limit for women. girth is just training.