Why are there so many black people against interracial dating, namely black women and white men dating?

[Anonymous]

I'm confused ever since I joined a local facebook group of over 30k members that is mostly just a local community where fellow blacks can discuss a variety of topics but that isn't the purpose of the group.

Anyways, there seems to be this weird views in the group when it comes to interracial dating. A lot of the black dudes on the site love "Becky's" aka white blonde women who date or have sex with black guys, but a lot of them also shame any black woman who is seen in a photo on the site having relations with a white guy. Usually something along the lines of "she's messing with the KKK I see" or "Helping to contribute the destruction of the black family smh".

The black women on the group also share a similar view and think that not only are white men the ultimate evil but think that no black woman should ever date a white man under any circumstances. Similar comments like those I posted above are said and I know one member was roasted after a photo of her with her new white boyfriend appeared.

What's weird though is there is still a handful of women on the group that want to date white guys, but treat it as some sort of weird fetish, calling them "white kings" and such.

I honestly just don't know what to think, it's all such a weird clusterf**k. Anybody have some insight they want to share?

[xXiTacoXx]

Because there's a lot of hypocrites unfortunately. A lot of people want to have their cake an eat it too. They'll date a "Becky" in a heartbeat calling her more feminine, well mannered, freaky in the better, better than black women, less ghetto, looks better, and say she's less treacherous than a black women and encourage other men to date anyone else on the planet as long as she isn't a black woman (especially a dark skinned one), and saying that they have seen the light, but when a black woman tries to date out to hopefully find love and/or someone who doesn't treat her like shit all hell breaks loose. They'll call those of us who do date out/don't care about the race of our S. O. bed wenches, race traitors, sell outs, gross, wanna be white girls, insecure, gold diggers, desperate, fake, KKK worshipers, self-hating, destroyers of the black community, tools for fetishists, white washed, only wants mixed babies, etc. It's hilarious. I personally don't give a fuck what someone's preferences are, but you don't start bashing someone not of your preference just to promote your own, and you don't start bashing someone else's preferences when you have the same exact one's towards the opposite sex of the preferred racial group you both like. It's fucking cunty as hell.

[Curlybeauty17]

Black men have viewed having white women as a "prize" for the longest because how taboo it was for a black man to be with a white woman throughout history of black people in the US. However a white man with a black woman was very common, but very involuntary on the black woman's part. So I guess using that reasoning some black people view it as disrespectful to our ancestors for black women to voluntarily "swirl" with white men. But, to me, if you can find someone who loves you, respects you, and does not fetishize you, there's nothing wrong with an interracial relationship, especially for black women because black women are often degraded, devalued, and sexually objectified by too many people, even the people with our race.

[dwiller943]

Right. My dad (who is black) was dating a white blonde women at the same time he didn't like the fact that I was dating white guys. The ONLY time he ever accepted any of the white guys that I dated were if they "acted black" or if he liked them; regardless if they even made me happy.

[Anonymous]

There's a porn site that they use to discourage black women too. It's kind of funny that they mention it over and over again.

They don't like white men very much. The reason they are okay with dating white girls is that they feel like it's getting one over on white guys.
It's allowed for them though and I also don't think white people care quite as much to call any non white person out for that type of attitude.

[rjroy3]

Do you know what a chode is?

[Asker]

A small dick?

[rjroy3]

A man that doesn't know the first thing about girls. Has never had a girlfriend or is just bad with women. In my experience, if the person isn't racist it is usually because he's a chode that wanted to get with that girl. I've dated white girls where their male "friend" would say "wow, I never thought she'd date a black guy. But I guess it makes sense with you, because you're not all black". Super fuckin racist lol. But also a chode that couldn't get with her.

[Asker]

Interesting. Wonder where that applies with black girl/white guy relationships though.

[rjroy3]

The same is true in reverse.

[Intraluminal]

The US is fu regarding race. Plain and simple.