Girls, what if he just wants to eat you out?

Usually blowjobs are more common than going down on a girl, meaning that if you're not having sex, it's more common to just give/receive a blowjob, than eating out the girl. So what if this was reversed?
What would you think if you're dating this guy and are about to get sexual, and he just wants to eat you out? He doesn't want a blowjob or sex, he just wants to go down on you. Would you think he's less dominant? Would you think there's something wrong with his dick? What would you think about this?

This can happen in a hookup, with the guy you've had some dates with, with your boyfriend, your husband... Just apply the scenario that works best for you.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Usually when a couple has an arrangement like this, it's because there is something getting in the way of full-on sexual intercourse.
    On the woman's end, that can be something like endometriosis, which would make fucking excruciatingly painful but may not have the same effect on getting oral and/or riding a guy's face.
    On the man's end, there can be systemic erectile problems or nerve issues that flare up with fucking, but not with blowjobs (and obviously not with a girl on his face ahahha)

    But... FOR THE MOST PART couples eventually progress to wanting to fuck, because, for most people, that's a natural drive.
    It's a "natural drive" for any of 10,000,000 reasons, beyond the obvious biological ones having to do with pregnancy and all that. For most people that's also the most intimate of "intimate" acts, especially in positions when you're facing each other. It's impossible to look directly into each other's eyes during oral, after all... mahahah

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    Way back in the day, I had a couple of "situations" with boys who were perfectly content with just *giving* oral sex, with no promise of reciprocation.

    One was a guy I'd dated a bit. (Wouldn't say "ex-boyfriend", since the relationship had never risen to that level.)
    We'd figured out that we were never going anywhere as a couple... but, that boy had a tongue to make angels sing hosanna. He could almost touch his forehead with it, I swear.
    So, uhm yeah, *that* part of our quasi-relationship lasted a fair amount longer than everything else.

    The other guy and I had hooked up a couple times. He wasn't the best lover, wasn't the worst either... just kinda "meh", really. But, oh boy did he have a thing for having his face ridden hard. So much that he became the first lover I ever had who'd finish with no direct stimulation at all -- more often than not, multiple times -- just from having me fuck the hell out of his face.
    So, hey, he got off, I got off. And if we're being honest here, it was a hell of an ego boost for me, to be able to do that to a guy without even having to touch him down there.

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    Lastly, I can't help but rant about this -- Neither type of oral sex is inherently an act of "dominance" or "submission". FOR SOME people it CAN be -- depending on the unique psychology with which they approach sex -- but, to think that either type HAS to be "dominant" or "submissive" is stupid, and I fully blame 50 Shades of Stupidity for putting people into a frame of mind where sex can't just be sex anymore.

  • He's still dominant in my eyes cause he knows what he wants and goes for it. My pervious partner never went down on girls because he thought of it to be weird and somehow disgusting almost (yeah he was one of those double standards guys that wants you to give him a bj after saying that). To me that was just a turn off, it was not dominant it was just unattractive and lame.

    If my guy just wanna eat me out, I have noooothing to complain about what so ever. 😍

    • mmmmmm

  • No, I think it's nice. I've been with guys who try to do this. I personally don't like being eatten out like at all but the thought is where it counts and that's nice to have someone want to make you happy and feel satisfied and not just worry about themselves... makes me want to pleasure them even more!

Most Helpful Guys

  • I think if more men just offered to eat a girl out than asking if they wanted to have sex they'd probably get a lot more action.

    • Probably haha Though I think many girls find it weird or creepy... or suspicious, that he actually JUST wants to eat her out.

    • This ^^ lol Plus, I have no idea if you're willing to give oral pleasure as so many men are against it. So having sex without orgasm for me is not worth it. And let's be real, most women can't cum from pure dick. If he shows he's willing to do foreplay and eat you out, at, least she'll know there's some satisfaction in it for her and he actually cares about her pleasure.

  • Sounds like the guy would be scared that his penis wouldn't work, so he diverted to plan B.

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  • Although I enjoy intercourse very much, I would be OK with a guy who mostly loved to eat me out (and make me orgasm) as long as I am allowed to suck his penis until he cums in my mouth.

    • This should be a staple of every relationship.

  • I would be happy because I want to wait to have sex. If my boyfriend just wanted that and I don't have to give him a blow job, he can do it whenever he wants

  • He is THE man and i keeper!

    • yes i am :P

  • That would be a dream lol I'd marry this unicorn

    • Are you kidding? There are literally tons of guys like this, and they're otherwise normal.

    • Why?

    • @Intraluminal direct them my way haha. never met such man

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  • Although I do love oral, I need the d and want sex. Plus I enjoy giving blowjobs it's one of the main things to do, I like getting tips and hearing the guy moan, grab my hair etc.

    • What's nice about giving oral to a man?

    • @Ummdisodd what's nice about giving oral to a girl?

    • The scent of pussy. The wetness and softness of pussy and the opportunity to feel and see it from so close. What else

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  • I'd love it

    • Any pointers on it?

    • me too :P

  • I wouldn't over think it, maybe he's just really into it lately lol.

  • I would think something is wrong with him jus bc it's the norm to go all the way, but if we've done things before nd he wants to jus do that them that's fine I'd be okay with it no questions asked

  • I would definitely be okay with this!!!

    • mmmmm :P

  • I'd think he's hot af

    • it is :P

  • Regardless of the situation I'd think "wow, i really hit the jackpot." Definitely won't be thinking about anything except how lucky I am haha

    • yessssss

  • I'd think he's not prudent.

  • Heaven

    • mmmmm :P

  • Let him

  • Doesn't sound bad...😏

  • i had a friends with benefits that just let me eat her out since she had a boyfriend :P very fun!