What does a woman feel when she sees a man who she finds physically attractive?

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When You see an attractive stranger on the street/cafe/bar etc...

When a physically attractive man walks by her, for example, what goes through her mind? What parts of a man is she most fixated on? What does attraction feel like?

I only know what it feels like for a man to be physically attracted to a woman, and am curious about the differences and similarities.

Okay I sharing my feelings hope you understand.

- I feel a little tingle in my somewhere LOL.
- One or two butterflies might tickle my tummy.
- I feel it like a zing in my stomach - kind of a sudden jolt of electricity.

Do you feel exactly the same things men feel?

Another question,

When You see an attractive (female) stranger on the street/cafe/bar etc...

What do you feel? Do you notice any difference? Any difference of your reaction of your body and mind when you see a man and woman?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

A common misconception is that girls are significantly different from guys mentally. This simply is not true.

If a girl sees a guy she is attracted to. She reacts like a guy does. She might hide it better, but girls check out guys, and are more willing to "bang" certain guys. Just like guys are more willing to bang certain girls.

However, it is a mans world, because men are significantly stronger than women. Consequently, how women express themselves is highly influenced by upbringing and experience. Just like men.

The key thing here is that certain personality types are more common among women than men because inherently, they grow up in sorta a different culture, because they are treated differently.

i. e. people will react negatively to a girl who sleeps with a lot of guys, while a guy who does the same thing, may be respected.

There are social anomalies like this that cause behavioural tendencies amongst women to be suppressed. However, in reality, at its core, men and women's nature is similar.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

They feel nothing. All women are demisexual or asexual. If no one touch them they don't get any sexual sense. They see but not feel.

Felinegirl · Accepted Answer

when it's just an attractive stranger, I get distracted for a moment and look. I just appreciate the beauty and maybe think 'damn', but usually no extensive fantasies follow.
If they'd smile/look at me in a flirty way, I'd feel those same butterflies you described, it's sort of a nervous but excited feeling.

When I know someone better and actually get feelings for them (either just feelings of lust or real love), I do get thoughts of wanting to hug/touch/kiss them, of wanting to be closer, beside a stronger nervous/butterfly feeling whenever they act in a positive way towards me.
I can notice the hormones flushing through my body :P
I also feel strangely happy whenever Im near them.

Jeniferh21 · Accepted Answer

*hot guy walks in
Me: ( holy fuck he's here, ok jenifer act normal and don't stare)
*10 seconds later
Me: ( ok I'll just stare a little bit)
( well shit, look at those fucking eyes)
( how can someone be so perfect?)
( who's that girl? Why is she touching him? Fuck off my man... Oh... He's not my man... Goddamnit)
( good she left)
*hot guy looks up
Me: ( fuck he looked at me for a second, Let me see if he's still looking)
*makes eye contact with hot guy again
Me: ( awesome, now he knows I stalk him, wait... He's smiling... I'm falling... Fuck

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Depends. There is a certain attractive that isn't my type but I can't deny he isn't attractive. Those don't do much for me.

But if he is around 6'0 dark hair and dark eyes, scruffy beard on his face and a square jaw with a T-shirt on with a strong silent personality then my thoughts go sexual. I look at his chest, eyes, smile.

If I see an attractive female I may look around to see if anyone else is looking at her. Most of the time the thoughts don't go sexual but SOMETIMES some females can make me question things.

How do men feel?

BrighteyedAsh · Answer

Ha. On only sight... I just think "Oh he's handsome." "Hm. Nice smile." I've even verbalized an "Mmm." Etc.

Adversely, my boyfriend... he makes my heart flutter... he makes me flush and some part of me near physically melts... it's almost overwhelming. By the second date... he asked if he could kiss me and I can at least say that I leapt on that kiss immediately. I can't explain it... I knew I needed to kiss him. And I was... so very right.

PrinandRose · Answer

My cheeks feel lighter, my lips naturally part, I feel like skipping around if that person does something nice to me. Occasionally, I'll feel lust for someone being so attractive. I'm not going to lie.

Coffinspire · Answer

It's pretty much like ... he's hot... stop looking... oh shit he saw act natural... -finishes coffee and forgets the whole thing ever happened- No tingle in any funny places lol

writing_essays · Answer

Girls don't operate like that most of the time. Until I detect intelligence and virtue in a guy - I couldn't care less how good looking he is. Looks only matter to me after I have a personal relationship with this person and see personality traits in them that I desire.

Shorty1991 · Answer

I only experience those feelings if I develop a crush on someone who I find attractive, those feelings get stronger when I get to know them better.
But at I do see plenty if attractive guys, I admire from a far but they are just eye candy. I don't have any intentions of asking them out.

Pac-Man · Answer

Ladies safety first lol

Jxpxtxr · Answer

I usually look at them twice lol that's about it.

Tatanum · Answer

When I see an attractive guy on the street i wish I dressed better before going out, then I start imagining what he thinks of me then I start fan girling inside hoping that my future man will look somehow like that. If the guy is very attractive and my type I will feel my stomach tightening and blush.

If it was a girl I'd envy her and keep comparing myself to her.

Tiffylynn207 · Answer

"I get a tingle in my some where LOL" - yes, we'll said..
My heart starts racing
Sometimes I smile, wave, and maybe try to start a conversation depending on the reaction I received. I may wanna meet new people someday. Little by little maybe my faith in humanity may be restored. And we can all live in peace :)

melodybluesy · Answer

I feel those same feelings you described ONLY after I've fallen in love. Interesting difference. when I first see an extremely attractive guy I'm drawn to, I feel shy. And still wondering if he's a good guy too. because as soon as I find out he's a jerk.. the attraction immediately falls away.

Blonde401 · Answer

Usually can't stop looking at them. Not that much else. If they talk to me my brain dies and I get a dry mouth.

deraz24 · Answer

Some butterflies, maybe a little shy, and then that sense of damn I won't see them again lol, for a girl its just like oh she's pretty.

Mikhania · Answer

I think.. first, my eyes won't get off of him, like I'll be staring at him, gosh he's cute or hot or what.

I got some butterflies but a little,
And then my brain works, imagine if he will notice me and make the first move and else.. and yeah you know what next.

felchiq · Answer

Well if an attractive guy walks by, i'm probably looking at his face. It makes me smile to see attractive people.

yellowmamba024 · Answer

They say "fuck average guys. We need more hot men."

Bandit74 · Answer

Her twinkle cave gets moist and tingly.

This_is_my_username · Answer

I just think "Oh he's attractive" that's all nothing really happens. I'm just appreciating from afar. Detached in a way.

laylay2487 · Answer

We think "oh he's hot" but some girls think "i wonder what he is like no the inside"

Theodorable · Answer

Women feel spiders crawling all over her body and she wants to eat the head of the man she desires.

Puppylove94 · Answer

i feel nothing lol

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