Is masturbating to my boyfriend weird?

I can't see my boyfriend at all because we are in a long distance relationship and we haven't been able to talk on the phone for a while, so while he's texting me I'll masturbate and think of him and think of things he'd do to me, I've actually masturbated while talking to him on the phone before but I made sure he didn't notice... Is it weird that I do/did that? And would it be weird if I told him that I masturbate thinking of him?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Not at all!

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gB9UNGpGOas



    Whilst you can't have intimate relations in person, you'll find other ways and one of those is either Sexting or Phone sex (now Phone sex is via facetime or skype!).

    Next time you speak to me, bring it up. You both might find it uncomfortable at first but after time it can become fun. Set out 'date nights', where sexy lingeries and send pics etc. All of this could even intensify the sex when at last you get to see each other!

  • ... I've done that, and I honestly don't give a damn what anyone else thinks because it's what I do in MY spare time.

    Now, when it comes to what your boyfriend likes, only you could possibly know that. You know him better than any stranger on the interwebs. I'd honestly just ask him. And if he does think it's weird, who cares! YOU enjoy it and that's what matters most.

    • nice :P

  • I think he would love it if you texted him some of these thoughts, or brought up the idea of phone sex to him

Most Helpful Guys

  • Wtf? Why is this even a question? That's not fucking weird for a girl who's not asexual... It's not even weird if you tell him that. I was about to give you a sarcastic response but I didn't...

  • I would be extremely flattered, and turned on. No, it's not weird.

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  • Not weird and I'm sure he would not mind in the slightest if you told him. I even have a hunch he might be very turned on by it...

  • its not odd and really i think you should tell him so you can share the fun

  • Not weird at all. And if you told I think he'd be really flattered and turned on.

  • I think that sex is important, and he would likely enjoy knowing this. I suggest you tell him

  • That's a huge compliment. Tell him lol

  • Totally normal. Tell him!

  • I think it's not weird, sounds like fun :D

  • Nope. Not at all. Go on and enjoy yourself.

  • I don't think it's weird as long as your both comfortable with it.

  • not at all... I admire you for that.. 😉

  • not at all. everybody does this once in a while.

  • I'm sure the idea of u masturbating to him while you talk and etc would turn him on greatly. I wouldn't worry about it haha

  • No... perfectly normal. You should call him up and let him know you're ready to go... let him talk you to climax! Now that's HOT!

  • No, it's really normal and common! Also, I bet he'd be over the freaking moon if he knew this :)

  • completely normal.

  • That's super sexy

  • Men do no reason why women shouldn't do it. Try video call much more fun

  • naah its normal. and i think you should tell him that, because im sure he will be very happy hearing that

  • Why in the world would that be weird?

  • No its cool.

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