He tends to lose his erection when having sex?

Question

Most of the time when my hub and i have sex, hed lose his erection, and sometimes give up, blaming and getting mad at me that im the reason he can't keep his erection and can't cum. Hed complain that he's tired, having cramps, and that its hot. Hed also say that this is stupid and a waste of time cause it doesn't do him any good, but makes him tired. When he does loses his erection, he only tried to get it back by stimulating it in my v, and prob thinking of someone by hiding his damn face. Its like he can't ever keep an erection for long like how he used to when we were still dating, when we were still dating and he did loses it, hed have me give him a hj, and looking at me would get it back, but not anymore. He has no health problems, however he does smoke weed and drink. But he's been doing those since, and he was still able to keep an erection before like i said. I caught him watching porn and masturbating many times, why is it that he's able to keep up w porn and cum, but when it comes to the real thing w me, he cant? Wtf? I understand that he doesn't have to use his whole body but only his hands, but thats just fucked up. No point if having a woman then if porn is the only thing that can get u off. Sigh. What to do?

dragonfly6516 · Accepted Answer

Hate to say it, but he might actually be bored with you. But it's like it's your fault or you did anything wrong. Some people just aren't monogamous and can't be happy with one person. Porn creates the illusion of someone new; imagining your face on their body. or their body while he's fucking you. It could also be that he turned to porn to try and help be faithful to you, but if a guy does too much porn, although rare, they can actually lose the ability to climax with real women.

dliv2 · Accepted Answer

Ask him why it is your fault, ask what you are doing wrong. You should probably talk to him and ask why he prefers porn over you. Sometimes it's best to just talk it out.

Davisb · Accepted Answer

Damn some of these guys are asshats in there opinions. I lose my erection when having sex with my wife sometimes, and not cum sometimes. But, I have never blamed her for it, this kind of thing happens to all guys at some point and not it to be worried about. However since he spouting ridiculous excuses about y he's having this problem, you may have some other type of marriage problem.

nick9994 · Accepted Answer

Tell him drink some wine,1-3 glasses, depends on his body.
This is a anxiety problem, wine kills anxiety. I tested this myself and after I drink wine difference is next. Before :"Will I lose my erection?"
After: "I will destroy that little pussy"

blazerock44 · Answer

too much porn watching behind a screen and masturbsting to it = can't focus on the real thing no more exept if it was behind a screen... trust me tell him to quit porn and masturbsting for a while

GraveTruth · Answer

Yeah, too much porn. It's killing his testosterone.

nikunjmehta2000 · Answer

He was not thinking of anyone else or not getting bored with you but he required to do yoga or running a lot that was the health issue.

Jay3344 · Answer

I’d say get him to stop watching porn, take a few weeks off from sex, 10 mins of exercise per day, start taking supplements like l-arginine and horny goat weed and see what happens. It’s only a few weeks and may change things.