Guys, do you prefer submissive or dominant girls in bed?


Im naturally submissive in bed, i like it when my boyfriend calls the shots and just 'takes' me. I will literally do whatever he wants in bed and i enjoy it. This might sound fucked up but one of the sexiest times was when my boyfriend basically forced himself on me and he kept trying to fuck me and i was saying no to him and he kept trying and saying he needs me, i kept saying no forcefully but really deep down i wanted him to keep going and was enjoying it. I was so wet, i haven't confessed to him that i actually liked that because he felt bad for continuing when i was saying no and i cried also cos i was confused so to him it seems like i hated it when i really liked it.

I have a deep desire to just be 'taken'. When i first met my boyfriend he didn't really like to do this because his not naturally like that, he was used to BEING dominated. Apparently his ex was 'crazy' in bed or so he says but since being with me he is starting to like dominating. He was even scared to choke me, I've taught him its okay. His just too nice haha

He said one of the most 'wow' times for him was when a girl just threw him on the bed and fucked HIM he didn't fuck her, she fucked him. Apparently he couldnt move lol. I guess he used to be more submissive.

I won't lie, some days i have my moments where i want to dominate and i just take my boyfriend but he always ends up taking over. Id say 90 percent of the time im submissive and want to be dominated.

Personally, what do you prefer?
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  • I like dominance, but I actually focus on her needs, I like to figure out what she reacts to and to get to know her sexually, but the idea of her just showing me while I lay there is boring, I like the fact that most women love rough, that helps me to make our experience even better because it's in my lust needs to push you into the bed, arch your back put a pillow in the perfect spot where it compresses the perfect muscles, or bend you over a table or counter or couch, spit on your pussy, Shove my dick in, then pin you to the bed or where ever by your head or your shoulders or neck, and just pound you really hard, just slam into you as hard as I can like meat, I want maybe once a week, so she will have to be submissive, the rest of the time I will just pull hair or keep my hand on your neck in missionary, or hold your hands above your head or thrust you back into me while I go into you, at a medium rithm, as for exploring, one when you lay there and react when I play with your body with new toys like ice or different foods and snacks, but you shouldn't interfere, except if I tell you to.

  • I'm surprised how many guys want to take on the submissive role I might just be watching to much porn or be influenced by my heritage but I would much rather be the dominant one inside and outside the sheets.

    • Well by nature men are dominant and women are more submissive especially when it comes to sex and dating. Thats the way should be done and has been done for hundreds of years. Nowadays men don't really 'chase' women. I have noticed a lot of men on the submissive side and women becoming more masculine and im not talking about just sex, but in a lot of aspects of life :/

    • yea i think it's still like that in most of the world but not America. I think the modernisation of the 21st century in the US and all the feminist coming up is changing people. Taking them out of their heritage and letting the women take the lead. That's fine and all but I wouldn't want to be in a relationship like that, that's not how I was raised the men worked and the women stayed home to take care of the kids but of course there is exceptions. I'm curious what's your ethnicity?

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  • I am yet to discover. Please don't laugh :p
    But the way you mentioned things are really gonna make some guys horny lol.
    I knew that girls like this kind of ride but it requires high skills and art for a man in the moment of heat to know that "she is not really gonna mind if force fuck her"

    Otherwise sexual assault case is sure.

  • I haven't engaged sex yet, as I haven't found the right girl. but I know I'd prefer submissive girls as I am a dominant man myself. I'd love to captain a ship through the storms and into the calm XD

  • Submissive but i would also like her to her, to feel like i am making love to the person i know not to some doll that says "yes" to everything, if i told her i want smt new but kinda weird i want her to tell me "maybe not now ok?", as in wanting to hear her opinion too

  • I prefer a switch who can do either depending on the mood.

  • Either way I just want her to be into it because that makes a big difference.

  • Try this.

    Let him lie down. Ride his face. Let him use his tongue. You can play with his cock.

    You are also "taken" and him being on bottom will give him a nice time as well.

  • Mix of both.

  • I like a girl that is willing to play both roles because I like switching roles from time to time. A girl that's about 70% submissive and 30% dominant would be about right.

  • uh.. both? lol

  • chicks should always be submissive. I'm a very dominant guy so I would take charge of you and show you what a real man can do

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