GIRLS, My sister wants to see me completly naked? help?

ok i hope girls understand my problem. I have this sister of me who is 19 and i am 22. she happens to be my real sister. She said that her boyfriend left her bcoz he thinks that her boobs are not very attractive[i dont think so ]. She is really close to me so she shares most of the things with me and i help her.. Last month she stripped in front of me and asked me whats wrong with her tits. tbh they are awesome the way they are... she has these saggy pair of boobs with pink nipples and she is really pale... she gets very insecure most of the times. Her boyfriend says that he hates saggy boobs and he is getting a proposal from some hot chick. i hate him so much for that.. but that a story for another day. But the point is that she now wants to see me fully naked and wants to compair herslef to me. Well my problm her is that will it be appropreate for me to be naked in front to her? I mean how normal is it for two sisters to be fully naked around each other in sexual or nonsexual way?
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  • It is not sexual at all. You are sisters. You are from the same gender. There is no issue. If you are holding a particular issue and firm discomfort. You don't have to do this. Inform your sister that you are not comfortable with it. And you will find another way to address her insecurity.

    Such things are not sexual even if you weren't sisters. It is all depends on culture and belief and how the people involved raised to look at it.

    In some cultures, the majority find nudity at any level even in the family members inappropriate. Like some Islamic communities.
    In some other cultures, outsiders are an issue, but family members are fine to be naked with. Like the majority of Western culture and hugely in U. S.
    In some other cultures nudity is not an issue between the same genders, no matter what level of relation they are in. My girlfriend is Finnish, in Finnish culture there is this Sauna, you can find a huge group of females regardless of their relation (whether family members or friends) get naked and get into Sauna together. It's the same thing with men.

    So it is all up to cultures, beliefs and individual practices.

  • Lots of women are naked or half naked in front of close friends or family without being bothered. In changing rooms at most gyms, the men change in an open area and see lots of men nude. I assume it is the same for most women's locker rooms. So seeing each other nude is not weird. But her wanting to see you nude for comparison purposes does sound weird. What would seeing you do for her concerns about herself?

    Probably the best thing would have been to show her your breasts (you don't have to strip naked for that) and be done with it.

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  • It's not weird tbh I've seen my sisters naked all my life. We share a bathroom so half the time I'm doing makeup while they shower (we have a walk in shower so there's no cover) and it's not weird. If it makes you uncomfortable and you don't want her to look downstairs, just wear underwear and let her compare your her boobs to yours. She's your sister who has been hurt and feels insecure, while I don't think Jimin compaing herself to anyone else is a good idea mental health wise, if it'll help her, take your top off and help your sister! Hope this helped! I wish you and your sister the best of luck!

    • Well i see. But thing is she kinda said she wanna have a look downstairs too. And to b honest i wanna do it too but i m afraid it might go sexual

    • Hmm well if you're not comfortable with her looking downstairs, just be honest with her. You don't have to tell her why you can just tell her in makes you feel uncomfortable. She's your sister and should respect that

    • Is it really that bad if it did get sexual? To be honest it sounds like she might be attracted to you.

  • as I understood fro your story - she wants to compare her breasts with yours - and not pubic parts. In many free societies and cultures, and many of tribes in Asia and African countries people do not hide their chest or breasts (Male and Female) under cloths or other way. If you are sharing a room - or close enough - there is no harm in showing her your breasts. After child birth most women do not hesitate to feed new born in public - in from of not so familiar persons. Just think it like a special biology school class for her and assure her that she need not to be unhappy about her body.

    • but she said she might take a look down there as well.. so i am really confused with it... why would she wanna look at my pubic region if she wants to see my boobs?

    • If it is like that - she must be trying to develop / establish lesbian relationship with you. If you are curious or ready for that - go ahead, otherwise strongly say no to her proposals and for few days do not talk with her in private. Talk with her only in presence of some family members only - preferably parents.

  • Well I walk around my mom and sister half naked all the time but I prefer to cover my intimate parts. Whenever they're naked they give 0 fucks lol

    But I'm more concerned with the fact she wants to compare herself to you :/ she needs to be happy with herself

    • yeah... i understand that///// what do u mean by half naked?

    • In my underwear usually

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  • She's your sister, this is normal behavior between sisters and there's nothing sexual about it. I mean, for some sisters, seeing each other naked isn't even weird cause they've been doing it all their lives - you are family after all.

  • My sister and I have been seeing each other naked our entire lives. Nothing weird about it, you're family.

    • wel thanks... that really helps me

  • Ok, this isn't sexual at all. She is very insecure about her body and wants to compare it to yours. You are the only one she trusts and also the closest biologically to her. She just wants to know how yours look compared to hers to give her some piece of mind. She thinks something is wrong or not right with her body and comparing it to you would show her there isn't anything to worry about.

  • It doesn't seem sexual at all. You're both women, you both have the same parts. There's nothing wrong with it as long as you're comfortable with it. And it might help her out some too.

    • well how about men? will they find it wired?

    • Meh, i've been nude in front of my brother before.

    • I think a little more openness to nudity in non-sexual situations would only help our society.

  • It would make me feel uncomfortable.

  • This sort of thing happens a lot. Don't worry about it. However if you feel uncomfortable then don't do it and your sister is going to have to learn to accept herself. By the way you can tell her not only is she fine she is attractive with those breasts. Pink nipples are hot commodity.

  • It's not normal at all.

    The only time I have seen my sisters tits was because I had to change her because she was too shit faced to change herself.

    • lol... i see

  • Dear if you both are sisters then there is no issues, same gender why to shy, I can understand you both are straight oriented, in front of sister I don't think it's some trouble, you can do that

  • Thats completely normal. Nothing shameful or wrong with it. Its just a human body, and your sisters. I've seen my bestfriend (hes like a brother) naked numerous times. Its all about your and her level of comfortability with it.

    • him naked? like what dick or what? coz my sissy wants to have a look down there too

    • Yes, I've seen him completely naked. I personally see nothing wrong with nudity

    • was it erect at the time/? also if it was... how did u react?

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  • Nudity between sisters shouldn't be a problem.

    • Let it happen by accident, if you're not comfortable with undressing on purpose.

  • It's normal for girls to do that with friends but I never heard of it with family. Looking up some workouts that'll perk up tits, it'll help

  • You both are sisters i think you should go naked in front of him. Or if you are not comfortable then just show him your boobs i think she just wants to compare boobs so no harm in it shiw your boobs to him. After all she is not interested down there.

  • this just really odd to me

  • This is disturbing but ey not?

  • May be She wants to compare her tits with yours

  • It's absolutely fine and normal.

  • There isn't anything weird about sisters seeing each other naked.

  • it make you both more closer if you be naked, i think you should do that easily. just make sure you won't have better body than her otherwise she be more insecure, rather than that its normal and nothing to worry.

  • Did you get naked for her?

  • Do you like seeing her naked? She might be testing you to see if you're attracted to her as she seems to be toward you. Does the thought of being intimate with her excite you? I think it's very normal for siblings to be attracted to each other. Siblings are actually our first loves. .. even moms and dads.
    We tend to stifle our affections when it comes to siblings and parents due to social taboos placed upon us. Love is love ,.. we learn to restrict our love going through life.

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