If a guy told you that he had this fetish, how would you react?

If you're a girl, let's say it's your boyfriend coming out with this; if you're a guy, let's say that it's your best friend instead. One day, he comes out to you and admits that he's into the 'Ryona' fetish- and if you don't know what it is, he goes on to explain that:

Ryona, as a fetish, revolves around a female victim being physically assaulted or psychologically abused by an offender. It differs from sadism in that it is a voyeuristic fantasy fetish, and people with this fetish are sexually aroused by watching other men battering women until they bleed, physically, sexually and psychologically abusing women, or even killing women. Because the fetish is so broad it often incorporates other, more common, fetishes such as humiliation, rape, and BDSM, depending on the preference of the individual. Often, the female victim is any combination of physically fit, well trained, or strong willed, as many find Ryona more appealing the greater the gap between the victim and offender's usual power. With hardcore Ryona, generally referred to as 'Guro', this is taken to the point of causing lasting physical harm to the female vitcim, resulting in bleeding or death- seeing guts, inner entrails or organs and parts is expected.

So, if your boyfriend or BFF were to tell you that he had this fetish, how would you react to this shocking revelation? What would you do next?
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  • I would kind of be ok with everything but the lasting physical harm bit you slipped in right at the end there. Each to their own I guess. If someone is physically turned on by someone suffering grievous bodily harm... then yeah I'd questions the relationship. So a softcore Ryona fetish would be ok... I guess?

    As to wether I would bring that into the bedroom in the relationship. I prefer it stay monogomus... so I'm not comfortable with player 3 entering the picture. So It would not be something I'd accommodate. Yep...

    • It wouldn't necessarily have to involve a third partner, or any outside parties; most people with the Ryona fetish apparently limit this to fictional characters, drawn pictures or animated porn. If all you had to do to accommodate it was to accept that he views stuff like this as his preferred form of porn...
      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IoayfQ244fA
      ... Do you think you'd be able to accomodate it? Or would you still be too grossed out and disturbed to contemplate being in a relationship with a guy who jerked off to stuff like that?

    • Maybe I am weird... but I'd be fine with it.

  • This is one of the few ones that make me feel physically sick. I remember reading a book where this took place and I wanted to vomit. I would have a hard time hearing my guy was into that honestly.

    • Alright- an actual book? Which book was this then? by the way, one of my friends told me he had this fetish a few days ago- I just looked it up (on the dark web, and finding a 17-book hentai manga series called 'Sexually Tortured Girls' which almost made me physically sick from witnessing the images on the covers alone- whatever you do, DON'T look it up), and now I've found out what it actually is, I'm not sure what to do next. What do you think I should do?

    • I really don't remember actually because it was so disturbing I almost stopped reading it. I think this was even touched on in Heart Shaped Box by Joe Hill. There was a film and the girl eventually had a bag put over her head and suffocated. Horrible. And I can be down with some pretty weird stuff but thats way too far out there. The good news it fantasies are usually just that, fantasies and as long as they aren't acted upon I guess they're alright.

  • Ewwww. I'm sorry, I try to be open-minded, but that is disgusting, not to mention seriously illegal if you do it for real.

    • Well, since it's a voyeuristic fetish, it's not technically illegal, any more than it would be to look on and be sexually aroused by the sight of a woman being beaten to the ground, trying and failing to fight back against her attacker, and then getting viciously raped by a guy in a back alley- that's exactly the sort of scenario which someone with the 'ryona' fetish (who can be girls as well as guys) would be most turned on by, and would probably masturbate to. But yes, it certainly is disgusting- no argument there WHAT-SO-EVER.

Most Helpful Guys

  • All of that is not a real fetish.
    I've been in the fetish community for over a decade dude and I've never heard of Ryona or Guro.
    If they do exist they are not sexual fetishes but just something else.

    You should maybe not post such retarded stuff though. There are kids around, goof.

  • This would scare the crap out of me. I wouldn't be friends with a person like this. If we had mutual friends, particularly women, I would have to debate really hard about not warning them. If I was really close to them or thought they were even remotely in danger, I would absolutely tell them.

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  • 😐 Welp, I'm out.

    • You'd abandon ship?

    • Probably. That's a bit too much for me to handle. I couldn't play into that fetish.

    • You wouldn't necessarily have to though, seeing as it's a voyeuristic fetish; all you'd have to do would be to endure the gruesome knowledge of why he enjoys playing Mortal Kombat so much, and why he always plays as male characters against scantily clad female characters. Would it be too much to handle, knowing that he gets off to this:
      upload.wikimedia.org/.../...mbat_violence_2011.png
      ... and views it as his preferred form of porn?

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  • I'll say fuq no good bye

  • I'd tell him he's sick in the head and break up with him.

  • run away.

  • That guy is seriously disturbed.

  • Drag him to a psychologist or psychiatrist and leave him there. I don't want to be one of those victims

  • That would creep the fuck out of me I would be scared

    • So- counselling time? Break-up time? Call the police time? Or snatch a weapon and kill the guy if he comes too close to you ever again time?

    • Break up time or it's either me or the fetish

    • Even men who rape had these sick fantasies about women and it's weird I wouldn't want to be involved in anyone like that

  • Are you making this crap up?

    • Wish I was, but no I'm not. Look it up if you want to risk your sanity and surrender the contents of your stomach- here's a link which gives an overview of the artist (https://myanimelist. net/people/9126/Kawadi_MAX) and the work (https://myanimelist. net/manga/55853/Kizudarake_no_Shoujo-tachi) which I was unlucky enough to find when I decided to look it up, after one of my friends told me he was into it a few days ago. My advice? Take my word for it- don't click on them, unless you want to be on a watchlist.

    • Welcome to the internet.

  • I would tell him that he's a freak...

    • My thoughts exactly. One of my friends told me he had this fetish a few days ago- I just looked it up now and found out what it actually was. And now, I'm not sure what to do next...

    • You need to tell his parents. That's extremely disturbing. Frankly, it's not normal to think like that.

    • @Kroakies_krickees He doesn't live with his parents- he's a 30yr old who lives alone in an apartment. And he's still single, so there isn't a wife or girlfriend to feel afraid for, at least not yet. But yeah, it is disturbing.

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  • its not for me but I guess if he was into it yeah no couldn't do it he would have to make that a masturbation thing. but if want him to tell me if it was but it would be odd it just is.

  • Try to forget and move on.

  • Tell him that I'm tough and I would leave him

  • Start by slowly backing away while looking for something to hit him with

    • In the words of Chris Brown, Ryona Pleeeze

  • Smile tell him I except him and love him!! Perfect!! Me or are we finding someone? So into it let me freshin' up then I'd slip through the window move and change my number... maybe my name and blare that shit all over the internet so hopefully no one gets stuck in his trunk.

  • I would be disgusted, scared and never see them the same way again. I'd cut them out of my life.

  • as long as he never acted upon it and is not planning on.. I don't mind it, I wouldn't watch that stuff with him but I could roleplay and pretend to be hurt every now and then I guess

    • Wow. Sounds like you're an extremely tolerant and understanding young woman.

    • i like some bdsm every now and then to keep my sex life spicy lol and I've had (still have) "weird" fantasies just not that creepy, point is I can tell between fantasy and reality and if I think he can too then I wouldn't really mind it.. but of course I would try to guess what drives it