My boyfriend just dumped me because I changed my mind about having a threesome. Is this fair?
My boyfriend is insecure at the fact knowing that I had threesomes in my single life. I drunkenly told him we could have one, but a couple of days after, I realized I didn't want to share him with anyone else.
He was furious.
He feels I was dangling the carrot, which I didn't do on purpose. I was just drunk.
He's never had one before, and wanted to experience one with me, but I'm long done with that part of my life and I'm just happy to have met someone I really care about. He wasn't having any of it.
The conversation got heated, with him telling me I was being selfish, and with me telling him he's acting like a five year old. I told him he's only thinking about his feelings, and not my own. I'm sad and confused because I thought I was doing the right thing by being honest. I accept the fact he's a little angry, but it was literally a deal breaker, and he cut ties with me completely, even blocking me on social media.
I'm not going to let him manipulate me into having one so he can feel better. Did I make a mistake in letting him know about my history?
Most Helpful Guys