Why does a woman who is good in bed scare a guy?

[Anonymous]

I notice that if you are amazing in bed, and if you've had enough experience you will know this, guys are scared of you, they play mind games to see if you will chase them, talk about other girls and try to compare you after you just made him make all kind of faces and say stupid shit, try to act cold and if you're like me you will just start to ignore him and then he'll regret it, all while trying to wipe your memory of the stupid shit he said by saying it never happened or you took it wrong, guys why can't you stfu and just have fun?

[Anonymous]

slutting yourself out to hundred guy's does not make you good in bed or intimidate guy's. What promiscuous feminist women dont seem to understand is that guys see experienced and inexperienced women differently. An experienced woman is what a guy wants while on the prowl for easy no strings sex but once a guy is done using her as spermdumster he loses interest in her and will do and say anything get rid of her or at the very least see how far she will let herself be humiliated and degraded until she gives up. He might give the old I still love and miss you routine just to get bacl into her panties but thats all he wants. A promiscuous woman who has wasted her prime years (15-29) on the cock riding carousel with the thousand cock stare is only good for a quick pump and dump and is definitetly not ltr or marriage material.
Now an inexperienced girl is marriage material. The fact that she hasn't whored herself around shows she respects herself and understands the value of a committed relationship so is less likely to cheat than a promiscuous woman as well as more likely to get married to a high quality man at a younger age and that marriage is more likely to go the distance. An Inexperienced woman can always learn how to be good in bed but I have noticed that many women with high numbers that I've used for a pump'n dump aren't as good in bed as they think probably why they are single. Like it matters if the girl you marry cums but it doesn't matter that a chick you're using cums.
Anyway @asker it sounds like your butthurt that the guys you like place no real value in you as a person but instead only as a cum bucket while less experienced or pure girls get all the best guys. I advise you to change your ways or guys will only see you as a hole to wet their dick.

[thatguyfromtoronto]

Living up to the standard that you don't want to disappoint her sexually. I think there is more pressure on guys to perform great in bed because us guys talk about how we would do this and do that. I guess think of it in a girls mind, lets say you were trash talking your buddy in a game of basketball because you are soo good and you will beat him, well if your all talk and lose.. it makes you look bad. I think that's why guys may be somewhat timid. But sex is just about different positions, being kinky, unique, slow and passionate. If a guy is rush-rush-rush and out she's going to be like "that's it?"

[Warmapplecrumble]

I think there is some relevance to what you are saying.

I think they are scared of rejection, and are way more emotional than a woman.
If a man cheats the woman moves on usually but the guy his anger is on another level and he usually never forgets it.

I think a woman who is in tune with herself, mature, is a threat - she knows the game, she can advice other women not to fall for it or worse reject them or play them in their own game.

And the above does not apply to all men, again there are still decent men out there.

[Asker]

I would hope so, but I think I need time to recover from tonight, glad I asked the question but a lot of negative assumptions I had were reinforced, I don't like that. I expected honest, respectful and playful responses since we're all grown ups, instead their egos got hurt and they started slut shaming and ridiculing, same reason I stopped dating, I now see why they always say they don't remember or call you psycho when you state facts, it's a deflection from their insecurities... got it.

[Warmapplecrumble]

Yeah a man's ego is very fragile especially on this site. Ego has never been good for anyone, especially when it has no relevance. Sometimes it stops us from learning things. Sexuality of a woman is the key to enlightenment. The world we live in today has done everything to destroy it. To sexualise women. Shame women for sex in ancient Indus Valley it was actually a thing majority of women did. The women waste time and effort to look the way Media wants them to look. They rip out their wombs, and despise periods, and shame women who stay at home or rest on their periods and women who give birth. ... the core of femininity is attacked and women gladly accept and mock other feminine women. And men wonder what happened... :-/

[Asker]

Well put, I see it all the time, the very thing they are attacking here is a huge part of femininity, still they shame a woman for possessing that, that is not all either.. there're other factors why some women prefer to stay single. A man's ego is easily hurt if you are good at other things besides sex, I see men shame women for not being faulty enough, I'm done, just done. It was an interesting evening and morning though, thanks for your input.

[Warmapplecrumble]

Thank you and you are welcome :-*

[Asker]

You are cool, almost like a Virgo :)

[Warmapplecrumble]

I am not a virgo :-p I'm Sun in leo and Moon in Cancer and a Ascendant in Scorpio

[Asker]

So you're into astrology too?, cool. I am Virgo and a rabbit in Chinese sign.

[Warmapplecrumble]

Well I studied it as a hobby but I learnt that in the end we are all the same, just choose different paths in life. Year of Goat. But its a fun subject to discuss :-p

[Asker]

coolio :)

[writing_essays]

They are wondering how many other guys you slept with them and you can be completely interested in them and only them

[helloimcaden]

not all guys do that but I don't know why they would be scared... maybe they think that a woman being good in bed means less dominance for the man.. but in my opinion, if a girl is good in bed, she knows how to flow, move, and make sex go more smooth. i would still be choking, slapping, and pinning of course. hahaha im such a dork

[AustinMan]

Not all of us. We'll have fun together.

[madhatters4]

hmmm.
i don't really understand or relate to the stuff beyond the initial question

but to your initial question; why does a woman who is good in bed scare a guy? there could be a few things
- they may feel intimidated or insecure that if the girl is especially good in bed that their own performance may seem inferior
- they worry that her great performance in bed may indicate promiscuity (so lots of experience that has resulted her in being good)

[Asker]

Okay.

[JuicyBrain]

Try men instead of boys...

[JuicyBrain]

"when I start making YouTube videos, some people actually helped with the confusion, others acted like my exes, she must not think she is all that, it wouldn't have made a difference if you didn't make it one." Sounds more like you hear only what you want to hear.

[Asker]

The fear of a woman loving herself is such a turnoff to men, mmm tell me more about how they love confidence. *I must think I'm all that*, I am learning so well. You started out so well, now you're a POS, what in the responses triggered you?, the fact that most of you date women who don't even know when they are smelly?

[JuicyBrain]

Stop saying "men" like it's a rule with no exceptions. Maybe some guys act like you say. Not all men do. I am not sure I understand the rest of your comment. You are not making a whole lot of sense. I didn't understand a word after confidence. Why am I a POS all of a sudden? Nothing triggered me. All I said is that you sound like you already have an idea of how things are and instead of using this tribune to convince yourself that the world is not like that, you only listen to people who think like you.

[Asker]

Yeah cause I'm a liiiiiiiiberal... not! I don't identify with any of the sides because people are truly full of shit I can see now, all of you really are easily manipulated and clueless of what it is you claim to stand for. I think you should stop talking to my "incoherent babbling" as Dylan Roof up there stated, because um girls you meet everyday make so much sense and they are like so totally smart and like oh my god, you are a POS because you were being disrespectful. not too stupid to detect condescension.

[JuicyBrain]

Are you high?

[Asker]

I thought only your kind did meth, I don't do drug you fucking piece of shit, anyway what kind of wine do you like? like my bipolar switch?, use that in your next reply, this is getting fun.

[JuicyBrain]

What's happening?

[KeiranByrne]

Men have always feared the power of women's sexuality and have historically done as much as possible to stifle it.

[Asker]

I have come to that disappointing and painful realization, we will all be miserable. I am happy but there are men who hate the smile on my face and confidence in my step and they tell me, they fuck with me every chance they get and talk bad about me when I won't date them. When I was 19 I dated a guy who told me he knew I'd be good when he first met me, he tried to ruin me emotionally and psychologically, I used to cry until I was hoarse, he saw me some years later and said, "you changed, I don't know what it is but you're not sweet and innocent anymore" :( as if he had nothing to do with it. What a wicked and twisted world.

[Warmapplecrumble]

@keiranbyrne yes I agree hence the marriage... it actually was created so women did not sleep with other men and bring home another man's DNA

[KeiranByrne]

@PagingDrTenma Based on what? You're welcome to your feelings but if you're going to disagree you should bring some intellect to the table. Sexology is a fascinating field and there's plenty of material out there. Start with your bible, specifically the book of Proverbs. If all you're going to do is sneer you're just wasting my time.

[Asker]

@PagingDrTenma You stop repeating that far right cliches found on every one of there FB contents. I was one of the first people complaining about the left making everything about racism and misogyny, watch it backfire on me now... someone's using my own quote, oh dear, oh my. Are you ATL right too?, they are terrible... please ask them to calm down. I was in the inbox speaking closely with Ride to end white Genocide, real close friendship we had mmm, I started calling for whites to defend themselves and told them to read books about where slavery really came from and sent links, pasting the link everywhere, looky here... little racist 18 yr old over there calling me inarticulate negroid and now this, the very thing I said used on me, am I a libtard too? Not your average woman darling, you don't know me and neither do you know your own woman or any other for that matter with such an attitude, she is not even allowed to know herself. I will tell you something... balance.

[PagingDrTenma]

Oh, are you the one with the "120 IQ"? Lmao I honestly didn't realize I had wandered into your shitty question again. But yes, a black person being a "libtard", as the senile old people on Facebook would call it, isn't uncommon at all. Also, lol @ "ATL Right". You may be able to overcome misogyny, but you're going to have a harder time overcoming dyslexia.

[Asker]

@PagingDrTenma I have dyslexia that's caught because I'm done reading your vomit. Racist misogynistic white man who will hide and fuck black women of the lowest rank, I know a lot of your kind and they hate me because I decline. I am done with your bigoted ALT right self, no wonder blacks hate some of you. I now see some of the things blacks were saying, never picked up on it because I don't focus on anyone besides myself when I do out, stop replying now disgusting human being. Your judgmental behavior is a tool of masking truth and projection.

[KeiranByrne]

@PagingDrTenma Chapter 5 of Proverbs is all about fear of female sexuality. Your anger, hatred, hostility are doing more harm to you than to me. You should be kinder to yourself, your bile is shortening your life, medically. . Spend some time with Jesus and his sermon on the mount. Blessed are the meek, peacemakers, the poor in spirit, the merciful, what he says about forgiveness, turning the other cheek. Hypocrites. Verse 22 alone should be a wake up call.

[PagingDrTenma]

@KeiranByrne Ah, let me guess, you've taken some religious studies classes in a legressive school. That's the only way someone could butcher the interpretation of the Bible so badly. It's not an allegory, you know. And I'll hold onto the bile, thanks. I'm banking on my temper and my fast food diet killing me before forty.

[KeiranByrne]

@PagingDrTenma Ok. I tried. Go in peace.

[Asker]

I'm done talking to you Paging, I will avoid coming to this section so keep talking you hateful miserable man. I'm the single one, go cuddle your lady I know all my exes would be cuddling the village bicycle I wouldn't be here having this conversation or he'd be sitting here trying to snoop, also they wanted to marry me and it didn't take a year, hope she's a good enough woman to be wedded. I know men are not afraid of commitment, they are afraid of mistakes so why is she not engaged?, bye now.

[KeiranByrne]

@PagingDrTenma Partly right. I have advanced degrees in philosophy and theology with a special interest in comparative religion. As for you dying by age 40, I doubt it. More like 50 to 60, which is too bad for the gene pool.

[Asker]

@PagingDrTenma LOL I knew it!, wow, I'm out. You are one for the most vile humans on this planet, and I have sunk to a new low even responding to you after I detected what you are. No way on earth you can convince anyone who's ever met a decent woman in their life, that the one that settles for you is. Even I have higher standards and dumped men I detected are dirty bastards no matter who they were, your bitch and you will be on snapped, I bid you adieu.

[Warmapplecrumble]

@PagingDrTenma the bible is just a book? How can you even believe it? Majority of religions attack female sexuality...

[PagingDrTenma]

@Warmapplecrumble There are too many accurate and similar manuscripts of the Bible, too many fulfilled OT prophecies, and too many corroborating accounts of Biblical events from secular figures, such as Josephus and Tacitus in Jesus' time. The crap you read about "women's sexuality" also came from books if that's the argument you want to pull, but there's far less reason to believe those. @Asker Actually, no, most whites are normies and nothing like me. Thanks to the Jewish establishment doing their best over the past 40-50 years to make whites hate themselves via a cultural Marxist indoctrination, the average white person is very concerned about stepping on the toes of coloreds. Not me, though. I'm redpilled.

[Warmapplecrumble]

@PagingDrTenma how can you prove that the events in the bible actually occurred? Menstruation is taboo and sex is only for creational purposes... how is this liberating to the woman?

[Warmapplecrumble]

@PagingDrTenma excuse me do not call me those names, if you can't have discussion without getting upset don't come on sites like this.

[PagingDrTenma]

@Warmapplecrumble I'm not upset. I'm too tired for that tbh. I just don't think much of you, even ignoring the feminist and atheist/agnostic parts.

[PagingDrTenma]

Also, wait and see which one of us gets modded now. Racism is okay in the eyes of the kikes if it's directed at evil whitey.

[PagingDrTenma]

HAHAHAHAHAHA I never knew black people were actually self-aware of the cliches they spout.

[Warmapplecrumble]

Ahh this guy._. Is so rude for no reason and gets upset if someone lashes out on him... ignore these silly people.. they are full of garbage.. :-*

[Asker]

@Warmapplecrumble I'm done with him, I do feel I need to learn how to not let people like him get to me, but I mean... baby steps.

[PagingDrTenma]

@Warmapplecrumble If there's anyone to ignore, is you. Spreading your pseudoscience bullshit about sexuality and denying Christ is worse than anything I've done.

[Asker]

lol He claims to be religious and is just so hateful and bigoted, why did I ever talk to anyone like this?, they are all over Facebook... I can picture him now lol.

[PagingDrTenma]

Wasn't talking to you. I thought you were done replying to rayciss bowl-cut hicks like me, but I guess you can't stick to any committment. No wonder black "families" are always so fucked up/nonexistent.

[Warmapplecrumble]

Well... people like him give religion a bad name... this is why I lost my faith in religion. I was a born and raised Catholic. ._.

[KeiranByrne]

@Warmapplecrumble All you need to enjoy the full fruit of true religion is the sermon on the mount in the gospel of Matthew. Happily possible to live those values while keeping God in a state of provisional reality - that is to say, belief is optional. Another key passage, Jesus treatment of the sabbath - 'Humanity was not made for the Law, the Law was made for Humanity" Whole different perspective there.

[PagingDrTenma]

@Warmapplecrumble Doesn't mean anything. Most Catholic churches today are cucked beyond belief.

[Asker]

@PagingDrTenma Please go rub your dick and release some tension, yes you are a racist and that's your problem not mine, you take every opportunity to be one at the most unsuitable time,. I could be racist to you now but I'm easy like this Sunday morning. Don't talk to me about black families, why is that a part of the conversation?, you seem to be pumped up on ALT right steroids, take it elsewhere because this is getting ridiculous. And I'm definitely committed to passing my knowledge on about men like you to all women, you are frightening. You sound more like your religion is Islam, Isis is this you?

[PagingDrTenma]

I'm saying that Sunday has no intrinsic meaning besides being the first day of creation.

[Asker]

@PagingDrTenma Why the fuck would you say that?, who asked you? try to display random knowledge.. not impressed, I do not think you are smart, and don't call me nogs, you can say the nigga word :) ugly white men, your types are the ones that try the hardest to be superior, be white and shut up it's not a big deal. And who told you that you were humans, you're Satan dude, ugly, hateful, misogynistic, ugly, confusing and did I say ugly?

[Asker]

I meant "who said you are human", not you are humans, it sounded like I was talking to the other normal white people.

[Chico_brah]

Maybe you're actually terrible and bed and guys just avoid you like the plague baha

[Asker]

haha but they actually don't avoid me, I'm learning from your responses though, thanks, this is a song that doesn't end, yes it goes on and on my friend :)

[Chico_brah]

Well I'm being serious dude. An average girl can get laid pretty easily with minimal effort. It's much harder for a guy. Chicks that always told me they were bomb in bed failed to impress me. It could just be due to my size but those same girls would just lay there expecting me do to everything as if they just wanted to get dominated or some shit. Just because you're getting positive responses doesn't mean they are genuine. Most guys will just say shit to keep getting laid. If you're getting a lot then that just means you're a girl. I just don't see guys being intimidated by a girl who is bomb af in bed. My girlfriend is damn good in bed and she didn't need to announce that. That's one of the reasons I kept coming back lol. If anything.. being good at sex will keep them coming back.

[Asker]

Jesus Christ I am not getting fucked and dumped, you don't read, did you read the post? And men don't keep going back to you if you suck in bed and want to dump their previous for you, what are you talking about announcing it wtf is wrong with men?, this is not the first time you hear girls say men are scared of girls that's good so what are you talking about. I don't announce before we do it, they get surprised and act funny smfh I'm gonna mute this shit because we are not getting anywhere, just denials, I get it men are right, they don't need to stop anything they are doing.

[Chico_brah]

You can choose to reply or not. I read everything you said but it just doesn't add up to me tbh. No reason to get all hostile on me. You said these guys are playing mind games and getting cold on you. When guys want sex, they are pretty straight forward.. if you're delivering good sex to them then it's in their best interest to keep fucking you. At that point they are thinking with their dicks. I'm all for aggressive women and being a bitch needed. My girlfriend is the epitome of that.. That being said, she has reasoning behind it. She has also sort of earned the right to be arrogant. Wealthy family.. straights As in high school and university. Has been in a lot of leadership positions. She has wit and she is intelligent. That's why she can be arrogant.

[Chico_brah]

The problem I see with girls like you is all of your value is stemmed off the attention that you get from others. Your value is only within your pussy and your looks. There are plenty of feeble and weak men that will completely bend over backwards for you and I think that is what you are experiencing.

[Chico_brah]

You sound very uneducated and I don't see you as being very intelligent. I'm not just arbitrarily throwing low ball jabs at you like you are towards me either. Everything I've said is based on what you've presented to me.

[Chico_brah]

Normal guys don't run away or get cold when you give them good sex. You're probably dealing with pussies because they are blinded by your looks and pussy. Quality men aren't going to peruse you with that condescending princess entitlement when you have absolutely no respectable reason to be arrogant. Quality men see right through that.

[Asker]

Dude they don't stop fucking me, reeeeeead, you are a man you play mind games too so stop. It's like a dude out with a 10 and see a fucking 2 and be like damn she's fine and side eyeing to see if you care, I have an IQ of 120 please for the love of god men stop insulting my fucking intelligence, this is getting irritating. Honest answers and no mind games. I have problems working for men too. I've been the best supervisor for an ex boss and he sabotaged until I walked off the job then tried to make me come back, men hate when women do anything RIGHT! why so fucking intimidated by a smart woman, FUCK! and they stop at nothing to date you, then try to get back at you when you decline.

[Asker]

This is why I've been celibate for years and only broke it when ex came back last year, I want to believe this is not the norm. Men on here saying, "maybe you suck at it" and bullshit. I am a girl and I know when girls lie so men who've been with more than 3 girls know too, it's kinda like walking into a room and knowing someone is different, you're trying to have a conversation and they bring their ego into it as if we know each other here, can't even have an honest convo without the bullshit, denials and condescending tonalities, men have tried to break me before so stop trying... you are now speaking to a solid rock.

[Chico_brah]

You didn't need to announce your IQ there lol. I don't see you as being intelligent because you can't handle a basic conversation of opposition without freaking out on me using fuck every other word trailed with open-ended insults that have literally no power behind them. You might be a supervisor at some retail store but that's all I can see you being. No professional would ever put someone in charge that has your attitude if you act anything like you are right now in real life. I'll wrap it up because I don't think this is getting anywhere. You attract pansy like men because pansy like men are completely blinded by your looks and pussy. Quality men wouldn't put up with you because your arrogance would be considered hallow and of low class. There literally no respectable solidity in your arrogance. Quality men have better options.. This is why you experience so many weak and insecure men.

[Chico_brah]

Do you really think it's rational to categorize all men in the world as the issue and not yourself? Think with a little more logic.

[Asker]

Arrogant because you try to disrespect and ridicule me, I am over your bullshit. No wonder feminists hate your guts, I used to hate those bitches because I'm not fat, lazy and ugly and men actually tried to marry me, but I see they probably got that way so you'd stop hitting on them, POS.

[Chico_brah]

You made some bold claims, so I naturally responded in a bold way. I'm a former Marine dude, you're going to have to come at me a lot harder than that to try and shut me down. You can take what I said as disrespect or actually digest some of what I said to be truthful. I'm sure this attitude of yours shuts down a lot guys.. lol. I'm almost positive of it. Again.. there is a reason as to why you are attracting low-quality men (A. K. A. pussies)

[Asker]

Yes, the women you know are like so smart, you deal with smart girls everyday and they are like totally awesome sauce... and educated. "Like oh my God do I look fat in my bleached hair, I can't cook help me cook Ramen", that's your future girlfriend, that's what she sounds like *Stewie Griffin voice* I know you know I'm smart and yes I will be looking at men even further down my nose now.

[Asker]

I don't GAF who you are, my ex is a former Army officer and he made poor choices in women, I am the best one, when he doesn't respect me I remind him and he gets mad, eff off. And you can blame the woman now and say, "see you emasculated him", he did that himself and won't get counselling

[Chico_brah]

Based on that response, and everything else. I have determine that you legitimately have the mentality and social IQ of a 13 year old girl. You have the audacity to wonder why quality men aren't perusing you... lmao. Do have any response that carries within it... I don't know... any relevance AT ALL to what I've said to you? If not, I'll chuckle a little and be on my way.

[Chico_brah]

No I don't believe that you were dating a commissioned officer of the United States Army.. I'm sorry.

[Asker]

But I did date his retarded ass and LOL when I write my book and show my face this forum will be delicious. Social IQ of a 13 year old. mmmm one of the smartest you'll meet in your life and you know it but what do I know, like I'm like that bitch over there is not all that, is she prettier than me?, that's most girls and the one you'll date, that's why I don't get along with them, airheads that guys like you think is like oh my god so high quality, because she doesn't challenge you, she competes with other girls and like oh god are my eyelashes coming off?, yaas bitch I'm on fleek, that's why she can't fuck cause she's stupid and not pretty in real life.

[Djaaaay]

Asker... chill out girl !! You want to talk or scrap ? So why are you so mad at all these guys ?

[Asker]

@Djaaaay Do you see how the fuck they are talking to me?, it all started so lovely on a Wednesday afternoon and then boom you know the old saying 'boys will be idiots'.

[Djaaaay]

Asker... You maybe right , but you're the one who is being intimidated into it and lowering your self to them.

[Chico_brah]

I'm in engineering and I think I've met people that are on a higher caliber of intellect than you lol. Just throwing that one out there. My girlfriend challenges me all time. We have ego driven arguments on the regular. I hate the idea of a weak woman who is submissive to everyone and everything in life. She is pretty hot too. Prettier than me forsure lol. "when I write my book and show my face this forum will be delicious" This is just further validating my point. All of your value is in your looks and pussy. You have nothing else to offer. When challenged, your default is to compliment your own looks and false prestige of status. I don't really care what you look like. If I was single and had the opportunity I wouldn't even give you the time of day. I might fuck you but that's it.

[Asker]

Lmao yeah I believe everything you just said and you have a girlfriend that challenged you and the other shit I didn't other to read. :) I went grocery shopping today... what did you do? jerk your wiener to porn because it's more entertaining that your make believe gf?

[Chico_brah]

I've talked about how I like bitchy girls who challenge me a lot on this website prior to this conversation. I just don't like it when it's low class and I can shut it down with minimal effort. If I can do that, then it's no longer impressive. I don't have a make believe girlfriend lol. She is very real and has been living with me and my parents here during winter break till we go back to university for spring semester. You clearly don't much left to throw at me.

[Asker]

Yeah mama's boy, I used to live with a cat and then a car hit him, any suggestions on good wine?

[arnoldronaldo]

absolutely Wrong,.

[Asker]

I want to be, it's driving me insane. I can be alone but get hit on a lot and called all types for wanting to be alone, if I started screaming and throwing shit when men try to get my number and won't take no for an answer I'd be called feminazi and psychotic, I'm just holding it down, don't wanna lose it any further yah know?

[countrydude]

Not sure. But I haven't been in high school in a long time.

[Asker]

Huh?

[BaileyisDarcy]

he's saying that you are talking about a high school mentality

[Asker]

@BaileyisDarcy ok

[countrydude]

Yes I was implying that his responses were very immature.

[Asker]

cool

[Browneye57]

Naw, not scared at all. You must be banging youngsters.

[Browneye57]

On update... Google the term solipsism, and narcissism. These are things that define you. And no honey, you just think you're that good. Everybody is different, and everybody likes different things. For you to brag on a public forum about how good you are and how dumb guys are is completely delusional.

[Asker]

Intimidated you are, I will stay to myself, i'm sick of this shit. I am not the reason I know I am good it's their dumb behavior, why not act normal then?, what's wrong with normal behavior?, all the guys I sleep with show signs of loving me sex but act stupid and the only reason I am angry is because their stupidity is f***** with my psyche they want everyone to have loosen screws because they have uncertainty, and you can't break up with him in peace wtf is wrong with me stating facts, Gosh I am so over relationships.

[Browneye57]

Well gee, I'd really like to help you, and could likely help explain things, but you don't seem very receptive, and not very introspective either. Consider that most of your problems are from within. You know what they say... if everybody is an idiot or an asshole, perhaps it's not them. Let me know if you change your mind. [shrug]

[Asker]

Yes it must be me, exes said the same and then turned around and said he said that because he couldn't find anything wrong with me so he tried to make me think it was, gee thanks. I am learning a lot. Was the world always like this or did standards drop and screw people like me over, I'm only 29 so you can tell me. I never imagined my life this way. Just also remember that men have caused girls to fight me over bragging that I'm a good woman, and it's not just my sex, I can cook and everything else oo, gee I'm so sorry, I must be so faulty, sir bye.

[akadatank44]

Those guys sound immature and insecure that they couldn't handle you.

[Asker]

I want to believe that and not that all men are like that because if that's the case I am doomed. Do you know that girls who usually are good actually enjoy sex?, why is that a bad thing? I am bisexual and the last girlfriend i had looked like me and was the same, I treated her really well and I don't think she knows why, it was because I feel sorry for her, she was younger and was about to realize how men treat girls like her, she was already complaining to me about them and I just stayed silent because I didn't know what to say.

[akadatank44]

Not all men are like this. These guys are weak and insecure in themselves. They don't want to be challenged when it comes to sex and relationships. Its not a bad thing it's s great thing.

[Asker]

Well I hope I find him, clock's a ticking. I have had many proposals but you must be able to imagine how weird, awkward and badly timed they were, there was no real love in it and the reason they wanted to marry me was for bragging rights and they too acted strange with me about the same thing they told their friends about, I of course say no all the time and get totally trashed or have to call cops. I have been single for years now and totally confused.

[akadatank44]

Lol you have plenty of time! You are in my age range. I'll be 26 in a few months and I've been single for awhile and enjoying it. We both got plenty of time to find someone so don't be in a rush. That os very weird lol. Have you tried no sex until you have a feel for the guy and see if he likes you for who you are and not just how good you are in bed?

[Asker]

I have and we had the longest relationship, one thing I think he was intimidated too and started being weird, making strange requests that cannot be filled and just being overly dominating starting fights for no reason. I met him when he was in the army, he came to see me two years later Christmas holiday, I made him wait the 1st night we slept in my bed and told him not to touch me his restraint to me was impressive because I don't mean to brag but I am attractive, he didn't get mad but asked if he could cuddle me and I said yes, we did it the next morning and ten days after he was leaving he whispered to me in the drive way "I love you", I believed him when he said that due to our connection and how well he treated me but then I started to feel it was sex because he got weird too, he's my last boyfriend, I was celibate for three years he came back last AUG and I'm just so lost, I am single but... I don't know man.

[akadatank44]

Well that sucks and quite honestly it could of just been the sex for when he was on leave. I'd say keep trying till you can find someone who likes you for you and not weak. I think these guys you've been with have just been weak and don't want to be challenged and just want things their way. To me a woman with a high sex drive and is good in bed is perfect cuz I'm the same way and sex is just better it almost becomes a competition were you try to one up each other and becomes more passionate.

[Asker]

I just wanted honest and civil replies, funny how I got so many ego driven responses from men I don't even know, thanks for you input. It was never a competition, I liked these guys, they claimed to have loved me, our relationships ended because of games. I walked away because they were insecure, so I am just pissed that it got me so depressed I don't want to date anymore. Anyway now, have a good day.

[akadatank44]

Yeah this site can be a bit unhelpful when it comes to things like that. Feels everyone has to prove something lol. Yeah I can imagine it is depressing. I wish you luck and if you every wanna tall feel free to send me a message on here. You have a good day as well

[Asker]

Thanks sweety :)

[akadatank44]

Anytime! 😊

[Robin48]

It funny how you claim males are all abut sex. Each one of your questions has to do with sex. Woman's, what is your problem.

[Asker]

If you are good and like sex you would like to be treated with respect and valued for other things, but please stop with the head games when the sex is great. Guys just seem to not be able to turn their minds off sex I think that's what girls mean but some of us like sex and then that's a problem for you, you're the ones that need to make up your minds.

[Robin48]

That is your opinion. It you who can not turn sex off in your head. The sexual things women do with boys also need to stop also. I praying for you. You need Jesus. I know all about women and your sexual mind. I know about girls who like to play sex games. Having fun insulting us males.

[Asker]

Oh I'm the one insulting here?, and you need a dose of reality.

[Robin48]

Look in the mirror.

[Asker]

I did and there was a pretty woman staring back at me, she needs a facial though, aesthetic one so don't be dirty boy.

[mostwomenshouldstfu]

No sluts. Off the carousel and onto the next ride tart.

[Asker]

Obviously you didn't read the forum and see what's up, you and I would never get further than brief eye contact with you, actually none of them ever referred to me as such but instead tried to marry me :) for the wrong reason of course or become attached. I'm gonna have fun with my blog later this year, learning so much.

[Dragan]

What exactly would be to fear? Vagina with teeth? No, I'm not afraid of women who are good in bed

[Asker]

Thank you because it means she is enjoying herself too and is not stuck up, a stuck up girl is more to fear, she is not trying to make it work and could wander easier. She's sort of like the man who doesn't try to make it work, they end up in places they shouldn't be.

[Dragan]

A real man never scares of woman. She can only improve him, as well he will improve her too. They are spiritual food to each other

[Asker]

Exactly.

[Warmapplecrumble]

Agree too

[Equal_in_Death]

You just sound slutty tbh

[Asker]

And you sound like the men I'm complaining about :) A nice church girl that will cheat on you with the neighbor while you judge girls like me is what I see in your future, good luck.

[Equal_in_Death]

lol, you're clearly defensive. Being in the 25-29 age bracket, you're entering the used goods phase and exiting the slutty hookup phase. Unfortunately for you, I don't think the rich, older beta male types are biting as readily these days. You might just have to settle for poverty and misery now that you've destroyed your body with promiscuous behavior.

[Asker]

You know nothing about sex if you think a woman who has a lot of sex is used and destroyed, what a dumb thing to say. I knew you were one of those guys, probably wouldn't believe I'm 29 and had so much sex but tighter than your future wife, I am far from used honey and feel better than many other women that's another thing that scares my exes, what a clueless person you are smh. I'm sorry I have blessed walls, do you accept my apology? lol.

[Equal_in_Death]

So you only slut around with baby-dicked cucks? That's honestly more embarrassing than being the village bicycle to begin with.

[Asker]

Oh my bad you're 18, you have a lot to learn, I will stop talking to you now.

[Equal_in_Death]

K, have fun turning your vagina into something resembling slaughterhouse waste.

[Asker]

You are a dumbass, my p**** has no lips and that's another problem they had with me, it is beautiful and they like to act like they know many other girls whose look the same, I used to send pics of it to friends who lie to guys that its' theirs, bullcrap about high mileage, a guy called me low mileage before because of how it looks and my walls close, it's men like you that end up in strip clubs cheating on your future wives you don;t listen and learn. It;s a myth and men can't accept it, you can marry a virgin and after her hymen disappears she's a well. After mine was gone a guy I dated thought he took mine no wonder he was nice to me the next morning giving me all his contacts, I ended up telling him it's been long gone and he should have known because I wasn't acing like a virgin, frigging hell.

[Equal_in_Death]

I've unleashed the defensive beast again. I never knew old slags could get this touchy. But yeah, I really don't need all the details of your encounters. What you posted in the original question was more than enough. For fun, you ought to go to mass and confess all you just told me to a priest. I'm sure the good Father would have a pretty hilarious expression.

[Equal_in_Death]

Not to mention you just need mass in general tbh

[Asker]

What a loser that his wife with a vagina that looks like a rhino and said she was a virgin but turned out to be a disappointment will cheat on, and then he will stick his peepee where it doesn't belong boom jail or Jerry Springer. I have cable because of people like you, see you on an episode of Jerry, and far from old slag I look like 16, I am so tempted to reveal my face right now. Picture a younger version of Halle Berry and I'm not the one who said it, It's everyone who meet me.

[Equal_in_Death]

Haha, you're really projecting right now. I'm sure you've bedded more than a few of the Jerry Springer types yourself. It would make interesting party conversation, I guess. And nah, I don't need to see what you look like, especially if you resemble that dyke Berry. If it makes you feel better, I'm not much to look at either.

[Asker]

You are a bitter misguided religion indoctrinated virgin boy, I've met a few like you, you'll be standing in the club in your ugly jeans staring at girls like myself have fun and hating her because she doesn't talk to you, when you really can't handle anyone that can actually make you happy and I mean beyond sex, your kind usually marries a loud mouth, other women hating, dependent and always having babies type, you'll have a wandering spirit because of it. But she's a good girl cause she's a good church girl, nobody is sluttier than those kinds, I got stories and oh many stories they actually scare me , the ones you'll marry.

[Asker]

And did you call Halle a Dyke?, smh when I was your age I didn't talk like that and you think you're holy, I bet you want to kill all the homosexuals too cause god says so, intolerant, mean spirited child, please for the love of god don't be a mass shooter or serial killer when you become sexually frustrated and confused, those are bad mmmkay?

[Equal_in_Death]

I'm not reading any of that incoherent crap, which apparently took your slow negroid mind over an hour to dredge up. Learn to form a sentence before you talk shit about my life. Also, paragraph breaks. Use them.

[Asker]

Oh it's racist too, sweety let me say this, I could be disappointed because I've taken up for your kind and is one of those who started the same movement now with the right speaking up and out. You hateful ALT right, my IQ is a 120 sorry to disappoint you and pointing out that I don't take paragraph breaks won't make me any dumber than your fat future wife with no walls who claimed to be a virgin :) What a hateful angry little boy, is your pee pee small?, your wife will cheat on you because you're angry and those people are usually bad at existing. Do you have a Dylan haircut? it could be the haircut too, change your life.

[Asker]

I also just noticed you said it took me over an hour to write that response, look Dylan I was doing other things with what you call a life okay , gosh you are why people think whites are racist, they are not all like you, you are sad and bitter and need to calm down. Sorry to burst your *I'm so blessed to be white because it's all I've got bubble*, I have an IQ of 120 Massa I'm sorry Massa does I offend yousss. Did I do it right? huh? huh? did I? little ugly boy bye.

[Equal_in_Death]

Paragraph breaks. FFS, I'm not reading your drivel.

[Asker]

Racist piece of sad shit, that doesn't need breaks.

[Equal_in_Death]

I'm not referring to car brakes, in case you were wondering. But since you brought him up, Dylan Roof did nothing wrong. He acted in the collective defense of his race when it's under total siege by Zionists and their willing pets - people like you.

[Asker]

What a fucking racist, hateful child, I am smarter than the bitch you will marry given that misogynistic, condescending tone. I used to take up for people like you, so young and hateful, I reckon you are ugly as fuck, they usually are, your kind. Trying too hard to be superior, white is all you've got to hold on to. Fight on my brother fight on. I'm stooping to your level now.

[Equal_in_Death]

Nah, you stooped a lot lower than my level early on when you actually got all emotionally involved and starting writing paragraphs (without ever pressing "return") and attacking with the same cliches each time. You're just recycling the same material now, and I'm getting bored, tbh. You take care, then.

[Asker]

He is so intelligent but he got brakes and breaks mixed up saying, "oh and I didn't mean brakes on a car", couldn't be since they are spelled differently Dylan the little dick racist demon. Christ I don't even want a white person to talk to me right now and no I won't shoot them, I'm not Dylan and I hate guns, just can't talk to one right now, sick little child um.

[Asker]

Why so insecure? you are only 18... Christ, are you really 18? Sounding so bitter and sick and misogynistic at 18. Forget racism, you're gonna end up with an ugly black girlfriend and she won't be a smart one, but why so bitter, what do you know about women?, is your dick little or what? Feed it oatmeal okay Dylan? take care.. I love you... give the kiss :*

[chc0009]

It doesn't. I one time fucked a 200 lb woman and she was actually damn good.

[Liisjak]

Most dudes will think that you're a hoe probably and start treating you as such. Who knows.

[Asker]

I was not treated like a whore, a lot of them tripped over themselves for me, I don't get nailed and no call, this is why I'm fucking confused, same way they say you guys are scared of commitment, I haven't experienced that, just odd mind games, I'm starting to think their jealous male friends might have something to do with it, reading these comments I see most men on here have very pathetic sex lives and are used to women that don't feel very good about themselves. How could you have never heard anything of what I asked? Someone tried to marry me last year and I declined, we didn't have sex but he was head over heels, now *I'm so skinny and look sick am I okay*, in his words, guess why? he knows I was trying to gain 5 pounds, it's mind games, then he claimed to have heard me fart loud when I was talking and I didn't even fart, I just looked at him spaced out, he owns three business and gave me 50 grand when I was hacked, I will gladly give it back POS mostly, you like weak women.

[Liisjak]

I didn't ask for your life story and I didn't say anything against you. Still what the fuck is your point? Seems to me like you've got poor judgment when selecting men.

[Asker]

My life story?, sick response, I love to see this :) don't worry, yes it's me baby, men are perfect it's me :) bye now.

[Liisjak]

No wonder you men ran away from you lol

[Asker]

Lol yes that's what happened, oh boy will I have fun with this when I reveal myself, thanks for the input tiny penis (doesn't matter by the way but when you have no walls it does) who likes airheads who starve themselves and get gas so they can't take penetration but she actually doesn't feel tight so you're confused but at least her imperfections make you feel better about yours. *Beauty queen wave*

[Liisjak]

Honestly, all you're spilling out are insults and non sense... are you 12? If you're trying to offend me, you're gonna need to try a lot harder and actually make some sense. Though, I don't particularly care about your issues or your identity... actually, your life is meaningless to me.

[Asker]

Stupid, I'm done talking to you, fuck off.

[Liisjak]

Cool. I'm not a shrink, therefore I'm not paid to deal with your superiority complexes.

[Asker]

Okay Royal Asshole, see you on the flip side, you should take it up the ass I think you'd like it, bitch potential I see in you :)

[Liisjak]

Thanks for the compliment, I appreciate the Royal Asshole part. Though, with that sentence... is that you Master Yoda? hahahah

[Words_and_Wisdom]

Doesn't scare me.

[Guy_No1]

I am not at all intimidated by a woman that's good in bed and enjoys sex, I would relish it

[Guy_No1]

I've just read the reply's on here from men, and I feel ashamed to be one of them.

[LastNightmare]

due to inexperience of guy and the one who's good in bad are always dominant

[Asker]

So they are bothered by my dominance?, I am pretty submissive and co operative in bed. I just don't get it.

[LastNightmare]

you must be submissive and all but when you're awesome in bed guys feel insecure that they may end up making you unsatisfied which bother all men most.. it hurts their ego

[Asker]

But if you are not good in bed they will cheat on you, what do they want really? It's frustrating.

[LastNightmare]

I'm sorry girl.. guys are really so mean sometimes when it comes to SEX.. you can understand his if you understand them in bed

[Asker]

Really so mean? what does that mean?

[LastNightmare]

guys mostly care about their own pleasure.. if you're good in bed that means you'll need much time enjoying and that's what guys are bad at.. they'll easily give you their cock to suck on but they'll not just eat your pussy nicely when their turn comes to give pleasure..

[Blitzkrieger]

No i welcome it. I've had sex with very experienced girls in the past and i was not scared at all.