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Are guys sometimes embarrassed after getting a blowjob? Why?

I was talking to my friend who is a lot more experienced when it comes to sex. She told me she sometimes let her boyfriend cum in her mouth, and i decided to give it a try and surprise him with it.
Normally he signals when he's about to cum and then i finish him with my hand.
So we were at it and as usual he told me he was about to cum, but i just kept going. He was like "watch out, baby watch out, what are you doing, i'm about to come!" And i just responded with "hm hm", and let him finish in my mouth. (It didn't taste bad at all, but beforehand i brushed my teeth with some very bitter toothpaste my friend lended me.) Anyway afterwards he was all blushing and concerned about me being allright, and if i really didn't mind him coming in my mouth. He said it was the best f*cking blowjob he ever had, but still felt kind of guilty. Why is that? Do more guys have this?
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  • A. He loves you, naturally he's concerned about your wellbeing as you haven't let him do this before.
    B. Madonna/whore complex. I will explain from personal experience.

    Once upon a time there was a smoking hot chick who I was madly in love with. A little about me: as far as sex goes I'm about as uninhibited as they come, I'm not shy at all and I am not turned off or grossed out by much. One day I was doing a little 69 action with my smoking hot girlfriend and enjoying eating her out so very much, when suddenly she did something I absolutly did not expect, request, nor even discuss with her... she started eating my asshole. To me at that time my asshole was off limits. Before I had time to object I very quickly noticed... that it felt AMAZING, which I also did not expect. Needless to say I allowed her to carry on and I did on my end as well. She alternated in between that and blowing me. All I can say is that might have been the most intense orgasm I've ever experienced. I was shocked. Shocked that I liked it, even more shocked that she did that. Was truly dumbfounded. I mean here was my sweet little proper, well mannered, good moraled, smoking hot girlfriend doing some very kinky and dirty stuff. I was perplexed. The next morning I immediately consulted my neighbor who was about 6 years older. I was a nervous wreck and felt guilty as hell. I told him I was concerned I was making her into a dirty little tramp. After all, what kind of girl would do such a thing (lick my ass and drunk gallons of my cum as if it were nothing). I was concerned I was somehow perverting her. You see guys in westernized countries are fed bullshit lies about how all girls really don't like sex and are proper little ladies and full of sugar and spice and all things nice. When my older neighbor was kind enough to enform me in my niaivity that that's pure bull lshit. That women like sex just as much as guys and most girls swallow cum and most infact like sucking dick and on and on the lesson went. He explained the fact she did this was a sure sign she was really into me and felt comfortable with me. He was right. Well I felt better after that and a few weeks later when she wanted me to fuck her real rough and smack her ass and pull her hair I understood why. Yes, girls like getting laid as much as guys and that horseshit about being prim and proper in bed is just that.

    Armed with this new knowldage, I felt much better.

  • I wouldn't say he was embarrassed he just wasn't sure if you were than comfortable with him cumming in your mouth just assure him ur fine with it.

    • thanks for mho!

Most Helpful Girls

  • guys mostly are very happy when they get a blowjob... some might ask about it or ask how you feel about it... but i think it's about knowing you'd be ok with it if they did... i never knew a guy embarassed maybe a few times they thought it was too... sexual? i had a few so no to a blowjob but they always changed their minds later on... mentally i don't get that but it did happen a few times to me.

  • well it was the first time a girl let him cum in her mouth. its good that he is concerned and conscious about your state of being. good sign.

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  • Sometimes yea, and for me, I always felt a little awkward about where I should cum. Honestly I loved when whoever was sucking my dick swallowed my load, but some people don’t like doing that.
    Also it can feel weird when my partner is on her knees with my dick in her mouth.. like she enjoys it, but I sometimes don’t know what to do with my hands (I want to hold the back of her head and gently thrust into her mouth) but I don’t want to push it.
    Which is funny because when I sucked dick, I swallowed, I had guy grab my head, I let a few dudes give me facials, and I usually took charge of their cock.

  • This happened because you changed the ground rules without telling him in advance. It just means that he wants you to think that he is respectful of you and not trying to take advantage or coerce you into doing something that you don't want to do. Let him know that it is okay and he'll enjoy it even more.

  • Yes. You didn't tell him in advance and he feels guilty. It sucks when I am dating a woman that won't let me cum in her mouth. I am a hugely oral person and want that more then anything. But if I know she doesn't like it, if she does it, then I feel bad and can't enjoy the blow job as much. If I know she is doing it and she likes it, then I can enjoy it.

  • I think it was about him not wanting to force you to do anything you didn't want to do. He probably think that he some how made you feel obligated.

  • Congratulations on giving your first real and proper blowjob! It's nice, isn't it when you finish the job and let his cock finish inside your mouth, where it is supposed to.

    It's nice that he was concerned about you. It means he is a nice guy. But if you just explain to him that his sperm tastes pretty good, then you'll be a lucky girl and get to eat it every time.

  • Some guys think that blowjobs are demeaning to the girl (some girls think this also) but as his girlfriend he doesn't want to demean you, hence his embarrassment.

    It's really silly, but this is what they teach people.

  • personally I don't enjoy them. just weird reli

  • it´s just being used to her not wanting that but if she does it as a surprise like that, it´s super hot. you´re not sure if she got the memo that you´re about to cum so you feel kind of guilty but as soon as you realize she wanted it, it´s hot.

  • Probably he's just not used to it. I dont get it. Most guys love it.

  • depends how it goes. I wouldn't but after you it goes flaccid.. maybe that's why

  • I wouldn't feel guilty at all

  • yeah. there are possibilities. sometimes they feel that you're not enjoyed or he came very soon. any of these can be reason for embarrassment

  • It's because you've never let him cum in your mouth before so he thought he had done something that would upset you

  • never embarrassed. that was hot though

  • everyone is different :)
    never embarrassed at bed :P

  • Exacyly I didn't have much blowjob.
    I like doing blowjob.
    If she is clean, without any disturbing mist, then I would prefer a blowjob to her. I believe the öagşc of presex for real orgasms to my partner

  • Um, absolutely not! A girl who will let her guy come in her mouth without gagging is a dream come true!

  • It's not exactly shyness

    His reaction shows that he thinks for you it must be a little gross. And it turns him on.

    So he feels a little bit bad about being aroused by doing something bad to you.

    So you can ignore that or if you want to say something either assure him you don't mind it, or say it's gross but hot to have to do it for him.

  • Maybe it was the first time he gummed in the mouth of a girl and it's obvious to be embarrassed and shy about it! Can you tell me a thing, is it better and beautiful to be all smooth shaved everywhere neck to toe rather than being very hairy man?

  • Not sure it's embarrassed, but it can be awkward. Being in a submissive position (on my back) and showing self-indulgent pleasure. Also, I grip just below my knees and roll back so she can finger my ass while she blows me. I'd really hate to see a spycam of how i behave and look on the net.

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