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Why do some girls here want a virgin guy?

It doesn't make sense. I never met any girl who wanted a virgin guy, but here on GaG I saw many girls who say they do. I simply can't understand why? For guys its a different story. A virgin girl can be good in bed. And even if she is bad, its still sex, so its still pretty good. However virgin guys are NOT good in bed. This applies to 100% of virgin guys, no exceptions. So is the imaginary idea of a guy being "pure" so important that you are willing to condemn yourselves to a lifetime of bad sex? Because, orgasms are really awesome. And for girls they are 10 times stronger and feel more amazing. And many girls go their whole lives without knowing what a real orgasm feels like anyway. So why do you want to destroy your sex life in advance?
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  • Sometimes, it's fun to learn as you go. ;) Heehee!
    Yes, some of us have that little fantasy of 'he's pure... Imma gonna dirty him up!'. Some of us are more experienced, and want to 'teach' him how to pleasure a woman. Some girls might be virgins themselves and would want a virgin guy to share in the awkwardness of the moment. :)
    You say 100% of virgin guys aren't good in bed. Okay, maybe that's true, maybe not. BUT 100% of us, guys & girls, come into this world VIRGINS. And how do we get good in bed? PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE! If some girl didn't accept the fact that you were a virgin at some point, you'd still be one. Hell, we'd ALL still be one! Now THATS population control! ;)
    The point is, I'm sure there are many, many different reasons as to 'why?'. But the short answer is 'they just do!'. Accept that. Don't be judgmental about it; we have our reasons. Just like guys have their reasons for things they want.
    Oh... and to assume it's going to 'ruin their sex life in advance' is ridiculous. Just because we pop a guy's cherry doesn't mean we're stuck with them forever. Maybe we just want it for the notch on the belt, just like some guys.

    • As you said, what makes people good in bed is practice. And why take a guy who will be bad, and invest time and energy ao that he could please you one day. He is still not gonna be good with women by the way, its like teaching a guy to to play one game and claiming he is an expert gamer. Isn't it better to find a guy who can satisfy you from the beginning. Its like buying an incomplete car, and build it and work on it for a long time, instead of buying a complete car

  • Because they're more open minded, and should be able to listen to you, instead of assuming things about the female bod. Not all of our orgasms are so strong, they vary just like how they can for guys. I don't care if he's pure, although I do like the lower risk or no risk of stds a lot. He can ;earn with me, which is the best kind of guy.

    Experienced guys can suck in bed... because they don't know her body.

    • You got it backwards - virgin guys suck in bed. Experienced guys can satisfy your needs in ways you can't even imagine. And why take a guy and teach him how to please you (it takes time and a lot of bad sex), when you can have a guy who already knows it?

    • Believe what you want, I've heard so many stories of women with experienced guys who weren't happy. because every girl is different, and she didn't communicate. But a lot of guys didn't communicate either. Talking is the best improvement. Guys can think they know sex and have no clue.

    • Of course, there are many experienced guys who are bad. But virgins are all bad. Thats the difference

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  • I think you got misleading information that just because a guy is not a virgin does NOT make him a better lover than a virgin and virgins CAN learn to be better lovers as long as they are connected and emotionally connected at that with who they are having sex with so that they care about how their partner is feeling and not just about themselves.

    • A virgin boy can be a good lover, but the likelihood of a non virgin guy being a good one is higher. Simply because skills are developed in practise, despite if that could had other disadvantages.

    • Did either of you actually have sex in your lives? No, virgin guys can NOT be good in bed. And yes, not every experienced guy is good in bed, but every inexperienced guy is bad in bed. Its simply a skill that takes A LOT of practice. And emotions are completely irrelevant and do not affect sex or performance in bed in any way.

    • @Greek_God Being good in bed improves with experience, but it's not a technique. Rather is about understanding women better, while bettering yourself as sexiness and as person. And yes, emotions are very important, if not the most important thing. The more emotions involved the most relaxed a person is, and the more sensitive their genitalia feels. Emotions can be so powerful that I even managed to make someone to orgasm without physical contact. My suggestive jokes alone would beat your kamasutra any time.

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  • Because there's nothing remotely arousing knowing that the guy you're having sex with has fucked half of the people in your social circle in an effort to compensate for him having nothing else going for him.

    • That he's not virgin doesn't mean he has fucked around at all.

    • @es20490446e true. Not all virgin males are going to burden women with a 'lfietime of bad sex', either.

    • "Nothing else going for him"? Sorry, but sleeping with a lot of girls takes some SERIOUS skill for a guy. Only you girls can just exist and have sex whenever you want. So if he slept around it means he is a winner and he can actually satisfy you in bed. As for "people in your social circle", maybe you need a new social circle?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • "So is the imaginary idea of a guy being "pure" so important that you are willing to condemn yourselves to a lifetime of bad sex?"

    Every guy who's good in bed used to be a virgin at some point, so if the girl is willing to teach him she would just be condemning herself to bad sex for a short while.

    • Not really short time, but yes, it wouldn't be a lifetime. Still though, why get an incomplete guy and try to teach him tricks when you can get the whole package. And no guy who is good in bed was taught by one girl

    • Greek, so what female did they take out of a straightjacket in order to take away YOUR virginity, and thus make YOU experienced?

  • As far as virgin guys not being good in bed, the first time I had a woman wasn't that bad. True, I only lasted about a minute or two inside her, but I went down on her orally, and gave her an orgasm that took her right over the wall. She even told me that.

    • Sorry to disappoint you, but she lied. And it wasn't bad FOR YOU. For her it probably was. Or maybe she never had good sex in her life so she thought it was actually good

    • Well, if she lied, she did a real good job of it. Her orgasm was loud, twitching, and seemed pretty real. After that, she was pushing my head away to make me stop.

    • As I said, either she faked it, or the guys before you were even worse so she thought it was good. An orgasm? I honestly doubt it. Dont get me wrong, I don't think you are lying, but she might have been

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  • It isn't mandatory for him to be a virgin but I don't care if he is, as long as sex doesn't intimidate him.

    • Thats a different story, Im talking about girls who want only a virgin

  • the guy can learn. and he learn with her not someone else so he doesn't form habits that feel bad to her body.

    and being a virgin doest mean he has never touched anyone. knowing how to touch counts for A LOT

    • It kinda does actually. There is no guy who would get to that kind of "touching" and then stop. You have two virgins: by choice, and not by choice. Those who are virgins not by choice can't get to touching. And if they get an opportunity, they will go all the way. And those who are virgins by choice abstain from all sexual contact. So no, no virgin guy on this planet can satisfy any girl. And if he is experienced, he WILL know how to satisfy you

    • Wrong! My virgin wife and I agreed no penetration before marriage. But I rocked her socks off with oral and touching before hand and now since we are married, I do with penetration as well. You are a fool.

  • I think it makes absolutely perfect sense, because women who are more experienced usually do well with guys who haven't had intercourse.

  • The only reason would be, because they are a virgin. Most girls want the experienced/older/aggressive guy.

    • Captain Obvious, is that you? I know its because they are virgins, Im trying to get the logic behind it since virgin guys are inferior to experienced guys

    • They want to be the guys first/just like they are his first. They want to learn together. They are the people that thing Virginity is the great thing in the world.

    • Yeah, but its a pretty stupid logic if you ask me. Since they are both clueless, the chances for two of them to figure out how to have good sex are minimal

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  • Because it's GAG, it's usually the opposite of how it works in real life lol

    • Hahah true 😂

  • I wanted one when I was a virgin myself.
    But now I don't even care anymore.

  • I don't want to be compared to the other girls they've had sex with, I wanna set the bar low.

    • And that is so important for you that you are ready to give up sexual pleasure?

    • if it's the first time for both of us neither of us will be the wiser

    • Yes, but he will have an orgasm and have a great time, while you will be disappointed (at best)

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  • Why do some guys here want a virgin girl?

    • Because they don't want their girl to be used goods. Do you prefer food somebody already bit and ate, or you want your food to be whole and just for you? The main difference is virgin girls can be good in bed. Virgin guys can't

    • @Greek_God thus unless you're a virgin you're 'used goods. I suppose this goes for guys too, of course. Are you a virgin or are you used goods?

    • As I said, it doesn't work the same for guys, because virgin guys are useless. Also its different standards. You know what they say, a key who opens many locks is a master key, but a lock opened by many keys is a shitty lock. The less guys a girl has been with, the higher her value is. And for guys its the opposite

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  • When I was virgin I sucked at sex and relationships. If you think an inexperienced person would be better by default you are simply clueless.

    • I actually said an inexperienced person would be bad 100% of the time. Learn to read.

    • You shall read my message again, because it doesn't imply that an inexperienced guy would be bad. That said is kind of a joke you say I have to learn to read, since my IQ in verbal intelligence is the maximum scoring.

    • Yeah, as I told you above, go away dude. Are you 12? Nobody here is retarded enough to believe your made up stories

  • Same thing could be said about these virgin hunter guys.

    • As I explained in the question - no, it can't. Virgin girls can be good in bed.

    • They can be good in bed? I don't think saying "stop stop stop" after every inch that goes in could be considered good at sex lol

    • @AleDeEurope that happens when a girl is not turned on enough by foreplay

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  • it's like an extra bonus on a boy i find attractive

    • So he is attractive, and a bonus is if he is a loser who can't satisfy you? How is that a bonus?

    • no, it's very cute, sweet and special. i want to be the one he always remembers. that's how it was with my ex.

    • it was the best sexual experience because i LOVED being a part of it and his facial expressions and confusion were very very cute

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  • @Greek_God Fuck you.

    • You too. Now why?

    • Because I ripped out your still-beating heart and took a nice big mouthful of that oh so tasty heart muscle. Then laugh as I watch you collapse and bleed out within minutes.

    • You are fucking 32, act like it. Childish motherfucker.

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  • It's not always about "how good they are". The main reason I want a virgin is so we can both experience sex for the first time together. If I had sex in the past, I'd still love a virgin because I'd want to be her first experience. Nothing regarding "skill".

    • Who the fuck asked you? This question is only fir girls wanting virgin guys. Not the other way around

    • I was saying it's not always about skill for girls, as well as guys. The first sentence was the point. The rest was to explain.

  • dude I think you are really desparate for some Virgin gag girls or some Virgin guy has taken away your dream girl.😂😂😂😂

    • No, its just a retarded logic I never saw/heard anywhere except on GaG. So since it makes no sense I asked to see whats the thought process behind such a stupid decision. Haven't really found anything that makes sense so far

    • I guess you are missing the point. girls say what they don't mean. like they say they want a nice guy but always go for the fuck boy/ bad boy. so here also, they are saying that they want a virgin but always end up with bad boys. it's just a fantasy, they won't do it real life. so don't take it seriously dude. enjoy life to the fullest.

    • Huh, that actually makes sense. I never looked at it that way.

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  • At some point you sucked at sex too.

    • Of course. Everybody has. What does that have to do with my question?

    • Because it seems you are bashing virgin men. Some women like virgins bro.

    • My question is why? Lets face it, there is no reason for anybody to choose a male virgin

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  • It's the fact that he hasn't slept with anybody. He's all yours :)

    • Its like taking a car without wheels. Its all yours... but its useless.

    • Then he gets to learn. Who knows he might be a fast learner.

    • no matter but it's better no other can say that your partner slept with me

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  • I want virgin girl as my partner because I'm vergin

    • Its different the other way around, as I said

  • I haven't noticed this.

    • You will see it sooner or later

  • Why do you care? You are obviously full of shit.

    • Because its a retarded logic I saw only on this site. It makes no sense. If people want something thats worse and inferior, you gotta ask. How am I "full of shit"?

  • because they're virgin?

    • Being a virgin (for guys only) means he is a complete fucking loser and that he can't satisfy any woman

    • And for a women?

    • For a woman it means she probably wants a good marruage someday. Since every girl can have sex whenever she wants, all female virgins are most likely virgins by choice

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