Boyfriend cannot cum without squat position. What can be done?

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I believe I am a fairly non judgmental girlfriend. My boyfriend loves his own ass and loves me to spank/squeeze it during sex which I like to do as anything that turns him on, turns me on. Excuse me if I sound weird myself however I find it odd that my boyfriend loves me to give him hand/head and even loves to masturbate when he is in doggy position. Basically on knees, leaning forward with ass in the air. He loves me to go from behind. He also loves squatting which he finds pleasurable. He finds it easiest to cum in those positions and of course during sex which is usually him on top but finds it hard to cum laying down on his back if I give him hand/head. He has told me that masturbating in other positions is not effective and if that he just squats down, he cums very quickly. When I have asked before, he tries to give me unreasonable explanations such as "gravity" which makes me even more puzzled.

The issue is that it is interfering with our sex life. When we first met, he couldn't cum. It was only till after many tries of doing everything to please him, that he could cum inside yet he was still somewhat squatting, just penetrating this time. It was very frustrating as sometimes I would give him oral for 40 minutes or so, obviously enjoying it but no ejaculation. He put it down to masturbation, porn and performance anxiety. It was only one night where he was able to cum, that was inside me and somewhat squatting.

I have mentioned to him that in order for him to be able to cum and not be desensitised, he needs to slowly try other positions masturbating so his body also gets used to it. He has agreed to do this yet still mentions he has tried other positions however it is not that effective. He believes just refraining from masturbation itself will help, yet I disagree because even if he does that like he has done other times, he still will only be able to ejaculate in me in particular positions such as missionary where he is somewhat still "squatting"

Ladyslipper · Accepted Answer

Hahaha sorry it's funny but I have no clue he sounds kinda gay to be honest.. homosexuality is becoming more and more common and most are in denial. Which also explains the huge obsession with anal sex these days. If it bothers you with his weird sex positions you might have no choice but to move on

Warmapplecrumble · Accepted Answer

He is so used to orgasming in that position that any other.. is confusing to him. With time he will learn. He sounds inexperienced to me.  Nothing to worry about :-*

SovereignessofVamps · Accepted Answer

I'd say you should change bfs too, I've nvr heard of this.

masterkamasutra · Accepted Answer

He must be bi sexual and get fucked by guys, or he use to go those places where girls do that kind of Masturbation, which actually called milking, it sounds so funny and weird, you must be feel so bad but in real that so much funny, how you handle such a guy?

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

Have him checked out by a good urologist. The find a good couple's therapist and talk it out.

tinyclit · Answer

I don't get what the actual problem is and why it's so serious. Are you trying to get pregnant?

Unorthodox91 · Answer

Lmao at first I thought this was a troll, then I believed in the take but was having an extremely hard time visualising the positions you describe, which made me laugh harder.