Guys how do you work with a small penis and girls how do YOU work with it?

Question

I'm 19 and I've only ever had sex with one guy. My ex. We were each other's firsts and I guess I got pretty lucky because he just so happened to have a decently large package. We broke up a while ago and now after almost a year of being single and sexless, im finally talking to someone. Obviously when I'm talking to a potential boyfriend the most important things I'm looking at are his personality traits, how he treats me, how he treats others, as well as some of his physical traits, like obviously if I'm attracted to him or not. But sometimes my mind wanders and I begin to get curious about how he is... down there. I had it so good in my last relationship and I'd hate to downsize if you know what I mean. I'm not a very shallow person but if a guy couldn't please me in bed, I wouldn't be able to deal with it, even if I really really liked him. So guys for those of you who have smaller packages; is it something that you've learned to work with to please your partner or is it more so that your partner just needs to accept what he or she is getting, good or not good?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yeah I don't know. I wish I was bigger but i'm above average.

But i'll relate what a user here who really liked shorter dicks told me.

The main advantage of shorter dicks is that with the right angle they can hit the g spot really well.

The most erogenous zones inside the vagina are the g spot, and a couple spots way at the back. Yeah, shorter isn't gonna hit the back ones as well, but it can almost hit the g-spot better. basically make sure he's aimed at the front wall.

Beyond that if his girth isn't that high, use positions that keep you as tight as possible.

1977Rob · Accepted Answer

I think you need to try to stop thinking about this. Otherwise you will get it in your head that if he is small the sex will be bad. And then its like a self fulfilling prophecy.

The fact is that you have only slept with one guy. So you don't know if the sex was good just because of his size or because of other stuff as well.

And if you give it a chance, then the sex with this guy could be really good. But if you convince yourself that if he is small it will be bad, then you could ruin it for yourself.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Either you accept and get used to the size or let it be. I refuse to accept a small penis

SunDevil11 · Answer

I think it is about both partners working together and communicating what turns them on, what works, and what does not. It is not always about the size or one person over the other

NJ_Casanova · Answer

You should update your profile and put in what you consider small. Since you only had 1 dick... you perception probably is skewd.

I'm on the other end where I'm usually too thick, etc. and have to take things slow/alot of foreplay to warm her up.

spencify · Answer

enjoy the small things in life

jjmarvin · Answer

I honestly have no idea what to do. I read all these tips n junk but I don't know. seems like if they don't like the look of it there's nothing to be done.

cou82 · Answer

i am 4.9 inch. i do a good bit of foreplay to get her close and then penetration to finish. sometime will lick multiple orgasms firsts depending how i feel

LastNightmare · Answer

my dear friend, everything depends upon how you use it for both. I really feel that you gonna do moves and let your guy do some gym. body needs to be flexible to do SEX or else it'll be no fun for you.