Guys, My First Oral Sex Experience... Now He's Gone!! What should I do?
It's this guy named Brent that I've known since high school that I've talked to on and off since 2012. Over this past weekend we kissed for the first time and he gave me oral 3 times. The next day Brent called asking how I felt about everything in general? I said good like my normal self, good. He then said I mentioned you to my cousin (“Bruce”) I told him that I have a crush on you and Bruce vouched that you are not an easy girl to get with that you haven’t been around. Honestly, that ticked me off because I felt that he should have known that himself and also I don’t think he said he had a crush on me I think he told him that he gave me oral. I took his bracelet for friendly collateral because I had accidentally left a few items at his house, he said I was looking for my bracelet to wear today and you took it; for some reason I couldn’t help but feel he let me keep it as a way to say good bye. Why? He said when you think of me look at your wrist he continued to say how he wasn’t much of a kisser but couldn’t wait to kiss me again. I haven’t heard from this jerk since Sunday and today is Wednesday! I refuse to call him because I feel hurt, betrayed. I feel like I was nothing more than a game; now that he accomplished having some form of sex with me that he no longer wants to pursue me. He said that I owed him letting him have oral sex on me because of how he always felt for me because in the past I never gave him a chance. I feel like this is payback for making him feel rejected when he chased after me for 2 years. Clearly I’m hurt and devastated because I pride myself in having a great amount of self-respect and dignity my emotions and human nature for a guy that I always liked allowed me to be vulnerable. The first time he tried to undress me I should have left. I want to mail him his bracelet back because I don’t want it. I noticed he didn't want to be satisfied in anyway which makes me more confused. Why would he treat me this way? What should I do?
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