Why do girls lie that they don't care about penis size, She cared about my size?

[Anonymous]

Disclaimer not all women, SOME.
I was dating a girl (let's call the girl I'm dating Sarah) and she's one of those girls who always talks about how men worry too much about penis size, how penis size doesn't matter, it's the motion in the ocean stuff, real life isn't like porn etc. Anyways we started dating for a few weeks. One day while she was at my places and she was showering, she left her phone was on my nightstand charging and she left it unlocked on the iMessage app and when I went to the nightstand to take the charger off her phone so I can charge my phone I saw her unlocked phone and text, I didn't mean to read it, but the phone was kinda in my face and the text.

And in the text between her and her friend they were talking about me. (I'm going to write out from what I remember of the message) I'm 6 inches long 5.3 inches girth thick by the way

Sarah: I'm at Jeffs place, I really think I should find someone else (I'm "Jeff" by the way)
Friend: Then do it, stop wasting time
Sarah: We aren't sexually compatible, 6 inches is small, I don't feel it does much for me like 7 or 8
Friend: then just find someone else, no need to lead him on
Sarah: Well I do like him, he's nice, but sex isn't going to work, he's a small guy
Friend: He can't be that small?
Sarah: I felt I was getting fucked by a child
Friend: That's so mean 😂😂
Sarah: LOL

Anyways to be honest this hit me really hard, like my confidence took a big hit. And yeah the next day she told me she wanted to see other people and I just accepted what she told me. I'm really struggling with this. I could use any advice, but I'm also confused on why she would say this when she's one of the girls who always says Guys worry too much about penis size and that size doesn't matter.

[Chico_brah]

You're fine dude. That woman has a gaping hole of a vagina. A lot of virgin girls on here say they want 8 inches but I don't think they realize 8 inches is actually fucking huge. They see porn and are psychologically attracted to the aesthetic appeal of a big cock.

I had this one girl who I was fucking around with back in the day who made cheap shot comments about my cock. She acted like she was all experienced but I later found out she was my first. I never measured my dick prior to this dude lol. I measured somewhere at 7 inches and this girl told me I'm not very tall down there ahah. Some girls just like to test your ego bro. See if you get insecure about it. Sarah is nothing but a sloot.

[Chico_brah]

I was her first*

[AnaWryneck]

My husband's is 11.5 so..8 isn't huge it's average in my opinion..

[Chico_brah]

@AnaWryneck Well I'm glad you're married to a man that carries a penis the size of what would be considered less than.01% of the population. 8 in not average. The fact that your husband is an apparent 11.5 inches doesn't negate that. Your husband is essentially a freak with the a penis at 11.5 inches. Very few women in this world could handle an 11.5 inch cock inside them so apparently you are a perfect match.

[AnaWryneck]

Lmao why thank you can I show him this I think he would like it he's not on this site I'm not sure what's the protocol on showing people who are not on here

[Chico_brah]

@AnaWryneck Sure dude. Do whatever you want.

[JHAYES317]

@AnaWryneck you are wrong. 8 in is 3 inches above average

[NerdInDenial]

Why do you hang your confidence on something that you cannot control? Your penis is normal; you do not have a micropenis. Your confidence should be hung on what you have accomplished in life and who you are as a person.

[Asker]

Thanks handsome :)

[CrystalChild]

Wow she sounds like a shallow girl who hasn't grown up yet. I'm so sorry that happened to you, that must have really hurt your feelings. You just need to forget her. My boyfriend isn't very "endowed" in terms of most guys but I literally don't care. He kept freaking out about it before we got together, but he's so kind, loving and thoughtful especially intimately and I wouldn't want anyone else but him. So yeah, I promise not all girls are like that. I personally would always make sure to be in love and trusting before getting intimate with someone. But that's just me. It decreases chances of stupid girls hurting you. Best wishes

[FolexGT]

Great comment. If you don't mind me asking, what do you mean by him "freaking out" about it before you were together?

[CrystalChild]

@FolexGT well that's a hyperbole, but I mean he kept mentioning he was worried I wouldn't like it and that its too small and things of that nature

[FolexGT]

Oh wow. How did you handle that? That kind of puts you in an awkward position. Plus some girls might not want to deal with a guy that's insecure.

[CrystalChild]

@FolexGT hm it didn't bother me. I'm white and he's Asian so he thought I was going to have these expectations I guess. Sex isn't my main priority in a relationship so although it turned out fine , even if we needed to work on our chemistry, I love him enough to work on that

[FolexGT]

That's awesome 😃. So ridiculous to feel that way. Did he stop mentioning that stuff eventually?

[CrystalChild]

@FolexGT oh yeah once we did the dirty I think he got the message xf

[FolexGT]

Hahaha. You set him straight lol. Good luck to you both 😃

[FolexGT]

Can I send you a PM? It's a question that's somewhat related for advice and your comments are good around here.

[CrystalChild]

@FolexGT sure thing

[LLEB007]

You are so right, a lot of guys worry if they are going to measure up particularly if your partner has had a few partners. Most girls tell me that a large penis can feel amazing and be very satisfying however in a relationship sex is only a small part of your time together so there are more important things in a man. Plus sex can still be great, so many ways to get pleasure

[Anonymous]

I honestly have no idea. Maybe because she got used to a bigger size, but it's not your problem dear. Your size is good and it's longer than the average. I wouldn't care about size. I just started dating this guy and he's so sweet. I don't care even if he is small for me

[LLEB007]

Exactly big penises may be satisfying but there are plenty of ways to get pleasure

[AnaWryneck]

I care but if she loves you she won't care my ex was the same way and I spent six years of my life with him I didn't lie to him and act like he was what he wasn't I just didn't mind because I loved him

[Anonymous]

such a slut, only care for penis size. you deserve better tbh

[GinaChapis]

Because they think that bigger means better, though it in reality can just be painful. I once hooked up with a very nice guy who joked/bragged about his "4 inches of fury" lol, he was so nice, his fingering game though, was on point lol

[FolexGT]

Did he bring the fury with those 4 inches? Lol

[ashameddude]

Why can't I ever find someone like you for a hook up? Someone who doesn't care about size and just looking for a little fun, pun intended.

[Bleh-___-]

Jesus Christ, 8 is average for her?
The problem wasn't with you buddy. You can breathe a sigh of relief.

[BuchitaBuchys]

6 inches is average. Your dick isn't small, her pussy is just loose.

[AnaWryneck]

Nah bruh where as the average size for a Caucasian male is 5.5 it varies and also I'm being small doesn't mean she's large

[BuchitaBuchys]

@AnaWryneck no wait. 6 is actually a bit above average lol

[ashameddude]

Average is like 5.2 which is around where I stand. If 6 is small for her, then she must think I have a micro dick. Might as well used a fist for her.

[JHAYES317]

Actually slightly above average

[skype1000]

Many really don't care about the size. However, few do care. I had a few ask me how many inchs is it. And I would say "are you fucking kidding me. Who goes around with a ruler and measures his dick."

[naomi10wylde]

that's fucked up... but I guess for the girls who lie about it they just want to make you feel better about yourself or something.

Side note: you're in no way small average is 5-6 so you're fine and most women will be happy with you

[Asker]

I feel many girls say "5-6 is average" because that's what she always said, but when it comes to her or other girls personally they want a 7 or 8 inches. I feel most girls will say average is fine but deep down they want a 7 or 8 inches. So even if 6 inches was average, what's the point if most girls crave 7-8 inches. At least that's what it seems to me.

[Asker]

I mean I know 5-6 inches is average but it seems the average women wants 7-8. So the average penis and what the average woman wants cancells itself out

[Asker]

sorry if I'm being too negative. It's hard to find the line between negativity and being realistic

[naomi10wylde]

personally I much prefer a 5-6 inch dick. That feels the best to me.

[Asker]

ok thanks :)

[Nikita06]

In my opinion, size cares.. in the first moment.. AND it depends about what you want of the guy!
If you just want sex and nothing else.. a big dick is OK.. but If you want love, I think u can deal with a Small dick..

[Asker]

so 6 inches is small in your opinion?

[Nikita06]

Medium

[Asker]

How tall are you? If you don't mind me asking.

[Nikita06]

Almost 5'2

[Asker]

I was just wondering if you were like tall, like if taller women prefer bigger dicks

[FroggyDoggy96]

I would just tell her that you had an "off night" because you felt a little uncomfortable, and you wanna give it another go. This time however, you better really fuck her. Even if you were fully hard last time, you better make the adjustments. Maybe new positions, more intensity, tease her, etc. Don't fuck her like a child, fuck her like an adult.

[FroggyDoggy96]

Oh, but if you see her as a bitch for this, then just move on. I will say though, don't let it hurt your confidence. In my opinion, 6 inches is not only not small, it's a bit above average. Like I said though, next time, make sure you put in work with what you got. Don't feel bad about your dick size (which is fine), be motivated to fuck the brains out of the next girl you sleep with. Let your 6 outwork another dude's 9.

[traveler68]

Only about 7% of men are 8" or over. Wish her luck with that one.

[helva]

I don't really see why she calls 6 inches a small one and don't understand she felt as she was fucked by a child.

[Sparklegemz]

She such a bitch !!

[Nelsoen]

I don't think I would've told anyone about this...

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Wow, maybe be like,
"Perhaps your vagina is too big, and it feels like...
https://i.imgur.com/njP8QxN.gif

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Say no more fam, make her cry

[ashameddude]

She one mean bitch for someone with a loose vagina. I don't think women understand that if they need an 8 inch penis, that means their loose as hell, which is something she shouldn't be proud of.

[NolimitCriss]

Fuck that bitch, bust in her mouth one last time and cut it off

[Anonymous]

not all are the same

[Anonymous]

Its not small.. And if she's choosing based on the sex then she's a bit cheap, sorry.

[Anonymous]

Rule #1, if you can drop a hillshire farm summer sausage in her cooch and then can't find it for retrieval after doing a bit of light spelunking, you dont wanna be dating that. Has nothing to do with your size, its her. 6" is more than big enough.