I hate to say this but it sounds like he just wants to be f*ck buddies. I don't think that you can expect a real relationship out of this based on his behavior. From personal experience I think he did use you, and he just wants to hook up again when he is around you. I would honestly suggest moving on. Find someone who doesn't just want to be f*ck buddies and treats you like a human-being with respect. And the next time, do NOT hook up with a guy if you want to be in a relationship with him. Wait until you are in a relationship so the guy gets to know you, doesn't use you, and doesn't think of you as being easy. I'm sorry if this sounded blunt, but I have gone through what you are going through now, and it took someone being brutally honest to me to realize what I was doing wrong. Hope the next time it works out better for you =)
1 0 0 0Thanks you for your help! ill try to resist the urge! but I either getta just hook up with him or never talk to him and I feel like id rather be able to kiss him and touch him then never get to touch him or talk:[
Well, I am not a guy, but I am pretty sure he doesn't like you anymore...
0 0 0 0:[ thanks for your advice :[
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the end says it all we men or at lest me are thick headed and it takes a lot more than assumptions to get through he more than likely is thinking friends with benefits, booty call, or even a one night stand with a friend. Sorry to put it like that but he probably is not that in to you.
More than likely you are being played like a video game.0 0 0 0:[ that's what I thought.. so not matter how long you've been friends with someone they'll still use you if they're a player? cause he said he wanted to hook up again after? so what do you think I should do? like when ever I see him should I just hook up with him just because I like him and I want to get some and pretend like I don't have feelings. Or should I not hook up with him anymore because I have too many feelings?
Be friends with him if you wish, sleep with him if you want to, it might or might not go some where. I think you are in the friend zone though it is a little different from a friend zone a guy goes into. the one big difference is that a girl in the friend zone a guy will sleep with her but the relationship but once a guy hits the friend zone their is no chance of sex or relationship
A girl in the friend zone has little to no chance at a relationship but may be a one night stand or a booty call every now and then
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