My boyfriend watches porn, the girls look NOTHING like me?

[Anonymous]

Okay so me and my boyfriend came up what a stupid idea that we would show each other our favorite porn stars of the opposite sex, the guy I showed him shares his description pretty much. The girl she showed me literally is my complete opposite, there's been an awkward silence for about 30 minutes now mostly on my side, I'm just here thinking like damn am I even your type? Are you even attracted to me. He actually showed me his "top 3" and their all completely opposite of me. I know it's in realistic of me to assume or want to be the woman he's most attracted to, but this is really not a good feeling, thoughts?

[Mynameisnottolong]

Don't worry about it really its okay, he did choose you out of all the other ones. Guys have fantasies... A lot and we love porn there's no helping that. So its natural if his idol is different from you. Its cute that your porn is similar to what he looks like, but at the same time do you want him fantasizing about a woman that looks like you? Maybe pick up some tips from his porn video and try to copy them? Youd be helpping his fantasy rather than the video he's watching. Maybe consider making a porn for him?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Haha, well it would be pretty weird to watch porn and the girl looked like your FREAKIN girlfriend getting pounded by some other dude. How could you stay turned on lol. I would be happy

[Asker]

Hmmm interesting view lol

[_shinningstars_m]

I think that you are thinking too much of it. Some guys are into very freaky porn and they like it because they probably don't know how to approach you about the subject. My boyfriend and I done that before and I asked him and he told me and he also told me not to take it the wrong way. So try spicing things up between you two ( I am not saying that things are boring or anything) but you know...

[Asker]

That's the thing though it wasn't even freaky porn just regular sex and Im the one who always tries to spice things up because honestly I'm not satisfied with our sexual relationship but I look past it because I love him but now it's just like I don't even know

[_shinningstars_m]

Maybe you should just ask him...

[AnaWryneck]

Who watches porn that looks like the person they're with what's even the point? To look at the other person and say oh yeah that should be me with the person I can have sex with at anytime? Why does he even have to have a type this is literally a suck the fun out of life situation

[BuchitaBuchys]

Get used to it girl.

That was my issue with my exes too. Like damn, I looked nothing like the porno chicks he watched.
Which sucks because I get you, you wanna be your mans fantasy and there he is, jerking it to someone that doesn't even resemble you. :/

[Asker]

Lmaooo omg you just made it worse I feel like I'm about to cry now and he's literally sitting inches away smiling at memes on Facebook 😭

[BuchitaBuchys]

Im sorry I can't help but I get you. I felt like absolute shit.

[Asker]

lol it's cool I'm glad someone can relate were you able to move past it without it being in the back of your mind all the time?

[BuchitaBuchys]

Honestly, no. But its only because he was a cheater. Like if I knew I could absolutely trust him, I would probably have been able to push it to the back of my mind. But even so, it would be very hard to move past the fact that im not his fantasy girl.

[Asker]

Thanks for your answers at least I know I'm not tripping or the only one who would feel this way. If this relationship doesn't work out I'll make sure to never even ask in the next one 😂

[MrOracle]

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a5423-why-men-watch-porn

[Drake5]

actually, that could be a good thing. he might see them as toys, or fake, but see you as a real, honest girl that he truly likes, maybe even loves.

[Asker]

Hmmmm :)

[FusionGuy]

LOL.. you asked for his favourite pornstar, not a pornstar that looks like you.
Expectations vs reality

[AnaWryneck]

Exactly

[zl00pedragl0ver]

I can only speak for myself! I like LOTS of different sheilas, but the thing that is really important to me in a sheila is that she is not a prude. I don't really care for airheads either. Ignorance i can cope with.

[RaisingKaneFromHell]

I think the worst thing is for you two to compare yourself's to porn stars.
None of my business but that's why these disagreements happen in relationships.

[Kuraj]

How do you know you aren't the woman he is the most attracted to?
I wouldn't call pornstars the pinnacle of beauty or anything, most of them are horribly average chicks with lots of makeup and fake tits.

[Asker]

Very true

[Wingedz]

You suppose to be scare if they looks like you, they will love them instead of you.

[Asker]

lol I'd feel okay like okay at least i fit the description of what he jerks off to when I'm away

[HarryJBenton]

If you asked me my favourite pornstars I'd be listing them purely for their physical appearance. When you're in a relationship with someone their personality is way more important. Hope that answers your question.

[scooogy]

That's why pictures of my girl are the best porn for me.

[Asker]

Ur amazing. He does usually ask me for videos / pictures but not as of lately

[Anonymous]

you are not his type

[Asker]

Shut up

[Opinion Owner]

You asked for my opinion if you want me to tell you good things no i won't i will tell the truth, i will tell you brutual truth even you don't accept it. That's the reality.

[Anonymous]

Damn he fell for one of the traps...

[Asker]

Loool

[Anonymous]

Can I ask roughly how they're different?

[Asker]

Well two of them were different races another just was different body wise everything was fake and huge

[Anonymous]

pornstars are just what should turn them on quickest; the person he's in a relationship is to turn him on when its right and have an enjoyable personality