My Boyfriend Lied About Being A Virgin?
The truth is this.
His church was a Very Traditional Hispanic Church, with 1 Head Pastor and 3 Youth Pastors. Youth Pastors worked with Kids and teens. He was one of the Youth Pastors from the age of 19-24. He only had 1 girlfriend for 5 years. They never had sex since 'sex before marriage' is a sin in his religion, so they were waiting until marriage. Around the age of 23 he started question his religion, by the age of 24 he lost his faith and left the church. Around this same time him and his girlfriend broke up since their views weren't compatible anymore. He spent a lot of time "Soul Searching". Eventually he became an Atheist. He currently goes to college where he eventually he met me. When I asked him why did he lie about his virginity he told me it's because he's seen many situations where people make fun of virgins, especially older male virgins, that he's even had people make fun of him when he was a virgin pastor waiting until marriage.
He even brought up how one day a while back he hypothetically asked me "What do you think of people who are virgins till the age of 25" and I told him "It's a bit weird" and my response scared him. I just meant weird as in it's odd and not something I see everyday, I had no idea he was talking about himself back then, I didn't mean it that way.
On some level I feel hurt he lied to me, On some level it would have been nice to know that my first time was also his first time. But on another hand I also understand him.
What would you do in my shoes? How would you feel?
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