How to get rid of sexual frustration?

[ElCoffee]

Hello, straight to the point my new years resolution was to not watch porn again (successful since 01-01-2017) and I had other resolutions too but not the point right now. I mean it's not like I was some addict or something, but I did watch a good amount of porn. It wasn't hard at first (not watching pornography, not my genitals), but sometimes (like 4 times a week) I get this frustration that my body just wants to watch porn, simply masturbating isn't enough (huh? I don't know...) and I don't know, maybe I should watch porn, or there is like any other way I could get rid of this frustration?
Note: I am sexually active... well active-ish, like twice a month or so.
Another off-topic note: Had 3 other resolutions and still kept them (bragging? maybe, hihi)

[slatyb]

You get rid of sexual frustration by having sex. If you don't have a partner, then masturbate. If your own fantasies are not working, then watch or read something exciting. It doesn't have to be hard-core porn, there are a lot of mainstream movies with some very hot scenes. But porn is fine too.

How much porn did you watch last year? If it's less than half an hour per day, then forget about it. Most people waste that much time on Facebook. Instead of resolving to not watch porn, resolve to do something constructive with your time. You will feel better, and can still watch porn.

[ElCoffee]

Well masturbation isn't enough and sex is rare in my relationship, cause my girlfriend has some health problems considering that area for the past 4 months or so (nothing serious) and I don't know, like half an hour would be a good description. But I hated porn, still watched it, really annoyed myself, so I resolved not to watch it. Well I do have constructive time, I'm always trying to do something, but whenever I'm tired and resting *it calls to me* is a good description... I really don't like watching porn, but it just feels like I need it, I want to have some other way to put away my desires or calm them or so.

[slatyb]

I'm sorry your girlfriend is not feeling well. I hope she recovers soon. Do you feel guilty for watching porn, or do you really not like it?

[ElCoffee]

No I don't feel guilty, I just dislike the idea of porn entirely. Thank you.

[OlderAndWiser]

Sounds like your girlfriend isn't keeping up with you.

[ElCoffee]

Tell me about it

[OlderAndWiser]

Have you discussed it with her?

[ElCoffee]

Many times, even if she is healthy, she's always too tired and worrying about something, can never relax and so, never really in the mood, only when i climb mountains to put her in one

[OlderAndWiser]

That is the kind of thing that does not get better as you spend more time together.

[Anonymous]

maybe get a girlfriend. O_O sheesh

[ElCoffee]

I have a girlfriend.

[Opinion Owner]

then do things with her lol spice sex up a bit. take dirty pics/videos of you both doing dirty stuff. im sure your own porn wouldn't be cheating on the whole porn strike thing. try dom/slave play. doing it in public. do something to distract yourself. or you could workout like a mad man