Why Do Women Allow Themselves to be Used?

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Serious question. From the Playboy Mansion to Leonardo DiCaprio, it is just amazing to me how many women are willing to allow themselves to be used by wealthy prestigious men. I was reading for example how they literally line up near Hefner's bedroom every night so that he can fuck them for 2 minutes with his viagra erection before kicking them out. Yet women choose to do this, just as they choose to date womanizers like Leo, Charlie Sheen, and even President Trump who clearly view them as nothing more than vehicles of pleasure and objects.

Clearly these women are not THAT stupid. At least not all of them. They have to know that there is no love or commitment involved, that they are just being used. Yet even so, they still choose to do it. I mean, don't they have fathers? This is the type of stuff every father warns his daughter about growing up yet women seem to be ignoring it or behaving as if they never even heard it.

Is it genuine stupidity or is it just wishful thinking?

Granted, the behavior of celebrities is not entirely similar to the behavior of "average" people so to speak. But even so, the principle is still the same. Women will STILL only sleep with the arrogant player types on campus who are only using them, as long as he has money and confidence.

I hate to say it, but it appears like every woman is inherently a prostitute. Like they all have a "price" wherein they will finally break.

samhradh_leannan · Accepted Answer

Usually they have low self esteem and they want the ego boost. They seek validation through attention from men, and they don't know how to value themselves without that type of validation. Either don't see that they're being abused, or they feel that they deserve poor treatment, or they believe that it's the price they pay for being with a wealthy/powerful/handsome/famous man.

RJGraveyTrain · Accepted Answer

Laundry list of reasons why they allow it:

- They weren't taught to value themselves
- They get monetary gain out of it
- It's an ego boost
- They don't give a fuck and like it

Either way, it's not my business and they can do what they want. I personally wouldn't let myself be used but I can't make other girls behave in such a way. It's their life.

ShaunaM95 · Accepted Answer

I don't have time for any guy that uses me. If that's their intentions then they can f*ck right off, I do not have the time of day for it. I won't allow it. I have too much respect for myself to let that happen.

DNB1994 · Accepted Answer

Don't date a dbag, as simple as that. You know the dudes with the muscle shirts and biceps that still pretend they are in a college fraternity despite the fact that their 30. Yeah you'll be used. Try dating someone like me or anyone that has respect for women and recognizes right from wrong very easily.

Nightinggale · Accepted Answer

It could be like I've been saying, that most women are essentially prostitutes.

Cosytoasty · Answer

They want to be the one to tame him, it's that simple - I don't have a problem with that, it's good they get involved in the game. What irritates me is when they complain about it.