It sounds like you are open to experiment, but you aren't ready to take that step yet. Let me tell you about swingers: there are a not a bunch of women out there looking to threesome with a married couple--they exist, just not lots of them. What you'll find among swingers are mostly couples for swaps or fourways. There are a lot over great people in the lifestyle, but don't even start if you are jealous.
0 0 0 0If you are the jealous type, then it will most likely ruin your relationship. What is more important to you? Feeling loved or being very satisfied sexually?
0 0 0 0Both
If you are determined to try it, find a girl that you are good friends with and you would like to have a relationship with (not a hook up) and bring her into your relationship permanently, including living together and having kids together. I think adding 2 other girls permanently would be best so there is an even number and nobody would ever feel left out or ignored.
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It's a fantasy- not something you should live out.
The jealously will kill your relationship if you attempt to live out this fantasy. My suggestion is to work on yourself and your relationship emotionally then try in a few years1 0 0 0Yea that's what I was thinking just to wait a little. Thanks!
Why would you risk your relationship like this? When he is fucking the other girl on the side... you only have yourself to blame.
0 0 0 0What?
I don't have myself to blame at all I'm not the cheater here
Then go ahead have a threesome I think you should
"I am a VERY jealous person "
Then it's a VERY bad idea and it will ruin your relationship.0 0 0 0
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1 6Threesomes can kill relationships if the girlfriend is the jealous type, I am telling you this now otherwise talk to him about it. Talk about what you want to try out and set some guidelines. Personally, I would tell you to just keep it a fantasy
0 0 0 0it's sounds like a terrible idea and I recommend u just let go of that fantasie
0 0 0 0But I don't want to keep it s fantasy
honestly I suggest u let go of the idea all together. there a part of u that says it be awesome but it self destructive. Just look how much u agonized over it already. why would completing it make it better it only make it worse. let ur man be enough for u and u are enough for u man. there no need for a third party
If you are this turned on but also this angsty about threesomes you can... Try to suppress the urge and deny yourself threesomes.
Do the threesomes and try to just deal.
Or combine the two. Research "cuckqueaning."0 0 0 0My husband and I are talking about one.
0 0 0 0you think more than action.
0 0 0 0if you are jealous it won't work out very well
0 1 0 0the female mind has always left me bewildered *feeling so confused about women these days
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