He cums really quick. Would he be able to satisfy me in bed?

My boyfriend really cum very quickly. You can say when he jerks off for 10-20 seconds he cum. And if I gave him handjob then maximum 30 seconds.
We both are virgin. What would happen if we have sex. Will he also last for same time maximum 30 seconds or is there any difference between jerk off/handjob and sex.
Is he sexually weak? Should he get some medication or?
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  • Of course he can/could. It means nothing. He's a virgin still and young so he gets VERY excited still. All you have to do is get him to cum right away (or have him masturbate before hand) and while his body is regenerating, he can work on you, oral or massage whatever (foreplay) until he's hard again. Not only will he last longer the second time but you'll be ready to go by then also. This will probably get better the more sex he has and with you, it will become less exciting to where he won't cum so fast. It's all new still so this is NORMAL. If it doesn't though, and it continues, he might suffer from PE, in which case there are techniques he or both of you can do and try. There are also creams, lubes etc that desensitise the area that he could also try. It will most likely just get better the more sex he has though and with practice.

  • It's perfectly normal at his age to be nuttting his geez so quickly. The chances are he finds you so hot such that he can't hold back his geez even when you both eventfully engage in vaginal-penile sex.

    It's likely the world of girl-2-guy intimacy is new to him, and he's probably thinking more about his own sexual pleasure than yours. With time as he acquires much sexual experience, he would be able to last longer for 15 to 60 minutes.

    That said; he doesn't need any medication to make him delay his cumming. In another light, it is a good thing he is able to cum fast because there are guys with a sexual condition called delayed ejaculation (DE). DE is the inability of a male to climax, particularly during vaginal-penile sex.

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  • My last boyfriend was just like that and we found a way out. He would come real fast. There are several condoms in the market that retard him and help you orgasm, that's what we used. And you can both have oral sex. If you want some other tips I have them, I was kind of obsessed over it in the beggining so I learned a lot.

  • If he cum's that quickly with a handjob I'm thinking he would loose his load before he could get it inside your pussy.

    • is there anyway he could improve it?

    • You don't want him to cum in your pussy- anyway. Put a condom on. That may help him as well as save you from having a baby.

    • @thomasans what if I want to marry him

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  • he can still satisfy you, but he'll have to make an effort either before or after he finishes.

  • That's normal if he's a virgin. He's overly sensitized to sexual stimuli right now.

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  • You're both virgins so it's no surprise he cums so quickly. As you engage in more sexual activity, he'll be able to last longer. Also, there's more than just the penis to satisfy a woman. Just give him some time.

  • he could try slowing it down and focus on pleasuring you and not just himself

  • He can pleasure you in other ways even after he's cum.

  • It's most likely because he's a virgin. Guys need the experience to "Learn" how to control themselves.

  • I don't know... maybe he is too excited

  • He will cum fast.

    He's not weak he's excited.

    He needs practice and to actively work on relaxing while being stimulated.

    He could make you orgasm using Hans and his mouth while learning better control.

    • it seems he will always cum before I get orgasm

    • Not if he gives you one first.

    • Lucky Hans!

  • He can satisfy you in other ways, like oral sex

  • You could give him a HJ before having sex.
    He won't come as quikly the 2nd. time

  • It all depends on how turned on he is.

    • It is also wise to figure that out from experience, and see if he can satisfy you.

  • He'll need practice to last longer. Also sex isn't all about penetration, I can think of at least 5 different ways i can make my girl cum without using my dick.

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  • He is a virgin for God sakes... why do you expect him to have any experience?

    And by the way if he has sex with you he might cum quickly but with time and more sex he will improve himself... Eventually
    Only PRACTICE will improve it so give him a chace

  • cumming quick or slower is just a matter of training some muscles that control ejaculation... girls nowadays are so shallow geez

  • he needs to practice strengthening and relaxing his pelvic floor muscles, it directly controls how long a guy can last in bed

  • Well give him a chance, he could always just eat you out

  • He needs to learn to edge. You can help. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orgasm_control

  • practice makes a man perfect. your boyfriend is new to sex thats why it is happening, as you both ahve sex, day after day, he will get better

  • You'll never know until you try. Either you have amazing magic fingers with your hands which would be awesome or more likely he's got the premature disorder.

  • what's your age? what's his age? are you both sexually active?

    • I am 21 He is 23 both virgin

    • he'll satisfy you. you both jury need proper guidance

  • I used to have a similar issue... not in seconds but usually a couple minutes i guess. Just jerk off until he is about to cum, stop and take a break, then go back, build up stamina and keep doing it.

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