GIRLS, do you really expect all BLACK GUYS to have BIG DICKS?

[Anonymous]

Okay, so I'm black and a virgin. You might have heard the myth that "all black guys have big dicks", well my penis is 4.2 inches so that's a little below average in my country (USA).

However, this "BBC" stereotype is pretty scary as this has indoctrinated many women (mostly white women) into believing that the stereotype is a fact. One time, I was making out with a black girl and when we were about to get it on, she looked at my dick and just laughed and told me "I've seen white boys with bigger dicks than you" and she got up and left. It was the most humiliating moment of my life. I lost a lot of self-confidence.

A few weeks ago, I eventually built the courage to start going into the nightlife again. However, this white girl started hitting on me in the club and we had a few conversations. The topic eventually went towards sex and she asked me "is it true what they say about black guys" I pretended I didn't know what she was talking about and tried to change the topic and she then said to me "I'd love to feel your big black cock in my tight little white pussy. You want that?"

There's no way I was getting humiliated again so I pretended that I needed to go. I think it would much more humiliating to see a brainwashed white woman mocking me for my penis because she expected me to big because of my skin color.

This "BBC" stereotype may seem complimentary to us, but it is still fetishizing us and can be somewhat dangerous to the other black men who are not so well endowed.

So girls, black or not black, do you really expect all black guys to have big dicks?
If you're a white girl, how would you react if a black guy you were making out with had small penis?

[SaoirseS]

I don't know where the stereotype comes from, but in high school I had black guys hit on me and claim if I'd never been with a black guy, I didn't know what I was missing. You know, the larger penis thing and comments like "once you go black, you won't go back." I think part of it is some guys like to perpetuate the stereotype, and it's a comment that's gone around so much people repeat it, and believe it.

I'm short and petite, so believe me, your 4.2 inch penis would appeal to me much more than someone with a really large one. 4-6 inches is just fine with me. I don't need a lot of girth either. There really is such a thing as TOO big for those of us who are petite, especially when it comes to girth.

I've had sex with two black guys (I'm half white, half Asian), one was probably around your size. The other was really large (but he was a pretty tall, heavyset guy). Regardless of race, intercourse with men having large penises usually requires a little added lubrication to make it comfortable.

[Jasper007]

I’m 7 half inches and 1 inch thick🤭🤪

[Anonymous]

I'm a white girl. I work at a hospital and I can tell you that black men don't always have big dicks. It really depends on the person. I am also dating a black man, but he is very well endowed. Again, it really depends on the person. I'm sorry that you were humiliated by that girl. It's not all about size either. There are guys with big dicks who have no idea how to please a woman. Not all women are shallow. If you're self conscious about your dick game, make sure you're good at something else, like oral. As long as you know how to please a woman, you'll be alright.

[Asker]

Why do you think this stereotype exists, though? Did you decide to date a black man because of his penis size?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not sure why it exists. People are ignorant. I did not decide to date him because of his dick size. He is an amazing, interesting, funny person and I fell for him because of that.

[cupcake_625]

I've never had sex with a black guy so I don't know but I've heard about the big dick stereotype and I always assumed it was true tbh, along with the saying "Once you go black, you never go back". I always assumed that it had something to do with black guys having big dicks. But I also believe that skin color has nothing to do with endowment. There are some white guys, black guys, latinos, etc. who are very well endowed while some others of the same race are not. As long as you find someone who accepts you for who you are, you should be good.

[Asker]

You assumed it was true, so would you be shocked (in a negative way) if a black guy you dated had a below average penis?

[Alteredstates]

Too bad Cupcake, once you tried a big black cock you will fall in love...

[JessicaSnowbunny]

Don't knock it till you try it.

[Cccgala]

How can skin color guarantee that? Those girls are plain ridiculous and overly superficial; laugh at them, will you? The first girl you mentioned infuriated me because there were other ways to get her point across without getting unnecessarily blatant.

To answer your question, no. I'm not white and I'm not going to expect every black guy to be well-endowed. We're in reality, folks!

[Asker]

If only more women thinked like you.

[SoWhAt249]

Ahhh... Where is this world going to? I'm sorry that this happened to you. And I can relate. I've not been made fun of, but a certain girl once just implied that she would have preffered a bigger dick than mine even before taking it up her snatch. I'm average and she couldn't really take it. Her vagina was very shallow and it hurt her when I'd hit her cervix. I can only imagine she slept with guys smaller than me before and they didn't work out for her, but I'm mad that she thought she needed more than I packed. The world is going to shit bro... Don't stress yourself out too much. You'll eventually find someone who aprecciates your personality and not your dick...

[JDavid25]

Yeah, that's pretty sad that we are just some BBC experience, instead of being handsome, sweet, charming guys like everybody else.. Yeah, a lot of women may expect it, gravitate toward us because of that stereotype.. But there are many women who simply like us for better reasons.. Also, the stereotype while exaggerated is not unfounded cause there is a study that says the men in Africa do have one of the bigger averages in the world.. But, most girls shouldn't even care.. Lol.

[HOAAH]

no I would not, I'm not big into stereotyping... just saying

[Kitten967]

No I don't

[Asker]

Would you be shocked (in a negative way) if a black guy you were making out with had a below average penis?

[Kitten967]

No I wouldn't be

[FruitTingler]

I believe it's more common for a black guy to be more packing than a white guy, but I'd never expect it haha.
No one should care too much about dick size unless it's like 2 inches and plus, if your partner loves you then it definitely won't matter. My boyfriend is an 8 though ;D

[Asker]

So technically, you do believe in the stereotype... What race are you and what race is your partner?

[FruitTingler]

No, I don't. Statistics prove that the average penile size in men is 4-6 inches. white men 4-5, Asian men 4 and black men 5-6. That does not mean black guys have big penises and does not mean Asians have small ones. it's just race average. it's the same with height.

[Asker]

"I believe it's more common for a black guy to be more packing than a white guy" Don't tell me that you didn't just contradict yourself.

[FruitTingler]

It is. lol, but I don't expect a guy to match his statistics.

[NJ_Casanova]

I think the people that "assume that" are uneducated and don't realize that stereotype isn't true.

[Asker]

They most likely watch too much interracial porn.

[traveler68]

Media & social media leave people believing all kinds of stupid shit.

[sweetlivy]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHA

[Asker]

Do you have an answer to my question or not?

[sweetlivy]

That was my answer.

[Asker]

That's not an answer to my question, though. All you're doing is trying to mock me instead of taking my question seriously.

[sweetlivy]

I wasn't mocking you. I only found the part where the white girl said that to you, pretty humorous. Sorry if you took it the wrong way. :) To answer your question, since I'm black... I date black guys. I don't have a racial preference but I just find black/mixed guys pretty attractive. One I dated recently was about average sized. My new boyfriend is pretty thick and wide, but I haven't seen the entire thing... only through his boxers or something, haha. But to answer your question, I don't expect them all to have large penises. It really depends on how much protein the individual carries within, as well as how athletically fit they are and how they take care of themselves. That's only my opinion though! I don't know if it's necessarily true or false but that's my basic assumption.

[Asker]

Hmm, I understand. But thanks for answering my questions. Also, how would you feel if a black guy you meet had a below average penis?

[sweetlivy]

Define "below average."

[Asker]

Well the average size in the US is 5.1 inches long, if that helps. I'm about 4.2 inches.

[sweetlivy]

Penis size doesn't matter to me. As long as the other person loves me, there's a connection, and the sex would feel better regardless of size. <3

[Spellfire22]

I only hooked up with one black guy, and he was about seven inches (I didn't actually measure).

[Asker]

What race are you? Do you expect all black guys to have big dicks, though?

[Spellfire22]

I'm white, and no, I don't expect that.

[Asker]

Why do you think the stereotype exists?

[Okfchi]

I am an arab and it is stereotyped that African men (and it goes Afro-American men too) have wild huge penises. It is stereotyped even in our literature about far far regions like Africa and its men. Sad.

[sweetlivy]

Random fact... the human race originated in Africa, so technically we're all black. 😂

[Okfchi]

@sweetlivy African men as if in African men living in the wild African forests (and all the drama retold in stories and narratives)

[Rissyanne]

Just remember a big dick does not equal good sex.

[Asker]

Unfortunately, many girls my age would disagree. 😕

[lovelyhoneybones]

No, we don't expect all black males to have big dicks. That's unrealistic. I personally think big dicks are overrated.

[Asker]

Why do you think the stereotype exists, though?

[lovelyhoneybones]

Honestly, I don't know. I don't even know when it came about.

[Alteredstates]

What... shit one night with me and you will be in love LMAO!

[Nadzzz]

Luckily I don't have these ideas

[Princeofanons]

In order for you to understand, you should be trying a big black dick yourself and see whether that's pleasurable for your ass. Then you should try a smaller dick and see the difference. Only then can you really make a consensus decision. Problem solved...

[Ladyslipper]

My first black boyfriend had a small dick, it's okay

[Asker]

Did it bother you?

[Ladyslipper]

Not at all. I always assume that women who only like big dicks have big vaginas.

[Alteredstates]

Yea sorry bro, only half black and I am gifted 9 inches with girth, at first I thought it was curse cause I tried fucking this you girl when I was a kid and was unable to penertrate her she was to small same age. Then my little sister baby sitter saw the bulge and when my sister went to sleep she seduce me. She said I had the bigger dick then most men she had at 13 years old. Game on sine lol!

[JessicaSnowbunny]

Pretty much

[chrissyb21]

I expect a black man to know how to fuck better but not have a big dick.

[Asker]

Black guys are bad in bed?

[chrissyb21]

bad as in good? yes. they are better than whites

[JessicaSnowbunny]

true

[MostADay]

Ultimately money is what matters in this life and black men are usually broke. Whites live better.

[Anonymous]

Well, I've never been with a black guy and I've heard people saying they have bigger dicks.
However, I believe this might just a stereotype, just like people say white guys have small dicks. And I also don't believe in that.
So, no I don't expect all black guys to have big cocks.

[JessicaSnowbunny]

Don't knock it till you try it.

[Opinion Owner]

@JessicaSnowbunny I've never been with a white guy either, so...

[JessicaSnowbunny]

not much to miss

[Opinion Owner]

@JessicaSnowbunny Well I still like them

[Anonymous]

Nope. I've been with all races and the black guys never were extremely bigger. Always average. The biggest dick was my first, who I lost my virginity to and he was from Europe. White guy.

[Asker]

What race are you and what size was he?

[Anonymous]

No, I expect all men have big dicks, regardless of their color, and I always end up disappointed :P

[nudeNhorny]

you will always get disappointed

[Opinion Owner]

@nudeNhorny Why? :P

[nudeNhorny]

Because the majority of men have average to smaller than average dickd

[Opinion Owner]

@nudeNhorny You think so?

[nudeNhorny]

only small percentage of men have bigger than average dicks

[Opinion Owner]

@nudeNhorny How would you know, are you interested in men? Have you ever been in a relationship with a man? No! Well, I know lots of girls whose boyfriends had big dicks, and I envy them.

[nudeNhorny]

I know because I'm smaller than average myself, and I'm not interested in men I'm interested in cocks and never been in a relationship with a man but I saw a lot of nude men before, so based on that most of the men (not all of them) are not big, how you know about other girls boyfriends dicks, have you seen them?

[Opinion Owner]

@nudeNhorny No, I haven't seen their dicks, they told me. Where have you seen so many naked men, in the nudist colony?

[nudeNhorny]

in lockers, communal showers and nude beaches

[Opinion Owner]

@nudeNhorny So, why are you watching dicks if you're not interesting in men? :P

[nudeNhorny]

I like to compare :P

[Opinion Owner]

@nudeNhorny Do you envy them? :P

[nudeNhorny]

Only those who have dicks bigger than mine :P

[Opinion Owner]

@nudeNhorny Bigger in length, or just in girth? :D

[nudeNhorny]

bigger in both :P

[Opinion Owner]

@nudeNhorny I see, so which one do you envy a bit more? :D

[nudeNhorny]

6-7 inches nice girth cut and shaved smooth

[Opinion Owner]

@nudeNhorny Cool, I like that girth :P

[nudeNhorny]

Ya if I see similar one I can't remove my eyes from it :p

[Opinion Owner]

@nudeNhorny Oh, well, that's kinda weird for a guy :P

[nudeNhorny]

Guys also can be in awe of a cock even straight guys, have you ever heard of penis fetish

[Opinion Owner]

@nudeNhorny Yeah, I heard about that fetish in girls and gay men, but not in heterosexual men :P

[nudeNhorny]

I can assure you even some straight men have it especially those with smaller than average dicks like myself :P

[Opinion Owner]

@nudeNhorny Ok, I believe you, but why?

[nudeNhorny]

Can we continue this conversation in private you can go to my profile and message me I can talk with you about whatever you want

[Jasper007]

Mine is 7 half inches 1 inch thick would you like that size?

[Opinion Owner]

@Jasper007 Of course I would.

[Opinion Owner]

But it's not thick enough :(

[Anonymous]

People who believe stereotypes often aren't the smartest.

[Asker]

True.

[JessicaSnowbunny]

Stereotypes are there for a reason

[Anonymous]

I've been with 3 black guys and two of them were average size (6 inches) and one was about 7-8 inches. I dont expect a guy to have a big penis because most guys just dont.

[Asker]

What race are you?

[Opinion Owner]

White

[Asker]

So is the "BBC" stereotype the reason why you decided to date black men?

[Opinion Owner]

No I dated white and Spanish guys to. It wasn't a race thing for me.

[traveller8989]

Average is around 5.2, not 6..

[Anonymous]

To me size doesn't matter , my man penis size is under yours but he's great and I enjoy having sex with him