Masturbation tips please help?

Hi I am a 17 year old girl who wants to masturbaute has anyone got any tips on how to do it to get a good orgasm, I will do it by myself so only give me tips on how I can do it, and also I can't buy vibrators so please five me tips on how to do it with my hand , or is there any good household items I can use, please give me a detailed technique on how to get the best orgasm ever ,
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  • I would say that the best masturbation is probably going with whatever you want to do and not to necessarily try new things.. but whats the harm in experimenting?

    Starting from the more normal things we got masturbating to porn or other erotic literature. Works wonders for most people. As for how you want to masturbate that is up to you in this case.

    Next you have the option of doing it in the bath or using a showerhead to stimulate yourself. Many women reeeeally likes the shower heads but I think its mostly down to the design of it and functions.

    Going for some more obscure things we have humping. Now if you want to hump on something like furniture or just rub yourself against a plushie/pillow its up to you but many women can get great pleasure out of finding the ideal thing to rub their panties (or not) against. I have seen women both do this by riding the object or laying down like a body pillow.

    You could also use something like an electric toothbrush if you are careful or use it on your panties to make it less intense.

    There is always also the option of using your ass but as far as I know its mostly for women who do that together with porn or has a fascination with it and not just as a stimulation alone.

    But as I said at the start, do what you feel most comfortable with. If you want to enhance the experience you could extend it. Like try watching porn while slowly masturbating for a few hours without letting yourself reach an orgasm. That extra sexual tension should make it worth it by the end.

  • Umm I know how I made other girls orgasm but =.=! Don't think I can compete with girls themselves masturbate so try if my technique not good enough but at least it's something till other girls come to assist u ;) .

    1- I start with fore play kiss huge teasing etc.
    U skip that mostly coz u r alone So once u horny u can jump into action.
    2- I start kissing almost entire body after I finish my sensation move ;) touching her body with my hands soft touch running my fingers around on her skin to reach her thighs kiss her there.
    Then I go back up and make out while my hands reach the panties and start touching gently ( don't remove pants yet they add texture to the touch it arouses her ) maybe u 2
    3- go under pants yet don't remove them just a kinky thing for some men and me.

    • 4- rubbing ur pussy in circulation motion =.=! Like the du on the mixer using 3 fingers go around in mediocre strength. 5- I say I am thirsty :) so I go down to dive ( in ur case u can add more spit to ur fingers and start going downward more ) Honorable mentions : A- important tip fondle ur boobs this entire sexual act suck them if u can :) girls like that. B- try using feathers to tease urself touch ur body with is or silly cloth. C- breath XD try to loosen up and don't be tense. Use ur imagination and watch something turn u on. Have fun

    • If u need more details I will try XD message me coz some are extreme so prefer not to say them coz it's a sort of things she told me in relationship that she fetishes them or like to be done to her whole ( it's her night special ) ;) one night all about her

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  • 1. set the mood (wear something that turns you on, light some candles or dim the lights)
    2. Take your time to explore, get to know yourself.
    3. Start by running your hands up your thighs or massaging around your boobs.
    4. Hold off on directly touching your vagina till you're wet, aroused, and it seems like you can't take it anymore.
    6. When you actually touch your clitoris start off light as a feather and then play with pressure and speed to what turns you on.
    7. Don't be scared to use lube
    8. You can either insert your finger, multiple fingers or a household item in, start by teasing yourself. (Things you can use include: hairbrush handles, cucumbers, carrots, just make sure it has no safety hazard. You can even try putting a condom on some of these items)
    9. Try edging. When you're about to orgasm, stop and wait 30 seconds before starting again, do this several times.
    10. Make sure your main focus isn't just to orgasm, but to have fun instead.

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  • It's all about getting to know yourself- everyone is different- both physically and mentally- you might not have the strongest orgasm (or even orgasm at all) at first, and that's OK. Keep at it, and figure out what works for you.

    • Yes Wisdom words final being said in gag

  • 17 year old girl? Time to explore it by yourself.

  • find yourself some private time, and explore, play with yourself, find what feels good for you. some like rubbing the clit directly, some like stroking above the clit, some like having fingers inside themselves, some like humping pillows etc. It's about experimentation and finding out what you personally enjoy.

    As long as you are not causing yourself or anyone else harm, there is no wrong answer here.